Monday, September 11, 2006

Love, Like & Admire (Appreciation) (愛、喜歡、欣賞)

Haven't read mag's blog for a while, hey this is quite an interesting article she'd found:

愛=喜歡=是欣賞?

愛是百分之百,你無時無刻都在想、思念著他。
喜歡有百分之八十,你常常都會想到他、思念他。
而欣賞只剩百分之六十,你只有偶爾會想到、和思念著他。

欣賞會讓人積極, 喜歡會讓人開心, 但愛卻會讓人傷心。

當你欣賞一個人,你不見得會喜歡他,也不見得會愛上他。
當你喜歡的一個人,有可能你只是欣賞他,但你也有可能會愛上他。
當你愛一個人時,你一定是基於欣賞,慢慢變成喜歡,然後最後成了愛。

當你和他搭訕時,剛開始那只是出於“欣賞” 。 當他們交往一段時間後,可能會變成“喜歡”,但也可能永遠只能停留在“欣賞”,至於“愛”,很難說,說不定你一輩子都找不到。
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Rough Translation:
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LOVE = LIKE = ADMIRE (appreication)??

"LOVE" is a 100%, ALL the time you'll think and miss him/her a lot;
"LIKE" is 80%, sometimes you'll think and miss him/her, on and off; and
"ADMIRE" is only 60%, you'll only think and miss him/her once in a while.

"ADMIRE" will motivate someone; "LIKE" will make someone's day; but "LOVE", will hurt someone.

When you "ADMIRE" someone, you probably won't "LIKE" him/her, not to mention to fall in "LOVE" with him/her;

When you "LIKE" someone, it is probably because you "ADMIRE" him/her; you may also have a chance to fall in "LOVE" with him/her;

When you "LOVE" someone, it must be based on the "ADMIRE", which, slowly evolves to "LIKE", and eventually become "LOVE".

When you talk to him/her, to start with is probably just "ADMIRE". After knowing each other for a while, it may becomes "LIKE", but keep in mind it may stay at the "ADMIRE" stage forever! and about the "LOVE" stage - it's difficult to say - maybe you won't reach there for the rest of your life!
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wow... hmm... i'm quite sure it's not "LOVE" (as i think when it comes to "LOVE" , on top of the above, it HAS TO BE a 2-way street).... anyway, so is it "LIKE" or "ADMIRE"?! hmm.... i ain't too sure~~ @_@ !!!

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