3rd year this year, also my 3rd time. the backbone is the same but many changes. nevertheless, had a blast. Grateful, for all who joined~
Saturday, October 29, 2011
Friday, September 23, 2011
Tuesday, September 20, 2011
Monday, September 19, 2011
Old folks gathering @ Peking Restaurant
難得 Jer 神叫食飯，同劉師傅一行三人到太古北京樓晚餐一聚- 唔經唔覺原來同 Jer san 都有年幾兩年無見！ Lots to catch up - while we dine like we're going to a traditional Chinese meal (i.e. 去飲！）LOL 事原我哋大家都好懶唔想諗食乜，所以就叫咗個 Enjoy card promote 嘅 4 人餐 - OMG，真係好似去飲，食極都有，哈哈哈～～～～
宮保蝦球脆玉瓜, and 冷盤：海蜇+水晶淆肉 at the back
皮脆多肉北京填鴨 XDD really tasty!!! :D
some type of 竹笙 soup :P
We were too busy and didn't take much picts - so this one got all 3: 火腿扒津白 at the very far end, 賽螃蟹 and 小籠包
the most important thing is to catch up.. after all, they're buddies since ASAT times... I'm sure each of us have changed during the years, but we still have a silly and great time together~ :D
宮保蝦球脆玉瓜, and 冷盤：海蜇+水晶淆肉 at the back
皮脆多肉北京填鴨 XDD really tasty!!! :D
some type of 竹笙 soup :P
We were too busy and didn't take much picts - so this one got all 3: 火腿扒津白 at the very far end, 賽螃蟹 and 小籠包
the most important thing is to catch up.. after all, they're buddies since ASAT times... I'm sure each of us have changed during the years, but we still have a silly and great time together~ :D
Thursday, September 01, 2011
FW: 瑚說百道：夢中不見
畢竟我倆從始至終只是走得很近，事實是大家根本從未真正走在一起。。。:((
as a matter of fact i did dream of him in the last few nights, after all, 日有所思，夜有所夢，雖然 tried my best to focus on HOMEWORK (so many hw this wk! geez, BLaw essay + Extra Credit, also ABE & SIS reading OMG...) 可是事實上好像還是放不開，潛意識還是想着他，於是便在夢中反射了思念。
well, only a few days, I know I'll be better real soon... As Charles said in his fb, "At the Edge of umcomfortable is where you begin to learn"...
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瑚說百道：夢中不見
http://orientaldaily.on.cc/cnt/lifestyle/20110901/00378_001.html
分手後的兩星期，女人幾乎每個晚上都在夢中看見他。都已分手了，為甚麼還要每晚跟他夢中見，她不明白，也不想。為了盡快忘記他，脫離一段感情為她帶來的傷痛，她知道最好的方法便是把他的所有，在她的生命中刪除。
生活中已跟他不再聯絡了，可是她還是跟他在夢中見。
日有所思，夜有所夢，雖然女人的理智控制她要專心工作，可是事實上她還是放不開，潛意識令她還想着他，於是便在夢中反射了她的思念。
在夢中，她和他沒有吵架，她只是看到以往跟他一起生活的點點滴滴。他穿着她為他挑的上衣出門上班去；她每清早例必問他的一句話「晚上回來吃飯嗎？」；他已穿好衣服在左右踱步，等她一同出門的情況；她把火鍋用具弄妥，等他就坐吃晚飯；他和她各自端着自己的酒杯，坐在沙發上看電視劇……解夢專家說，這些夢境，全因為她懷念跟他在一起的生活所致。他們之間因為不愉快的事情分手是一件事，她喜歡跟他一起過的日子又是另一回事。幸好，專家說這情況會隨着時間流逝而慢慢減少。
今天，女人說她昨夜在夢中終於看不見他，而看見他的親人，並跟女人說：「不要再等，他跟另一個她已很好了。」我想，她應開始接受他變心這事實，但願她能盡快跟他夢中不見，重投新生活。
糊塗人
梁佩瑚
as a matter of fact i did dream of him in the last few nights, after all, 日有所思，夜有所夢，雖然 tried my best to focus on HOMEWORK (so many hw this wk! geez, BLaw essay + Extra Credit, also ABE & SIS reading OMG...) 可是事實上好像還是放不開，潛意識還是想着他，於是便在夢中反射了思念。
well, only a few days, I know I'll be better real soon... As Charles said in his fb, "At the Edge of umcomfortable is where you begin to learn"...
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瑚說百道：夢中不見
http://orientaldaily.on.cc/cnt/lifestyle/20110901/00378_001.html
分手後的兩星期，女人幾乎每個晚上都在夢中看見他。都已分手了，為甚麼還要每晚跟他夢中見，她不明白，也不想。為了盡快忘記他，脫離一段感情為她帶來的傷痛，她知道最好的方法便是把他的所有，在她的生命中刪除。
生活中已跟他不再聯絡了，可是她還是跟他在夢中見。
日有所思，夜有所夢，雖然女人的理智控制她要專心工作，可是事實上她還是放不開，潛意識令她還想着他，於是便在夢中反射了她的思念。
在夢中，她和他沒有吵架，她只是看到以往跟他一起生活的點點滴滴。他穿着她為他挑的上衣出門上班去；她每清早例必問他的一句話「晚上回來吃飯嗎？」；他已穿好衣服在左右踱步，等她一同出門的情況；她把火鍋用具弄妥，等他就坐吃晚飯；他和她各自端着自己的酒杯，坐在沙發上看電視劇……解夢專家說，這些夢境，全因為她懷念跟他在一起的生活所致。他們之間因為不愉快的事情分手是一件事，她喜歡跟他一起過的日子又是另一回事。幸好，專家說這情況會隨着時間流逝而慢慢減少。
今天，女人說她昨夜在夢中終於看不見他，而看見他的親人，並跟女人說：「不要再等，他跟另一個她已很好了。」我想，她應開始接受他變心這事實，但願她能盡快跟他夢中不見，重投新生活。
糊塗人
梁佩瑚
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
FW: 瑚說百道：忘記他
頗應景的 article, with interesting FB comments:
- the formula is: 一句心痛話＋Lots of 眼淚＋ Long long time /時間
- always forgetting so as to justify never learning
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瑚說百道：忘記他
在我眼中，分手後，最難過的時刻，是一早一晚睡在床上的時候。即使不是同居，我也喜歡早晚跟情人通電話，要是情人離去後，還可以找誰跟我耳語？當某動作已成為習慣時，真的很難改，要改也很辛苦。
分手後，想多些他的壞處，絕對會令自己好過點。可惜，大部分人的腦袋兒不聽話，想不了一刻他的壞，便已在懷念當天甜蜜的點滴。即使對方已變心，還停不了的在懷念，是因為愛的感覺還沒燃盡？還是真心愛過以後，便難以放下？要是愛還在，便不用走上分手之路，相信是放不下吧！畢竟曾經愛過，即使已分手也不用恨對方，若求把他忘記而想着他的壞處，絕對不是好辦法，那麼該如何忘記他？
也許見多些朋友，把約會排得密密麻麻，分散注意力會是個有用的辦法；可是晚上躺在床上的孤枕時怎辦？酒鬼如我的人，當然是找來酒精作幫手，一杯到肚後便可大覺睡不用受失眠之苦，但也不能晚晚如是，畢竟酒精對身體有害。
又有人說盡快投入另一段新感情是最好的方法，只是急中出錯絕對會令自己再錯一次。
我想還是讓時間把事情沖淡，應該會是最好和最自然忘記他的好方法。
糊塗人
梁佩瑚
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FB Comments:
- Nina Xiao: 是的。没有什么是过不去的。 you won't get hurt unless u allow so :)
- Emily Tse: :'(
- Wong Meme: I hv a formula : 一句心痛話＋眼淚＋時間
- Emily Tse: 一句心痛話＋Lots of 眼淚＋ Long long time /時間
- Wong Meme: u get it!
- Charles Tse: Why forget? If say in the unfortunate event that Soc speaks 一句心 痛話 to me and then dies before I do, I'll sure be heartbroken and very much devastated beyond belief, crying my lungs out, but I won't want to forget anything but rather cherish every piece of our moments together.
- Emily Tse: but, he is ur son...... part pf ur family, and some who loves(d) u back sometimes, forgetting is good
- Charles Tse: I think whether he is part of the family doesn't play that much of a role, nor whether he loves(d) me back. Thinking of the gal whom I had a crush on and who obviously didn't love me, I still feel sweetness (for my naive youthfulness) rather than bitter.
- Charles Tse: Forgetting is not necessarily good, although it may make you feel better for the moment b/c you are ignoring the pain. Then you run into the same cycle and need to "forget" again. Now of course it is your choice to play the same game the same way over and over, always forgetting so as to justify never learning. Good luck.
Monday, August 22, 2011
A note to my Prof...
Dear Prof,
How are you? have a chance for summer holiday and enjoying the sunshine?? (wait, i think they've sunshine all yr round in SG)
:)))
Time sure flies and my class (2010 wkday intake) is half way done! woohoo~ i was just talking to 2 of my friends who'll join this yr's intake and they're "enjoying" their o-camp last weekend @ Goldcoast. haha, time sure flies and can't believe it has been a yr since my beginning here... (btw, i should talk to sachin for promotion commission) LOL.
Enclosed a class picts taken at the end of my 1st elective course - Branding & Communication by Royce. Half of this class were yr 2 classmates (and their last class for the whole MBA program). The senior said once we pass BLaw (D. Bishop) we'll be fine... HA HA...
and we did (wait, another hw to go) LOL
I still remember the time you've mentioned "in your second year, maybe, if you feel you are losing your passion, remember how you begin. " I guess i'm not as strong as from time to time i feel the same (like Marcus' DRA) way before i was done 1st yr - but then every time i just turn back to the email you sent us. haha, thanks for being our mentor, still very glad that i was 2010 > 2011 intake - such that i'd a chance to take classes from great Prof. like you, Konan, and, well, Marcus too~~ :)
End of yr one, half way done and another yr to go. I know it'll be just as great as our 1st yr's journey. Let us know whenever you'll be back in town visiting for a drinks and catch up.
cheers,
Emily
How are you? have a chance for summer holiday and enjoying the sunshine?? (wait, i think they've sunshine all yr round in SG)
:)))
Time sure flies and my class (2010 wkday intake) is half way done! woohoo~ i was just talking to 2 of my friends who'll join this yr's intake and they're "enjoying" their o-camp last weekend @ Goldcoast. haha, time sure flies and can't believe it has been a yr since my beginning here... (btw, i should talk to sachin for promotion commission) LOL.
Enclosed a class picts taken at the end of my 1st elective course - Branding & Communication by Royce. Half of this class were yr 2 classmates (and their last class for the whole MBA program). The senior said once we pass BLaw (D. Bishop) we'll be fine... HA HA...
and we did (wait, another hw to go) LOL
I still remember the time you've mentioned "in your second year, maybe, if you feel you are losing your passion, remember how you begin. " I guess i'm not as strong as from time to time i feel the same (like Marcus' DRA) way before i was done 1st yr - but then every time i just turn back to the email you sent us. haha, thanks for being our mentor, still very glad that i was 2010 > 2011 intake - such that i'd a chance to take classes from great Prof. like you, Konan, and, well, Marcus too~~ :)
End of yr one, half way done and another yr to go. I know it'll be just as great as our 1st yr's journey. Let us know whenever you'll be back in town visiting for a drinks and catch up.
cheers,
Emily
Tuesday, August 02, 2011
FW: 我恒我訴：出嚟傾
為何害怕了見面呢？還是，我倆的感情已經淡薄了??
:~((
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我恒我訴：出嚟傾
發現近年的社交活動愈來愈少。不是因為筆者深居簡出，亦不是因通貨膨脹而要減少消費。朋友沒有減少，工作仍是那樣繁重，但大家面對面的約會確實減少了。
從前，無論是談公事，還是訴心聲，一個電話到，下句就是：「出嚟傾啦！」但來到這個年代，大家都彷彿害怕了與人接觸，要討論甚麼，「在電郵上談吧！」要開會的話，「視像或Conference Call啦！」即使要相約一個人，也是靠短訊，連電話也懶得撥一通；無論他的「真身」在何方，原來也是在我們可接觸到的距離——手機和鍵盤內。
所以，當再聽到有人要出國升學或移民的時候，大家只會淡然地說：「不要緊啦，我們可以Skype同FaceTime嘛！ 記得和我WhatsApp呀！」所謂的依依不捨，都只不過是輕輕帶過，絕對不會去到「生離死別」、「揮淚作別」的地步。這也難怪，既然近在咫尺也只是談電話和傳短訊，他在九龍還是倫敦，又有何分別呢？
為何我們都害怕了見面呢？是不是因為太依賴科技，令我們的交際能力不斷下降？還是，人和人的感情愈來愈淡薄？如果有一天，所有人都只是坐在房中的電腦前交際，那又將會是一個怎麼樣的世界？我們還需要咖啡店嗎？筆者是傳統人，始終覺得「見面」是「親眼見一面」，要觸摸得到、感覺得到，能呼吸得到她的香氣。我們可以親手拭去情人的眼淚；亦可以輕輕一拍兄弟的肩膀，予他最給力的支持，這才是人和人相處的真正方式。親愛的朋友，出嚟傾？隨時奉陪！
導演及電台主持
劉偉恒
:~((
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我恒我訴：出嚟傾
發現近年的社交活動愈來愈少。不是因為筆者深居簡出，亦不是因通貨膨脹而要減少消費。朋友沒有減少，工作仍是那樣繁重，但大家面對面的約會確實減少了。
從前，無論是談公事，還是訴心聲，一個電話到，下句就是：「出嚟傾啦！」但來到這個年代，大家都彷彿害怕了與人接觸，要討論甚麼，「在電郵上談吧！」要開會的話，「視像或Conference Call啦！」即使要相約一個人，也是靠短訊，連電話也懶得撥一通；無論他的「真身」在何方，原來也是在我們可接觸到的距離——手機和鍵盤內。
所以，當再聽到有人要出國升學或移民的時候，大家只會淡然地說：「不要緊啦，我們可以Skype同FaceTime嘛！ 記得和我WhatsApp呀！」所謂的依依不捨，都只不過是輕輕帶過，絕對不會去到「生離死別」、「揮淚作別」的地步。這也難怪，既然近在咫尺也只是談電話和傳短訊，他在九龍還是倫敦，又有何分別呢？
為何我們都害怕了見面呢？是不是因為太依賴科技，令我們的交際能力不斷下降？還是，人和人的感情愈來愈淡薄？如果有一天，所有人都只是坐在房中的電腦前交際，那又將會是一個怎麼樣的世界？我們還需要咖啡店嗎？筆者是傳統人，始終覺得「見面」是「親眼見一面」，要觸摸得到、感覺得到，能呼吸得到她的香氣。我們可以親手拭去情人的眼淚；亦可以輕輕一拍兄弟的肩膀，予他最給力的支持，這才是人和人相處的真正方式。親愛的朋友，出嚟傾？隨時奉陪！
導演及電台主持
劉偉恒
Tuesday, July 19, 2011
No one can guarantee...
"Marriage is not about unchanging love; it is more about letting love change us. It is not about living idyllically in our similarities, but about living peacefully and pleasurably in our differences." - Being Wrong
Quote posted by wiseman...
Exactly the pt! "Unchanging" is NOT what i was referring to, yes, maybe it's true that no one can guarantee as we are not God, all i am trying to say is being in a relationship is being with someone whom you can 'grow' with, or just as the quote put it "letting love change us"...
Quote posted by wiseman...
Exactly the pt! "Unchanging" is NOT what i was referring to, yes, maybe it's true that no one can guarantee as we are not God, all i am trying to say is being in a relationship is being with someone whom you can 'grow' with, or just as the quote put it "letting love change us"...
I don't know why I'm insisting it's all about commitment, 而得到對方的愛便是 commitment 背後最大嘅原動力。。。
活到這年紀，很多東西應該要學會看得開，let go when it is time, 只是這一點點暫未能放下, because, this is just what i believe in, and still make up part of who I am today...
Thursday, June 23, 2011
4D dream...
this is like the 1st time i really feel that i can SMELL in my dream... although the smell from the deadbody may indicate good things happen in work (which i'm not really looking fwd.. but anyway, the dream still bothering me... aii...
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it was like watching a scary movie (but i'm actually the one in the movie)... that somehow i know there's going to be a dead lady.... i went to the building, quite old type w/ no elevator (but newly ivory color paint), then i met up that girl's boy friend at the entrance, we rush up the stairs (and i kept thinking why 8th / 9th floor so many stairs to go tired die)...
so finally we reached the top floor, the stairs are very wide (probably double size of the old building i stayed in)... so anyway, the guy reached the apartment first, he rang the door bell (and i was half floor waiting b/c i know it's going to be scary...
the door opened, but w/ no one!? the guy went in, and at the same time the neighbor downstairs come out, a young lady in blue clothes (swim suit / shorts or sth), saying "hai lor, don't know why called her for a few catch up but she didn't show up / respond to me"... so i went up w/ that neighbor to the apartment - and before we reached the door (it's opened b/c the guy went in already) we smell very terrible smell and my sense tell me it must be from deadbody (in which i've never and don't wanna know in real life), then i saw the guy and another big guy in the apartment moving the deadbody out (one take the foot and one take the shoulder or sth...
luckily phone rang and help me escaped from such a scary dream.. i can't imagine what would happen next...
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it was like watching a scary movie (but i'm actually the one in the movie)... that somehow i know there's going to be a dead lady.... i went to the building, quite old type w/ no elevator (but newly ivory color paint), then i met up that girl's boy friend at the entrance, we rush up the stairs (and i kept thinking why 8th / 9th floor so many stairs to go tired die)...
so finally we reached the top floor, the stairs are very wide (probably double size of the old building i stayed in)... so anyway, the guy reached the apartment first, he rang the door bell (and i was half floor waiting b/c i know it's going to be scary...
the door opened, but w/ no one!? the guy went in, and at the same time the neighbor downstairs come out, a young lady in blue clothes (swim suit / shorts or sth), saying "hai lor, don't know why called her for a few catch up but she didn't show up / respond to me"... so i went up w/ that neighbor to the apartment - and before we reached the door (it's opened b/c the guy went in already) we smell very terrible smell and my sense tell me it must be from deadbody (in which i've never and don't wanna know in real life), then i saw the guy and another big guy in the apartment moving the deadbody out (one take the foot and one take the shoulder or sth...
luckily phone rang and help me escaped from such a scary dream.. i can't imagine what would happen next...
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