FW: 瑚說百道：忘記他

頗應景的 article, with interesting FB comments:

1. the formula is: 一句心痛話＋Lots of 眼淚＋ Long long time /時間


2. always forgetting so as to justify never learning

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瑚說百道：忘記他
在我眼中，分手後，最難過的時刻，是一早一晚睡在床上的時候。即使不是同居，我也喜歡早晚跟情人通電話，要是情人離去後，還可以找誰跟我耳語？當某動作已成為習慣時，真的很難改，要改也很辛苦。

分手後，想多些他的壞處，絕對會令自己好過點。可惜，大部分人的腦袋兒不聽話，想不了一刻他的壞，便已在懷念當天甜蜜的點滴。即使對方已變心，還停不了的在懷念，是因為愛的感覺還沒燃盡？還是真心愛過以後，便難以放下？要是愛還在，便不用走上分手之路，相信是放不下吧！畢竟曾經愛過，即使已分手也不用恨對方，若求把他忘記而想着他的壞處，絕對不是好辦法，那麼該如何忘記他？

也許見多些朋友，把約會排得密密麻麻，分散注意力會是個有用的辦法；可是晚上躺在床上的孤枕時怎辦？酒鬼如我的人，當然是找來酒精作幫手，一杯到肚後便可大覺睡不用受失眠之苦，但也不能晚晚如是，畢竟酒精對身體有害。

又有人說盡快投入另一段新感情是最好的方法，只是急中出錯絕對會令自己再錯一次。

我想還是讓時間把事情沖淡，應該會是最好和最自然忘記他的好方法。

糊塗人

梁佩瑚

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FB Comments:

• Nina Xiao: 是的。没有什么是过不去的。 you won't get hurt unless u allow so :)


• Emily Tse: :'(


• Wong Meme: I hv a formula : 一句心痛話＋眼淚＋時間


• Emily Tse: 一句心痛話＋Lots of 眼淚＋ Long long time /時間


• Wong Meme: u get it!


• Charles Tse: Why forget? If say in the unfortunate event that Soc speaks 一句心 痛話 to me and then dies before I do, I'll sure be heartbroken and very much devastated beyond belief, crying my lungs out, but I won't want to forget anything but rather cherish every piece of our moments together.


• Emily Tse: but, he is ur son...... part pf ur family, and some who loves(d) u back sometimes, forgetting is good


• Charles Tse: I think whether he is part of the family doesn't play that much of a role, nor whether he loves(d) me back. Thinking of the gal whom I had a crush on and who obviously didn't love me, I still feel sweetness (for my naive youthfulness) rather than bitter.


• Charles Tse: Forgetting is not necessarily good, although it may make you feel better for the moment b/c you are ignoring the pain. Then you run into the same cycle and need to "forget" again. Now of course it is your choice to play the same game the same way over and over, always forgetting so as to justify never learning. Good luck.