Wednesday, November 30, 2011

超市趣怪經歷 2011

So last night I’ve 趣怪經歷 and ran into a crazy woman... so i was shopping in Wellcome, and this woman with 2 kids were at the freezer section. (u know those big freezer w/ door size glass door, if you open it it'll have mist all over and can't see a thing)

The mom actually stood there, open the door, (get it all mist) and let one of her kids DRAW on the GLASS!!!!!!!

I stood there (coz can't go through) for like 20 sec until her kid FINISHED his work... can you believe that? (and this is NOT the crazy part yet)

so when they finally closed the door (such that I can walk by) then I said, "小朋友係要教架", the mom, instead of feeling shame, questioned me saying "你又知道我無教? 你見唔到就等於無教架啦?"

"我真係見唔到囉" (我心諗阿師奶,你有教就唔會開埋門俾佢畫畫啦吓嘩。。。好心啦,塊玻璃都唔會乾淨得去邊)

I didn't even stopped by and keep pushing my cart, and that lady is asking her son "XX,話俾呢個 Auntie 聽我有無教你”, and she turned and said to me "係教都唔係係度教,亦唔係你教。。。

(我諗,都係),所以我話 "塊玻璃唔乾淨都唔應該俾小朋友掂啦" (其實,我介意佢整污糟塊玻璃多D)

"你就梗係無仔俾你教。。。"

i was already at the end of the isle, actually, I don't care what the kid's answer... and i don't really care what she's insulting me... how can a kid be a responsible person if his mom is acting like that?

and what is even MORE crazy, when I was lining up at the cashier, that lady got her mobile out and took a pict of me (荒死人唔知佢電話可以影相,亦好似要教訓我話我聽佢有我張相咁,呀師奶,你唔係以為我會怕你攞住我張相上網唱通街嘛??

I wasn't bothered until she is very 得戚 and said she got my pict, so I said, "你知唔知我可以告你侵犯我私隱?" (其實應該係毀謗)so I took a pict of her (and the kids) and said, "我想話俾你知唔係得你個電話有相機可以影相"

and then she was swearing on the way out (i don't even know what she's saying)... ppl these days... 惡人先告狀! also 這樣嘅身教,唔奇得D小朋友嘅價值觀有問題啦!

我亦想講,網上人肉搜查唔難,唔好話我 quite fully attached on the cyberspace, 佢亦可以好容易做到,之不過我唔會咁做。我只確得 right at the beginning the act she took her phone out to take a pict of me is VERY WRONG - 點解佢覺得咁做係啱/可以解決問題/保護到佢自己??(而 the rational behind me taking her pict is really to "protect/defend" myself)... I THINK it's different...

P.S. those kids aren't young, at least primary 3 or 4 ga la! Aiii…..

Thursday, November 24, 2011

Happy Thanksgiving 2011

My dear families (and you who take me as of your own sis/bro) :)

I am very grateful of having you in my life and thanks for taking care of me all these years!! Thx to fb / g+ / MSN or just email / PHONE to bring those who are thousands miles away so close to me as if they're in HK, and thanks for those who are in HK always treat me as a dear sis / bro XDDDDD

Wishing you, your family and your loved one a joyful and peacful Thanksgiving. Miss you!

Love,
Em

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on the side i did a little review for myself and the PCHK when replying to Kirk's email, afterall, it's a different set of experience PCHK has given me...

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... It has been a fruitful year, both for myself as well as the Club! As a Life time alum member (after graduated a decade ago!), and on behalf of the Purdue HK Club, we would like to say thanks, we are thankful for you and your team's hardwork to make the alum network stronger over the yrs! Thank you for making us Proud to be a Boilermaker, even we may have left West Lafayette for years.

Happy Thanksgiving!! Hope to see you soon, in HK or West Lafayette!!!

Saturday, October 29, 2011

Wine Fest 2011 @ Kowloon West

3rd year this year, also my 3rd time. the backbone is the same but many changes. nevertheless, had a blast. Grateful, for all who joined~

Friday, September 23, 2011

New Layout...

Just want a change, want a "happier / autumn" look...

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

Nightingale - Yanni

Very peaceful to listen before bed... thx for sharing transformer :D

Monday, September 19, 2011

Old folks gathering @ Peking Restaurant

難得 Jer 神叫食飯,同劉師傅一行三人到太古北京樓晚餐一聚- 唔經唔覺原來同 Jer san 都有年幾兩年無見! Lots to catch up - while we dine like we're going to a traditional Chinese meal (i.e. 去飲!)LOL 事原我哋大家都好懶唔想諗食乜,所以就叫咗個 Enjoy card promote 嘅 4 人餐 - OMG,真係好似去飲,食極都有,哈哈哈~~~~


宮保蝦球脆玉瓜, and 冷盤:海蜇+水晶淆肉 at the back


皮脆多肉北京填鴨 XDD really tasty!!! :D


some type of 竹笙 soup :P


We were too busy and didn't take much picts - so this one got all 3: 火腿扒津白 at the very far end, 賽螃蟹 and 小籠包

the most important thing is to catch up.. after all, they're buddies since ASAT times... I'm sure each of us have changed during the years, but we still have a silly and great time together~ :D

Thursday, September 01, 2011

FW: 瑚說百道:夢中不見

畢竟我倆從始至終只是走得很近,事實是大家根本從未真正走在一起。。。:((

as a matter of fact i did dream of him in the last few nights, after all, 日有所思,夜有所夢,雖然 tried my best to focus on HOMEWORK (so many hw this wk! geez, BLaw essay + Extra Credit, also ABE & SIS reading OMG...) 可是事實上好像還是放不開,潛意識還是想着他,於是便在夢中反射了思念。

well, only a few days, I know I'll be better real soon... As Charles said in his fb, "At the Edge of umcomfortable is where you begin to learn"...

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瑚說百道:夢中不見
http://orientaldaily.on.cc/cnt/lifestyle/20110901/00378_001.html

分手後的兩星期,女人幾乎每個晚上都在夢中看見他。都已分手了,為甚麼還要每晚跟他夢中見,她不明白,也不想。為了盡快忘記他,脫離一段感情為她帶來的傷痛,她知道最好的方法便是把他的所有,在她的生命中刪除。

生活中已跟他不再聯絡了,可是她還是跟他在夢中見。

日有所思,夜有所夢,雖然女人的理智控制她要專心工作,可是事實上她還是放不開,潛意識令她還想着他,於是便在夢中反射了她的思念。

在夢中,她和他沒有吵架,她只是看到以往跟他一起生活的點點滴滴。他穿着她為他挑的上衣出門上班去;她每清早例必問他的一句話「晚上回來吃飯嗎?」;他已穿好衣服在左右踱步,等她一同出門的情況;她把火鍋用具弄妥,等他就坐吃晚飯;他和她各自端着自己的酒杯,坐在沙發上看電視劇……解夢專家說,這些夢境,全因為她懷念跟他在一起的生活所致。他們之間因為不愉快的事情分手是一件事,她喜歡跟他一起過的日子又是另一回事。幸好,專家說這情況會隨着時間流逝而慢慢減少。

今天,女人說她昨夜在夢中終於看不見他,而看見他的親人,並跟女人說:「不要再等,他跟另一個她已很好了。」我想,她應開始接受他變心這事實,但願她能盡快跟他夢中不見,重投新生活。

糊塗人

梁佩瑚

Tuesday, August 30, 2011

FW: 瑚說百道:忘記他

頗應景的 article, with interesting FB comments:


  1. the formula is: 一句心痛話+Lots of 眼淚+ Long long time /時間

  2. always forgetting so as to justify never learning

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瑚說百道:忘記他
在我眼中,分手後,最難過的時刻,是一早一晚睡在床上的時候。即使不是同居,我也喜歡早晚跟情人通電話,要是情人離去後,還可以找誰跟我耳語?當某動作已成為習慣時,真的很難改,要改也很辛苦。

分手後,想多些他的壞處,絕對會令自己好過點。可惜,大部分人的腦袋兒不聽話,想不了一刻他的壞,便已在懷念當天甜蜜的點滴。即使對方已變心,還停不了的在懷念,是因為愛的感覺還沒燃盡?還是真心愛過以後,便難以放下?要是愛還在,便不用走上分手之路,相信是放不下吧!畢竟曾經愛過,即使已分手也不用恨對方,若求把他忘記而想着他的壞處,絕對不是好辦法,那麼該如何忘記他?

也許見多些朋友,把約會排得密密麻麻,分散注意力會是個有用的辦法;可是晚上躺在床上的孤枕時怎辦?酒鬼如我的人,當然是找來酒精作幫手,一杯到肚後便可大覺睡不用受失眠之苦,但也不能晚晚如是,畢竟酒精對身體有害。

又有人說盡快投入另一段新感情是最好的方法,只是急中出錯絕對會令自己再錯一次。

我想還是讓時間把事情沖淡,應該會是最好和最自然忘記他的好方法。

糊塗人

梁佩瑚

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FB Comments:



  • Nina Xiao: 是的。没有什么是过不去的。 you won't get hurt unless u allow so :)

  • Emily Tse: :'(

  • Wong Meme: I hv a formula : 一句心痛話+眼淚+時間

  • Emily Tse: 一句心痛話+Lots of 眼淚+ Long long time /時間

  • Wong Meme: u get it!

  • Charles Tse: Why forget? If say in the unfortunate event that Soc speaks 一句心 痛話 to me and then dies before I do, I'll sure be heartbroken and very much devastated beyond belief, crying my lungs out, but I won't want to forget anything but rather cherish every piece of our moments together.

  • Emily Tse: but, he is ur son...... part pf ur family, and some who loves(d) u back sometimes, forgetting is good

  • Charles Tse: I think whether he is part of the family doesn't play that much of a role, nor whether he loves(d) me back. Thinking of the gal whom I had a crush on and who obviously didn't love me, I still feel sweetness (for my naive youthfulness) rather than bitter.

  • Charles Tse: Forgetting is not necessarily good, although it may make you feel better for the moment b/c you are ignoring the pain. Then you run into the same cycle and need to "forget" again. Now of course it is your choice to play the same game the same way over and over, always forgetting so as to justify never learning. Good luck.

Monday, August 22, 2011

A note to my Prof...

Dear Prof,

How are you? have a chance for summer holiday and enjoying the sunshine?? (wait, i think they've sunshine all yr round in SG)

:)))

Time sure flies and my class (2010 wkday intake) is half way done! woohoo~ i was just talking to 2 of my friends who'll join this yr's intake and they're "enjoying" their o-camp last weekend @ Goldcoast. haha, time sure flies and can't believe it has been a yr since my beginning here... (btw, i should talk to sachin for promotion commission) LOL.

Enclosed a class picts taken at the end of my 1st elective course - Branding & Communication by Royce. Half of this class were yr 2 classmates (and their last class for the whole MBA program). The senior said once we pass BLaw (D. Bishop) we'll be fine... HA HA...

and we did (wait, another hw to go) LOL

I still remember the time you've mentioned "in your second year, maybe, if you feel you are losing your passion, remember how you begin. " I guess i'm not as strong as from time to time i feel the same (like Marcus' DRA) way before i was done 1st yr - but then every time i just turn back to the email you sent us. haha, thanks for being our mentor, still very glad that i was 2010 > 2011 intake - such that i'd a chance to take classes from great Prof. like you, Konan, and, well, Marcus too~~ :)

End of yr one, half way done and another yr to go. I know it'll be just as great as our 1st yr's journey. Let us know whenever you'll be back in town visiting for a drinks and catch up.

cheers,
Emily

Tuesday, August 02, 2011

FW: 我恒我訴:出嚟傾

為何害怕了見面呢?還是,我倆的感情已經淡薄了??

:~((

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我恒我訴:出嚟傾

發現近年的社交活動愈來愈少。不是因為筆者深居簡出,亦不是因通貨膨脹而要減少消費。朋友沒有減少,工作仍是那樣繁重,但大家面對面的約會確實減少了。

從前,無論是談公事,還是訴心聲,一個電話到,下句就是:「出嚟傾啦!」但來到這個年代,大家都彷彿害怕了與人接觸,要討論甚麼,「在電郵上談吧!」要開會的話,「視像或Conference Call啦!」即使要相約一個人,也是靠短訊,連電話也懶得撥一通;無論他的「真身」在何方,原來也是在我們可接觸到的距離——手機和鍵盤內。

所以,當再聽到有人要出國升學或移民的時候,大家只會淡然地說:「不要緊啦,我們可以Skype同FaceTime嘛! 記得和我WhatsApp呀!」所謂的依依不捨,都只不過是輕輕帶過,絕對不會去到「生離死別」、「揮淚作別」的地步。這也難怪,既然近在咫尺也只是談電話和傳短訊,他在九龍還是倫敦,又有何分別呢?

為何我們都害怕了見面呢?是不是因為太依賴科技,令我們的交際能力不斷下降?還是,人和人的感情愈來愈淡薄?如果有一天,所有人都只是坐在房中的電腦前交際,那又將會是一個怎麼樣的世界?我們還需要咖啡店嗎?筆者是傳統人,始終覺得「見面」是「親眼見一面」,要觸摸得到、感覺得到,能呼吸得到她的香氣。我們可以親手拭去情人的眼淚;亦可以輕輕一拍兄弟的肩膀,予他最給力的支持,這才是人和人相處的真正方式。親愛的朋友,出嚟傾?隨時奉陪!

導演及電台主持

劉偉恒

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

No one can guarantee...

"Marriage is not about unchanging love; it is more about letting love change us. It is not about living idyllically in our similarities, but about living peacefully and pleasurably in our differences." - Being Wrong

Quote posted by wiseman...

Exactly the pt! "Unchanging" is NOT what i was referring to, yes, maybe it's true that no one can guarantee as we are not God, all i am trying to say is being in a relationship is being with someone whom you can 'grow' with, or just as the quote put it "letting love change us"...

I don't know why I'm insisting it's all about commitment, 而得到對方的愛便是 commitment 背後最大嘅原動力。。。

活到這年紀,很多東西應該要學會看得開,let go when it is time, 只是這一點點暫未能放下, because, this is just what i believe in, and still make up part of who I am today...

Thursday, June 23, 2011

4D dream...

this is like the 1st time i really feel that i can SMELL in my dream... although the smell from the deadbody may indicate good things happen in work (which i'm not really looking fwd.. but anyway, the dream still bothering me... aii...

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it was like watching a scary movie (but i'm actually the one in the movie)... that somehow i know there's going to be a dead lady.... i went to the building, quite old type w/ no elevator (but newly ivory color paint), then i met up that girl's boy friend at the entrance, we rush up the stairs (and i kept thinking why 8th / 9th floor so many stairs to go tired die)...

so finally we reached the top floor, the stairs are very wide (probably double size of the old building i stayed in)... so anyway, the guy reached the apartment first, he rang the door bell (and i was half floor waiting b/c i know it's going to be scary...

the door opened, but w/ no one!? the guy went in, and at the same time the neighbor downstairs come out, a young lady in blue clothes (swim suit / shorts or sth), saying "hai lor, don't know why called her for a few catch up but she didn't show up / respond to me"... so i went up w/ that neighbor to the apartment - and before we reached the door (it's opened b/c the guy went in already) we smell very terrible smell and my sense tell me it must be from deadbody (in which i've never and don't wanna know in real life), then i saw the guy and another big guy in the apartment moving the deadbody out (one take the foot and one take the shoulder or sth...

luckily phone rang and help me escaped from such a scary dream.. i can't imagine what would happen next...

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

FW: 找誰跟你一起過生活

I never really like Wong as i think he's too high profile... on the other hand, i just think that if you're CRAZILY in love w/ someone, you'll always "覺頭上陽光燦爛;失去了他,你得到世間一切仍然悶悶不樂"??

at least for me... miss him day and nite... ;-P

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路中拾遺:找誰跟你一起過生活

當我們到了某年紀,開始親身戳破愛情的糖衣肥皂泡,給刺穿的泡沫濺傷了眼睛,就開始隻眼開隻眼閉的找伴侶。

這時候,總是有人這樣抱怨:其實我的要求已經很簡單,我不要求有白馬王子,不希望天天浪漫窩心,但求有個志同道合、步伐一致的人跟我一起生活,只要對方不討厭便行了,不相愛有不相愛的好處,然而為甚麼這個一起生活的人,竟然不比靈魂伴侶易找多少?

其實啊,我一直相信,不管你找的是甚麼,找不找到,根本就跟要求高低無關。有些人要求極高極刁鑽都給她剛巧遇上,很多人要求甚低,要的不過是四肢健全智商正常的異性乙名,多年來遇上的仍然甩皮甩骨,因此,一切都是命,跟要求高低不一定就有關係。

也許,我們即使降低要求這麼多年,仍然沒遇上一個能夠一起生活的人,是否該停下來反省一下?我們是不是方向錯了,其實,我們不該在尋找一個能夠一起生活的人,而是,該找一個沒有了他就無法生活的人?

有了他,你但覺頭上陽光燦爛;失去了他,你得到世間一切仍然悶悶不樂……我們真正需要的,其實是這種人吧?偏偏,我們又因為害怕這種人的強大摧毀力量,知道跟他一起我們的生活總是很容易變得一團糟,所以總是潔身自愛,小心遠離,然而也許,能讓我們不枉此生,沒有白活一場的,正是這個獨一無二的人啊。

王貽興

Saturday, June 04, 2011

VIIV

Life goes on for the last 22 years, I still remember our Chinese / 社會科老師陳主任 tried her best to explain to us back then P6 students what'd happened...

I hope this day will never come again, Life goes on...

並沒有忘記,也不敢忘記。。。

Wednesday, April 06, 2011

Movie Review on 單身男女

Er... TOTALLY disappointed, even w/ 2 of the "cutest living guys" in HK... sigh, totally wasted... see one of my reviews on why i don't like this movie (when replying to Aquarius about why this movie is a guys' fantasy...





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Actually i'm very disappointed 杜琪峯 made such a 'low level love story"... it reflect the writer thinks girls in general want from guys are: 靚仔、有錢、專一... so that's why i think most of the guys would like movie and it's a "fantasy" for them and what they've been working toward to these days...so they may easily have 共鳴 and think that having 高圓圓 to choose between 有錢靚仔嘅 ibanker 古天樂 (但花心) vs. 心地好專一靚仔嘅吳彥祖 (但無古天樂咁有錢) 就好似天下上一件好難嘅事咁。。。


其實一開場就已經可以揀吳彥祖(although i know i'm also bias!) hahahaha... but no need to use TWO hrs for a story that can be done in 20 min. but again.. maybe you GUYS like FANTASY gwa. hahahahahahha most of my girl friends doesn't like the movie either (even though we all like Daniel) hahaahaha..


I guess it's true that rich guys can get girls easier, give the guys more "options", and plenty of girls are for that. HAHA, MAYBE i'm the one living in fantasy and expect 杜琪峯's love story will have depth like 龍鳳鬥 with Sammi & Andy Lau... Anyway... blah blah blah, i should keep this on my blog instead.


WAKAKAKAKAKAKAKAKAKAKAKAKAKKAK

Wednesday, March 09, 2011

Hmm... A Reminder.... 秘密心事 (梁佩瑚)

Agree and reminder to myself...

FW: 瑚說百道:秘密心事

記得讀中學的時候,很多時都會跟一些同學(有男有女)談秘密心事,而這些秘密事,當然是「你猜某某喜不喜歡我」。

不知道為甚麼,很多時我都會成為傾訴的對象,也許是跟我名字有個「佩」字有關吧!朋友時常把我看成是「佩夫人信箱」,向我取經。不知他們又可有發覺,其實「佩夫人」只是止咳用的藥,根本跟愛情是沒有關係的。然而,我這個「佩夫人」也做得蠻開心的,聽着別人那麼多秘密,儲着儲着便成了今天還沒用盡的小說情節和橋段,想起來也真的要多謝曾向我訴心事的朋友。

還以為只有年輕的我們才會有閒情和心情跟朋友談秘密心事,沒想過今時今日,到了這個歲數,還有朋友把秘密心事放到枱上,很不秘密地跟同枱吃飯的朋友請教「她喜不喜歡我」這個問題。

很明白當喜歡上一個人的時候,心情是會忐忑得毫無主見,甚至會徬徨得不知所措,所以請教朋友的意見,絕對是正常的。只是,做了那麼多年人,在感情世界裏亦經歷過那麼多了,為甚麼會連對方對自己有沒有感覺也分不出?也許,有些人對這方面的感覺會有點遲鈍,但要是對方是有意思的,再遲鈍的人也應該會感覺到吧!畢竟人是靠觀感生活的,要是從對方身上感覺不到甚麼的話,我想這件「秘密心事」,應該開不了甚麼花了。

糊塗人
梁佩瑚

Thursday, March 03, 2011

FW: 浪漫,又是甚麼?

對於我來說,也許是比較"單純"(自己也忍唔住笑!哈!)我未必知道乜嘢係浪漫。。。不過窩心就都會有嘅。。。 好似

- "無呀,打嚟睇吓你點解咁慘咁夜都未返屋企。。。" (即刻乜慘都 sweet 晒);P
- "聽見你病咪打你睇吓你點囉。。。食咗藥味呀"(唔病都即刻變得十分非常病得好嚴重)XDDDDDD
- 應承我下次一定會唱我點嘅歌 (冧到震。。。)
- 煮飯仔(無論係你煮定我煮都覺得好幸福啵 (唔好食都變得好食啦)即使洗碗都覺得幸福呀(好變態!有被虐狂)XDDDDDDDDDDDDD
- 修理家裡壞掉的東西時 - 好 man 呀! :D
- 收到一張喺你去旅行時寄返嚟嘅 postcard (although, >90% of the time 你個人返咗你張 postcard都未見影)

其實好多時候都無話特別要做 D 乜。。。簡單到可能只係喺 coffee shop 一齊飲咖啡,雖然可能你有你睇你嘅書,我有我做功課。。。just being there, feel 幸福啦(不過大家唔好對號入錯座。。。當然係只有當時那個 "他" 做我先會覺得幸福/窩心。。。其他的你、你、你。。。未免想得太多了! XDDDDD)

P.S. Feel sad for the divorce lady at the end of the story though, really 對人歡笑背人愁。。。

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浪漫,又是甚麼?
請用10個字形容一下浪漫。

甚麼?哪怕是10個字,3個字也嫌多。浪漫,不就是浪漫嘛!

沒錯,浪漫是一種感覺,一種feel。而你一搬FEEL這四個字母出來,已可說是天下無敵,人人都拿你沒輒。
那麼,怎樣會令你「覺得很浪漫」?要對方做些甚麼、配備甚麼道具,才會讓你忍不住心裡喊一聲:「好浪漫呀!」

以現代最cliché的標準,浪漫的道具不外乎鑽石、玫瑰、燭光晚餐、沙灘+浪花;浪漫的行為例如在地鐵大聲講我愛你、買下時代廣場大電視的兩分鐘時間叫你做老婆豬、當眾自彈自唱那首專誠為你而學的歌、又或者,學織冷衫,給你織件雖鴛鴦袖卻很窩心的溫暖牌。

我們被毒到這個地步,就是說如果朋友甜笑著跟你說她的另一半帶備以上其中一種道具做了以上其中一種行為,你即使心裡不甚了了,也要應酬式地回應一句:「嘩你就好啦男朋友咁浪漫!」

為了尋找浪漫的真締,我向幾個朋友查詢她們對上一次「覺得浪漫」是甚麼時候──

A:「我跟他逛city’super,你也知道他買日用品從來不看價錢,那天他竟然在揀鹽時格價!那一刻我忽然覺得前途很光明!很浪漫!」

B:「那天呀~我的M來得很凶,我痛得腰都伸不直了,家裡的巾巾剛好又用光,他居然自己提出替我去買!雖然很痛,卻痛有所值喔!」

C:「我那位,唉,完事之後他比我晚睡著我已經覺得很浪漫很皇恩浩蕩的啦!」(對上一次是幾時?)「我們第一次做的那晚。」

D:「其實每次我看著他修理家裡壞掉的東西時,都會有浪漫的感覺湧上腦。例如前天電視機沒畫面,他去拍了幾下機身畫面又出來了!」

E:「他每天都會準時來電提醒我吃藥,有時我也會嫌煩啦!有天他真的沒來電話,等呀等呀,心裡在罵他沒良心。三個鐘後他打來問我藥吃了沒,我氣得問他『死咗去邊』,原來他出了車禍斷了腿躺醫院呢!那一刻眼淚自自然然就滾出來了。」

F:「我在一家養了很多流浪貓的書店裡,遇到一位老伯伯坐著看書,一隻黃貓在他懷中睡得很香!天!這畫面真的太浪漫了!」(你會不會離題太遠?你多久沒拍拖了?)

綜合她們的意見,浪漫,首先是對方突然做一些平常不會做、而你心裡卻很想很想他做的事情;第二點更重要,就是對方的言行令你對將來有憧憬有盼望,覺得跟他一起活下去是件很有意思的事。

雖然每個女人都是吃感覺的奶大,但不是每個女人都想做射燈下的drama queen。浪漫的形式有很多種,而且很多時候是存在於細眉細眼的日常生活小節裡,要靠你自己去發掘。

想起一個早前因為被老公家暴而申請離婚的朋友說過,別人都覺得她前夫很浪漫很有情趣,生日和情人節都很給力,送大大束的花到她公司讓她「有得威」。而她說,去年的情人節他又送了一百支玫瑰到公司,當天晚上回到家裡一言不合又被他很給力的打到豬頭一樣。

第二天要告假的她,同事們還以為她跟老公昨晚浪漫大戰得太激烈呢!

Wednesday, March 02, 2011

On Ekin 鄭伊健...

朋友仔一路都係伊麵忠實 fans,我就一般囉,係記得喺 Purdue 時都有喺 YesAsia 買咗依隻 CD (當時好奢侈o架!) :D



so i don't think other than this one i've listen to his songs particularly (i don't really recall anyway) - well, i mean, not until last year I just realize (and surprised!) i know pretty much all of his songs when I went to his concert (and thanks for 朋友仔 ticket!)

So this year i initiate to go to his concert - and i think my FIRST time to buy the most $$ ticket - not even Leon!!! LOL! I think the part that engaged me a lot is that most of his songs are those "fairy tale" love stories, songs' name like 感激我遇見, 一生愛你一個, 誰可情深如我,你狠心來傷我嗎, 仍能情深愛上, 有你便有我, 一個為你甘去蹈火海的人, 直至消失天與地, 友情歲月, 同一秒,發現, Together.... (just to name a few)… Just the songs' names alone can write up a love story (more than a love letter!) Not to mention, melody of those old days songs are very "my cup of tea"... :P

咁我算唔算係伊麵粉絲? XDDDD

On the same token, 如果有個男仔對住你唱/點唱以上事但一首歌俾你都 easily冧死啦!!(I mean, 邊個女仔都會 rite? Unless she REALLY hates Ekin)

LOL

Very much look forward to the concert this Sat… (Row 12!) hahaha…

Monday, February 28, 2011

FW: 我恒我訴:活膩了- 劉偉恒

我也想走。。。但是捨不下現在"家"的包袱。。。

OH WELL...

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我恒我訴:活膩了

友人毅然放下手上的一切,拿起背包,決心闖蕩世界。她的足迹遍天下,這天在峇里的海灘上,那天身處在馬來西亞的一個海島;這一回突然走入了熱帶雨林,轉眼又聽說正在欣賞五彩繽紛的晚霞,或棲身在浮羅交怡樹屋上。看着她每天在社交網站內更新的遊蹤,有點像看發現頻道的《Lonely Planet》,雖然是單身旅人,但每一天都是過得那麼新奇和刺激,多麼的寫意,亦令我深深羨慕和妒忌。

經常有衝動,想一走了之。不是為了逃避,而是想重開自己的眼界和視野。有人說旅遊,就是「從一個活膩了的地方,走到另一個別人活膩了的地方。」其他地方的人是否活膩了,我不曉得,但我對這個城市的感情愈來愈少,倒是事實。幾天前,和幾位一起回流的朋友飯聚,回想十多年前,大家都壯志滿懷的要重回香港,決心追尋和實踐自己的理想。十多年後,大家都不期然的說:「對這個城市很失望!」無論是政府、人民、媒體、居住環境,以至商人的營商手法、人和人之間的關係、新一代的人生態度,都跟十多年前的香港有天淵之別,準確一點說,是大不如前。社會裏互不信任,只有不斷累積怨氣和負面情緒,即使是何等正面的人,也免不了遭這樣的大氣候打沉。當大家的生活都變得枯燥無味,視線愈來愈狹窄,而且都被壓迫得透不過氣的時候,我們還哪有心力去追尋所謂的理想?

於是,終於明白為何在假期裏,大家都不顧旅費暴漲,不理人頭湧湧,千方百計要馬上「逃離家園」。或許,對於這城市,我們都聽厭了、看倦了、活膩了。

我想走。

導演及電台主持
劉偉恒

Saturday, February 19, 2011

Tonite's treat: 2009 France Arthur Metz Gewurztraminer


Benchmark: Marks & Spencer Gew
- Color: light yellow
- Viscosity: Less Viscous
- Aroma: Smell: good; Taste:荔枝味好出,少少苦(mineral taste?!); After taste: very good! (even consider i've strong smell food (tomato soup) before!)
- Dryness: Not dry at all, I would say "typical" gew!!!!
- Body: typical gew
- price: $89, Park'n'Shop
Comment: Very easy to drink, not too sweet, comparative w/ M&S Gew (just that the bitter taste is a bit turn off), but OK repurchasable :D (is it b/c i just haven't have a gew for so long?!) and NOT TO MENTION.. the WEIRD cork design broke my wine opener lor! UNLIKE!! >.<

Monday, February 14, 2011

Actually...



sigh....自作孽。。。不可活! :((

Sunday, February 06, 2011

Wine Tasting - Trio for the night

tonite's trio :) From the left:

1. 2008 Neuweierer Mauerberg Riesling (Spatlese)
2. 2006 Cross Creek Barossa Valley Unwooded Semillon
3. 2009 Nivole Moscato


- Pair w/ parma ham, smoked salmon and chips XDD

1. Benchmark: German Riesling
- Color: darker yellow
- Viscosity: Less Viscous
- Aroma: Smell: weak; Taste: very mild; After taste: very light side.
- Dryness: Not dry at all, very smooth!!!!
- Body: "thin"
- price: (forgot lor, got in Wine Exhibition?)
- Comment: Very easy to drink, not sweet as a Spatlese as I remember, very smooth but taste like fruit punch rather than wine :P

2. er.. this is the "recommendation" from the shop lady... it's bitter (maybe b/c after the Riesling?!? only had one glass - no wonder they don't carry it anymore

3. this is recommended by the guy from Solar Wine. Sweet as it expected (Moscato ma) actually it's quite nice as a dessert wine, but i'm never really a dessert wine person :P haha

Always great to have wine ghost leg, this time is Kim, to share with ;P

Monday, January 03, 2011

任性,是有限期的。。。

hmmmm..... stand still stand still and stay determinate!!!!!!!

2011 New Year's Resolution

Never write / blog down my New Year's resolution before so never know how my progress is XD So here I come - a few "2011 new year's resolution" - I would just say i'm being VERY GENEROUS to myself and set these VERY REASONABLE "resolution":

  • drink less (not QUIT, but less) :P
  • go to bed before 0130 during wkday (that's reasonable) LOL
  • Oatmeal breakfast during wkday (get spoil on wkend)...

Let's see how long i can stick w/ the plan LOL For the "more difficult" tasks... hmmm, let me think think la ;P