Queen's Pier...

Well in the last few days news it kept coming up w/ protesters trying to stop the gov't of removing the historical place - Queen's Pier at Central.

皇后最遲明日清場 - 林太單刀赴論壇 兩陣各不相讓

I personally don't have much attachment to it (ha, i'm still young) - yes, i feel sad that they moved the old Star Ferry (well, mainly is b/c it's so inconvenient now! so far away from 720 station)... Well, anyway, back to the pt, while I've no doubt that Queen's Pier is really "historical" - Queen Elizabeth? Prince Charles and many other Governors of HK had boarded there... many movies were taken place there.. etc etc.. YET, those ppl camping there and trying to stop the gov't just kinda annoyed me - of course, they've the right to express what they feel - yet, the decision of removing it - i'm sure, is not only started recently - it should have "consultation" period a while back?

at one pt of time i wanna go there and take a pict too - as a memory or sth - but then w/ all those ugly banners? i don't wanna remember the place like that...

besides, the gov't already doing relocation plan... so what's the big deal?? i mean, i don't know, maybe i'm just not care / sensitive enough w/ "historical" stuffs....

I don't know if the gov't "do it in the right way", i didn't really look into details of who's right / who's wrong - I just think some times we've to move on from the past - same w/ real life - easier to say than to do, of course.... but.. just need to some time...

FW: Before and After Marriage...

＜結婚前＞往↓看：

他：太好了！我期盼的日子終於來臨了！我都等不及了！
她：我可以反悔嗎？
他：不，你甚至想都別想！
她：你愛我嗎？
他：當然！
她：你會背叛我嗎？
他：不會，你怎麼會有這種想法？
她：你可以吻我一下嗎？
他：當然，決不可能只有一下！
她：你有可能打我嗎？
他：永遠不可能！
她：我能相信你嗎？

＜結婚後＞請從下往上看↑一次

FW: Friendship in HP, and Chinese Literature

I like To's writing from time to time... only can't really dedicate in his political view... anyway, although i ain't good at chinese literature, do agree with his view on HP...

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星期天休息(Appledaily)：陶傑
友情，有時只是共擁回憶中的一宵月影

《哈利波特》第七集問世，全球暢銷。一本小說超越了國界，得到全世界讀者的喜愛，一定有不 凡的地方。《哈利波特》講巫術世界，以英國的寄宿學校為背景，小說的情節富有英國的地域文化特色，然而幾個人物之間堅貞的友誼，卻訴諸人類的普世情感。

小孩子看《哈利》，情迷書中的魔法世界，都把自己代入主角哈利波特，而不知道哈利是一個孤兒，不知道沒有父母的童年是多麼悲痛。成年讀者看《哈利》，反而更喜歡哈利的好友榮恩（Ron）。榮恩是書中的綠葉，榮恩比較平庸，哈利得到全世界小讀者的恩寵，榮恩活在哈利的 影子。但榮恩來自大家庭，他填補了哈利波特的孤獨，他是哈利的好兄弟，危難時總站在他這邊，他與巨人象棋對決、對付佛地魔。對於哈利，榮恩不計利益，他們不是成人世界的「合作夥伴」，而是真朋友。成年讀《哈利》，最情傷處，就是驚覺真正的友情，只在童年和校舍的樓廊和青草地之間滋長，離開了學校，那樣純潔的友情歲月卻一去不回頭。

英國小說描寫友情是高手，像福爾摩斯系列的福爾摩斯和華生。一個是偵探，一個是醫生，華生的專業判斷往往為福爾摩斯破案提供科學的靈感。因為十九世紀末，英國的許多謀殺案都流行用毒藥，偵探身邊有一位醫生朋友，往往為作者省了許多解說的筆墨。史提芬史匹堡監製過一部電影《少年福爾摩斯》（港譯《魔笛追魂》），講福爾摩斯與華生在寄宿學校結識的經過，可見英雄情義 ，往往侶出少年 。

《哈利波特》的中國讀者，不知會不會為書中的友情感動呢？中國文學許多珍品，是友情薰焙出來的，像李白和杜甫之憐才相惜，兩人各自的朋友圈子，許多詩贈好友的口占之作，都成為流芳後世的紀錄，一部唐詩三百首，簡直是中國知識分子的友情之書。宣州謝朓樓餞別校書叔雲、贈衞八處士、贈孟浩然、江南逢李年，那是一個華采風流的年代，中國人懷情重義，信守盟約，朋友擁有的優點，不是眼紅嫉妒，而是互相欣賞。做李白和杜甫的朋友，即使沒有他們的才華，也何其幸運，一個名字，隨詩篇的題名和註釋得以攀留千古。

看《哈利波特》，榮恩這個小朋友特別令人疼愛。他知道哈利的名氣比他大，同是一家巫術學校的同學，榮恩也不無一點點兒童常有的醋意。朋友的定義，是在看見另一個靈魂之中映照的自己，為了公義，榮恩和哈利，還有一個妙麗，組成了決戰邪的神聖同盟，對朋友不離不棄。一個人榮華富貴的時候，圍附過來的酒肉相識多；失意倒楣的時候，剩下的知己還有幾人？蘇軾的赤壁賦，記述了蘇東坡與一個無名的朋友泛舟赤壁時的一段對話：「壬戌之秋，七月既望，蘇子與客泛舟遊於赤壁之下。清風徐來，水波不興。舉酒屬客，誦明月之詩，歌窈窕之章。」這時候，蘇軾在朝廷得了文字獄，貶謫黃州，在政治上，已經是待罪之身，以他的詩人性格，並無東山再起升官發財的可能。在人生低潮的時候，官場上趨炎附勢的酒肉酬庸，不落井下石，也一早就跑光了，只剩下一位好朋友陪蘇軾月夜泛舟，飲酒對談，與他杯澆塊壘，歌解鬱結，而且為蘇軾指點人生的迷津。「蘇子愀然，正襟危坐，而問客曰：『何為其然也？』客曰：『月明星稀，烏鵲南飛』，此非曹孟德之詩乎？」正是這位好朋友，先就赤壁夜遊的水月之思，發表了生命有涯、天地無的一番哲理，這才引發蘇軾的悟，把人生的失意，豁然想通，得到「自其變者而觀之，則天地曾不能以一瞬；自其不變者而觀之，則物與我皆無盡也。」最後二人相笑大喜：「相與枕藉乎舟中，不知東方之既白。」讀赤壁賦，為蘇軾的文采絕倒之外，最令人感觸的，是東坡何幸，擁有這樣一位好朋友。這位高人，沒有留下名字，他的音容議論，也隨同赤壁那明淨的月夜和我們的大文豪一起不朽。

沒有友情，也就沒有中國文學；沒有俠義，也沒有了中國文化的古典精神。不但李杜相從，蘇子與泛舟的友客留下了佳話，在江湖綠林，由荊軻刺秦的易水風蕭，到大刀王五的去留肝膽，兩千年來的中華兒女，經歷了多少戰亂，相濡以沫，兩忘江湖，友情的香火從來沒有斷絕過，直到「反右」的告發，「文化大革命」的摧殘，人情斷絕，倫綱傾圮，最好的朋友，往往成為檢舉自 向「黨」表忠的「反革命言行」的最凶險的敵人。今日大陸，連中國當局都承認「國民素質」空前危機：寡情薄恩，失信無情，一切以金錢利益為盟，連擇偶也講「條件」，現代的中國，如果還有所謂「文學」，詩歌和小說，還有幾篇是友誼的紀錄？

《哈利波特》的榮恩，與赤壁賦的無名客一樣，境界高低容或有別，情操之高尚，中外古今都是一樣的。中國的兒童讀者，讀《哈利波特》的華文譯本之際，只目眩於書中的魔幻奇情吧？對於榮恩這個小角色、好朋友，多半都會忽略的。到他們長大了，或許會明白多一點。讀《哈利波特》，掩卷難忘，最是這個在去霍格華茲的火車車廂偶遇的紅髮小雀斑，他打開一個盒子，面跳出一隻青蛙。在人生中結識這樣的朋友，一生無憾，孤兒哈利波特失去了倫理，贏得的卻有更多，當古老的火車，在九又四分三的迷離月台出發，穿過青的山嶺，越過渺藍的崖岸，奔向黑夜魅祟的霍格華茲的古堡學校，一輪明月，迷懸在大西洋的夜空，那片詭幻的光華，盈虛如彼，逝者如斯，正是醉催蘇東坡和他的朋友在赤壁入夢的一夕光景。

"you've the right to remain silent"....

it has been a wk already... i guess afterall "talking to each other daily" is only MY initiative....

just the thoughts of having a piece or 2 of the dark chocolate u gave me can help me to "cast a Patronus".... esp. whenever i feel u're so far apart - yet i don't dare to take too much / too often - as it'll run out, i know, sooner or later...

and the 1st box is almost gone.... :(

anyway, there's no school of Hogwarts.... i'm just a Muggle... one that has been kissed by the Dementors...

Mission Complete: Harry Potter and the Deathly Hollows

so i'm like a wk behind many of you - yep, I only finished HP7 just now.. was going to finish it last nite, but was feeling sick so saved that last 20 pages for today after dinner...

Hmm.. agree w/ Uarzen that the book is very fast paced (i think i shouldn't even read his comment although he claimed it's "spoil free"!) hahahahaa... anyway, the book indeed is good, so many fighting battles - and just moving so fast!!!! it's very dark on the other side, too many deaths to deal w/ - not to mention one of my favorite character died like right at the beginning!! (who's that?! well, dig out my ICQ user name!) hahahahahhahahaa

Anyhow, i do feel like the ending is "huh? just like that?! what?! it's over? have i missed something!?" and the last last ending i think is a bit "drawing legs for snake"....

Anyway, it has been.. 6 yrs for me since i started reading HP - still remember i only started it in 2001 after wondering why Dirk (Hagrid to me!) reading a "children's book" - and ever since i just got so hooked and bought Book 3 from UK Bloomsbury directly (since back then HK release later than UK - and that, of course, is the most expensive HP book i bought! charged in GBP!!!!)... hahahahahaha

Also started the 1st HP newsgroup ever in HK (ha, am still groupmaster - although i'm under my invisible cloak ever since.. the last few yrs!?) hahahaha.... watched HP1 at Admiralty while someone is visiting HK that winter (and with the newsgroup cosplay ppl too!).... watched HP 2 @ AMC, and the 3rd one in Amsterdam!! Oh, and of course, the HP door hanging thingy I got from Boise still on my door.....

it's a bit sad to see it "ends"... i guess it's like departing w/ a friend - even though it's not the first time i depart w/ friends whom i know for long - and every time i wonder if that would be the last time we ever cross in our life - well, in real life most of the time wasn't (although still sadden me), yet for HP case, i don't think i'll re-read it in a short time - some times letting go and letting memories to fad is a good way anyway....

anyway, for those who hasn't read / finish the story - happy reading :)

Sleeping in a funny way... :P

so elvin sleeps in the room at nite (with a/c!) ever since he's back home... here's one i took just now - and he sleeps so deeply that he doesn't even notice a thing when the flash went on!!


can u see he's actually half tilted? :P



elvin does sleep in funny ways :P I just hope his neck / back won't hurt when he wake up :P

Books updates...

In case you may be interested in some of them...

• 志雲飯局 (Be my guest) by 陳志雲
  
• I've watched some of them - just wanna have a taste what it'll be different if i'm reading them....
  
• 我的低能之道 by Little Horse
• how can i skip her book - afterall her icons is like part of my life - MSN loh
• 愛不愛之書 by 凱西．陳
• Cathy's new book this year, just have to buy it
• 神秘谷 3 - 白巫的夢囈 & 神秘谷 2 - 斷崖的騎士 by 李敏
• well, 2nd one was bought earlier - but then it was at baby's place - thanks for princess A to bring it to me! :)
• 腦前額葉又一天：神經外科女醫師的黑色喜劇　(Another Day in the Frontal Lobe: a brain surgeon exposes life on the inside - original by Katrina Firlik)
• For some reason i just fond on books based in Dr's (er.. nope, i'm not a fan of ER) :P
• For one more day by Mitch Albom
• i like mitch's style with Tuesdays w/ morrie and the fiver ppl you meet in heaven... it's "short".. but also give a chance to "think"... want to complete the series
• Sophie's World by Jostein Gaarden
• just want to try this...
• Monet by Janice Anderson
• Nicely print and a great collection of Monet's - can learn more about the background of his drawings....

And these are - something practical??

• 愛不到你，也要助你幸福2 - 用祝福代替憤怒的愛情智慧
• 對不起，騙到你 - 識破詐騙伎倆的防騙潛智慧
• 左右逢源厚黑智典
  
• 提防小人

Book Exhibition 2007!!

omg, really getting old - spent ONLY 4 hrs in the book exhibition this yr and both my friend and i just called it for the day - as we can't handle those loads anymore!!!!! hahahahahaa well, in general both of us think this yr's price is more expensive - was planning only buying 2 books - but end up w/ 13!!!!!!! (oh, not including 3 Old Master Q Comics I got for Ceci, and HP7 i pre-bought from Page 1) so, here's what i got:

probably too tired to start HP7 tonite - will take it easy but definitely for sure will pick up some reading for the next few months :)

Something I learn from work today...

nil admirari

Defn: To be astonished at nothing

wow, i never seen this word before - not the mention in official email!
yak!

just.... disappeared?!

That's why you just... disappeared?!


走迷路的情侶

分析
你對愛情非常執著，從來沒有自己的生活空間，將全部的關懷放在所愛的人身上，有時過分干涉使對方無法消受，而你卻又難免感到委屈而牢騷滿腹，因此建議你愛得輕鬆一些，給彼此一些空間吧!

Elvin's home....

After spending 3 days in the clinic my dear son can finally get home........ although it's ONLY the beginning of the treatment - still have to take antibiotics, and also quite a few #s of skin medicines - but at least he's home - he's finally home...

i think he's still a little upset (ha, have the big "la ba" collar around his neck), but i think he did show some improvement since he left home....

i'm just glad that he's back... back home....

thanks again for all who's pray for him :) i hope he'll recover and show better result on the test 10 days from now...

add oil elvin :)

Day 2 in the clinic...

so today is the 2nd day elvin's in the clinic - got off work and rush to tin hou (tried to get off sharp 5:30 but it's just not possible), anyway, luckily i got there before 6:30 so can still meet son (one weird thing - at 6 o'clock MTR is actually NOT crowded!!! had seats!!)

So anyway... i think i was in a much better EQ situation today (than yesterday) when discussing elvin's situation with the staff (geez)... ANYWAY.. it's not really a troke - but rather the vet suspected he got tick fever - one of the very last things i would like to hear.... Elvin's temperature is still high today, and to the vet tick fever is a lot worse than his skin problem so they've started him off the 20 days antibiotics treatment (and his skin problem will only come next - for now they only got his right palm bandaged with some medicine)...

he is still on 吊鹽水... the dr. said hopefully elvin's body will respond to the treatment quickly... that's the "best scenario" - his temp has to come down, and the blood platelet has to climb up back to normal....

i saw him tried to get up when he saw me.. but he's still very weak...

geez... really heart hurt :( i really hope he will recover and rest there just a few more days.....


P.S. a very good reference for dog's tick fever (some english down the page)

P.P.S. Thanks for all your calls, SMSs, MSNs, msgs to show u care... thanks... it really means a lot... ;~)

Updates - Elvin is hospitalized....

so i maybe half a day late to rush Elvin to the Vet.....

:(

the dr said he's overheated (what's the english word for 中暑 stroke?) I was kinda surprised b/c i don't even bring him anywhere - most of the time he just stayed home!!!!!

and the nurse said that it's probably b/c we only left him sleep in the kitchen at nite (which kinda offended b/c he has been living w/ us like that ever since he was with us - he's not the type of dog from alaska or sth so how do i know he needs a/c 24 hrs???) ANYWAY.. he was still okay 2 days ago, why all of a sudden he's NOT okay?? it has been hot ALL WEEK this wk since last wk, why only now??

the Vet took him in and said he has to be "吊鹽水", hospitalized and "observe"... the nurse said situation is really bad as he's over heated (she claims its' so high that she can't even take her body temperature!) anyway, since he's over heated his blood vessel may also be "amplified" and may cause internal bleeding - which won't know in the until later (is it really THAT SERIOUS!??!?!??!) he can't walk b/c his palms and feet are all infected (due to the high body temp)....

i heard she ordered other nurses to get ready setting up ice pack / cooling towels.....

no clue how long he'll stay, only know we can only visit him daily from 14:00 - 18:00 (who can make this hrs when one has to work!!!) omg... I'm not ready to loss elvin yet.. his toys are all over the living room, what do you mean he's leaving?????? no, i'm not ready..........

life sucks....

Elvin's sick!!!!!

don't know why he couldn't stand up - something's wrong w/ his hands.... poor puppy so poor that he can't walk around - usually he jumps all over me when i got home every day... but then today when i got home he just sit there - looking at me - trying very hard to get up - but failed!~~~~

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I'll take him to the Dr. tmr afternoon - i JUST HOPE that the Dr. can really help him (to me his palms look pretty normal to me!)

*sigh.... so worry :((((

ID4....

I wanna play fireworks together as well lei

*sigh* :(

Danish aries said....

You will find someone. Open your eyes. Put this pisces thing aside and try any others opportunities. He really do not deserve you.

Everyone have one or two this kind of emotional burden evenafter they married. If you are lucky, it could be in a naive, harmless memory. If you are obsessed, it could be a real burden.

hmmmm

Day dream: what if we win mark 6?

went out with wittybb and her sis last nite for dinner - among the many things we talked about, of course couldn't miss the 33 million (HKD, of course, not US!) Mark 6 lottery - what IF, yes, what IF I win???????

had numerous talk about winning mark 6 (ha, even a daily topic now!?) go back to school - oh, and of course, the travel around the world talk....

how come we've all those UNREALISTIC talks and dreams "together"? do you know that lies become "real" after numerous talk?? sigh... why am i still "wasting" my time in unrealistic dreams.... why should i bother?

and why we've to go to work??????????????????????

FW: Don't care...

i haven' t chk out my friends' blog for a while... and a great time to catch up their blog during the long weekend... here's something - well, too me, 深雪's writing is a bit too "girly" - but then doesn't hurt to know about it gae....

唔著緊

有些女孩子容易得到愛情幸福，不因為她特別迷人又或可親，而是，她特別的無所謂。

男朋友減少致電，她會想，唔緊要啦！男朋友失約，她也是唔緊要啦！男朋友送的禮物不夠體面，她同樣也是一副唔緊要啦的態度。

然後，一天，男朋友良心發現，向她致歉時，她仍是笑笑口說一句：「知你忙嘛，唔緊要啦！」結果就是，男朋友愛死了這個女人。

男人都像孩子，鍾意反叛、不守規矩、不聽話，過了熱戀期後，他就想逃離愛情的牢籠，於是，他會做出許多失約、不致電伴侶的行徑，目的就是讓伴侶明白，她不一定是他想在將來共度餘生的女人。

當男人感到女人想捉緊他，他就會想離開。

就在這個期間，若然，女人以一種「唔緊要啦」的態度去面對男朋友的疏離，男人反而會轉變心態，他覺得這個女人竟然不想縛住他，在愕然之餘，他就會反過來想縛住這個女人了。

她看來甚麼都唔緊要、唔緊張，於是，男人就自己緊張起來了。

在熱戀期之後的一段時期，是關係的關口，男人可能在此關口降溫，又可能在此關口提升愛情的熱情。很多女孩子以為，在這關口中努力付出，關係就得以挽救，然而，真正的拯救態度反而是「唔緊張和唔緊要」。

如果你本身是愛情緊張大師，就要學習如何去唔緊張。都是這一句：無論你愛得有多深，你最緊張的人，都應該是你自己。

深雪

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女人的本性是謙厚的，當一段感情失落時，女人會怪責自己、檢討自己、改進自己。無論情況如何，女人必先自省，然後才再在外面找答案。

但許多情況是，男人的本性才是感情破裂的真相。如果，你的男人愛結識女性朋友、多情、花心，那麼，任由你再賢淑美麗聰敏性感，他都一樣會有外遇。就算你出盡力改善自己到達環球小姐的質素，結果都不會改變。

如果，你的男人野蠻、兇殘、不講道理，那麼，任由你是天使化身，你都無法感化他，到頭來他都一定會傷害你。甚至，這種男人，投十次胎都化解不了殘暴的天性。

女人要學識接受某些愛情不是錯在自己，而是，你遇上某類人，就會有某類結局。看吧，若如你遇上一個溫和、有責任感又真心愛你的男人，你就多數會幸福，姑勿論你靚唔靚、有幾醒目。

當你在第三次約會時，你大概已可以推測得到這個男人的本性，以及你們的結局。無謂逆天意，也不要以為愛情或是你能改變他。雞就生雞蛋，鴨才會生鴨蛋，這是最淺易的道理。

甚麼愛情智慧都假，最重要就是揀一個對的人，揀一個你預料能有好結局的人，就已成功了一半。以後每結識一個男人，就想像和他的結局吧！然後你就發現，你比任何一個算命師傅更準確更獨到。

深雪

Fw: Do I really KNOW you?

From a friend's blog.. hmmm... do i really know you?

要找到真愛 便要找一個懂你的人
這個人也許並不是十全十美
但因為他懂你 所以你就認為他是十全十美的

就是這麼一個懂字
懂是什麼？

當你遇到挫折時 他不說一句損你尊嚴的話
當你意氣用事時他絕不遷就而會娓娓解說事理給你聽
當你心情不好時 他絕不和你一般見識而大吵大鬧
當你遠隔千里難得見面時 他也深信你
當你愉快時 他也愉快而且會告訴你
當你煩惱時 他也煩惱但不會輕易告訴你

懂 是需要多少的了解 多少的體諒 多少愛心
要找一個懂你的人 也許很難 但要有信心
找一個懂你的人 也期許自己做一個懂他的人

hmm... interesting....

Mission Accomplished - posting trip's picts - DONE!

actually i haven't post any picts on either Kodakgallery / slide show for a very very long time (actually i didn't post any picts on kodakgallery in 2007!!!) anyway, with all those jet lags / "do not want to sleep as it's wkend" etc etc i've finally uploaded ALL the picts tonight - in both kodakgallery and slide :D heehee.. mission accomplished!

Here's a "condensed" version that i've put up in Slide - let me know if you wanna see the FULL version XDDDD