Agree and reminder to myself...
FW: 瑚說百道：秘密心事
記得讀中學的時候，很多時都會跟一些同學（有男有女）談秘密心事，而這些秘密事，當然是「你猜某某喜不喜歡我」。
不知道為甚麼，很多時我都會成為傾訴的對象，也許是跟我名字有個「佩」字有關吧！朋友時常把我看成是「佩夫人信箱」，向我取經。不知他們又可有發覺，其實「佩夫人」只是止咳用的藥，根本跟愛情是沒有關係的。然而，我這個「佩夫人」也做得蠻開心的，聽着別人那麼多秘密，儲着儲着便成了今天還沒用盡的小說情節和橋段，想起來也真的要多謝曾向我訴心事的朋友。
還以為只有年輕的我們才會有閒情和心情跟朋友談秘密心事，沒想過今時今日，到了這個歲數，還有朋友把秘密心事放到枱上，很不秘密地跟同枱吃飯的朋友請教「她喜不喜歡我」這個問題。
很明白當喜歡上一個人的時候，心情是會忐忑得毫無主見，甚至會徬徨得不知所措，所以請教朋友的意見，絕對是正常的。只是，做了那麼多年人，在感情世界裏亦經歷過那麼多了，為甚麼會連對方對自己有沒有感覺也分不出？也許，有些人對這方面的感覺會有點遲鈍，但要是對方是有意思的，再遲鈍的人也應該會感覺到吧！畢竟人是靠觀感生活的，要是從對方身上感覺不到甚麼的話，我想這件「秘密心事」，應該開不了甚麼花了。
糊塗人
梁佩瑚
Wednesday, March 09, 2011
Thursday, March 03, 2011
FW: 浪漫，又是甚麼？
對於我來說，也許是比較"單純"（自己也忍唔住笑！哈！）我未必知道乜嘢係浪漫。。。不過窩心就都會有嘅。。。 好似
- "無呀，打嚟睇吓你點解咁慘咁夜都未返屋企。。。" （即刻乜慘都 sweet 晒）;P
- "聽見你病咪打你睇吓你點囉。。。食咗藥味呀"（唔病都即刻變得十分非常病得好嚴重）XDDDDDD
- 應承我下次一定會唱我點嘅歌 (冧到震。。。)
- 煮飯仔（無論係你煮定我煮都覺得好幸福啵 (唔好食都變得好食啦）即使洗碗都覺得幸福呀（好變態！有被虐狂）XDDDDDDDDDDDDD
- 修理家裡壞掉的東西時 - 好 man 呀! :D
- 收到一張喺你去旅行時寄返嚟嘅 postcard (although, >90% of the time 你個人返咗你張 postcard都未見影）
其實好多時候都無話特別要做 D 乜。。。簡單到可能只係喺 coffee shop 一齊飲咖啡，雖然可能你有你睇你嘅書，我有我做功課。。。just being there, feel 幸福啦（不過大家唔好對號入錯座。。。當然係只有當時那個 "他" 做我先會覺得幸福／窩心。。。其他的你、你、你。。。未免想得太多了！ XDDDDD)
P.S. Feel sad for the divorce lady at the end of the story though, really 對人歡笑背人愁。。。
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浪漫，又是甚麼？
請用10個字形容一下浪漫。
甚麼？哪怕是10個字，3個字也嫌多。浪漫，不就是浪漫嘛！
沒錯，浪漫是一種感覺，一種feel。而你一搬FEEL這四個字母出來，已可說是天下無敵，人人都拿你沒輒。
那麼，怎樣會令你「覺得很浪漫」？要對方做些甚麼、配備甚麼道具，才會讓你忍不住心裡喊一聲：「好浪漫呀！」
以現代最cliché的標準，浪漫的道具不外乎鑽石、玫瑰、燭光晚餐、沙灘+浪花；浪漫的行為例如在地鐵大聲講我愛你、買下時代廣場大電視的兩分鐘時間叫你做老婆豬、當眾自彈自唱那首專誠為你而學的歌、又或者，學織冷衫，給你織件雖鴛鴦袖卻很窩心的溫暖牌。
我們被毒到這個地步，就是說如果朋友甜笑著跟你說她的另一半帶備以上其中一種道具做了以上其中一種行為，你即使心裡不甚了了，也要應酬式地回應一句：「嘩你就好啦男朋友咁浪漫！」
為了尋找浪漫的真締，我向幾個朋友查詢她們對上一次「覺得浪漫」是甚麼時候──
A：「我跟他逛city’super，你也知道他買日用品從來不看價錢，那天他竟然在揀鹽時格價！那一刻我忽然覺得前途很光明！很浪漫！」
B：「那天呀~我的M來得很凶，我痛得腰都伸不直了，家裡的巾巾剛好又用光，他居然自己提出替我去買！雖然很痛，卻痛有所值喔！」
C：「我那位，唉，完事之後他比我晚睡著我已經覺得很浪漫很皇恩浩蕩的啦！」（對上一次是幾時？）「我們第一次做的那晚。」
D：「其實每次我看著他修理家裡壞掉的東西時，都會有浪漫的感覺湧上腦。例如前天電視機沒畫面，他去拍了幾下機身畫面又出來了！」
E：「他每天都會準時來電提醒我吃藥，有時我也會嫌煩啦！有天他真的沒來電話，等呀等呀，心裡在罵他沒良心。三個鐘後他打來問我藥吃了沒，我氣得問他『死咗去邊』，原來他出了車禍斷了腿躺醫院呢！那一刻眼淚自自然然就滾出來了。」
F：「我在一家養了很多流浪貓的書店裡，遇到一位老伯伯坐著看書，一隻黃貓在他懷中睡得很香！天！這畫面真的太浪漫了！」（你會不會離題太遠？你多久沒拍拖了？）
綜合她們的意見，浪漫，首先是對方突然做一些平常不會做、而你心裡卻很想很想他做的事情；第二點更重要，就是對方的言行令你對將來有憧憬有盼望，覺得跟他一起活下去是件很有意思的事。
雖然每個女人都是吃感覺的奶大，但不是每個女人都想做射燈下的drama queen。浪漫的形式有很多種，而且很多時候是存在於細眉細眼的日常生活小節裡，要靠你自己去發掘。
想起一個早前因為被老公家暴而申請離婚的朋友說過，別人都覺得她前夫很浪漫很有情趣，生日和情人節都很給力，送大大束的花到她公司讓她「有得威」。而她說，去年的情人節他又送了一百支玫瑰到公司，當天晚上回到家裡一言不合又被他很給力的打到豬頭一樣。
第二天要告假的她，同事們還以為她跟老公昨晚浪漫大戰得太激烈呢！
- "無呀，打嚟睇吓你點解咁慘咁夜都未返屋企。。。" （即刻乜慘都 sweet 晒）;P
- "聽見你病咪打你睇吓你點囉。。。食咗藥味呀"（唔病都即刻變得十分非常病得好嚴重）XDDDDDD
- 應承我下次一定會唱我點嘅歌 (冧到震。。。)
- 煮飯仔（無論係你煮定我煮都覺得好幸福啵 (唔好食都變得好食啦）即使洗碗都覺得幸福呀（好變態！有被虐狂）XDDDDDDDDDDDDD
- 修理家裡壞掉的東西時 - 好 man 呀! :D
- 收到一張喺你去旅行時寄返嚟嘅 postcard (although, >90% of the time 你個人返咗你張 postcard都未見影）
其實好多時候都無話特別要做 D 乜。。。簡單到可能只係喺 coffee shop 一齊飲咖啡，雖然可能你有你睇你嘅書，我有我做功課。。。just being there, feel 幸福啦（不過大家唔好對號入錯座。。。當然係只有當時那個 "他" 做我先會覺得幸福／窩心。。。其他的你、你、你。。。未免想得太多了！ XDDDDD)
P.S. Feel sad for the divorce lady at the end of the story though, really 對人歡笑背人愁。。。
===
浪漫，又是甚麼？
請用10個字形容一下浪漫。
甚麼？哪怕是10個字，3個字也嫌多。浪漫，不就是浪漫嘛！
沒錯，浪漫是一種感覺，一種feel。而你一搬FEEL這四個字母出來，已可說是天下無敵，人人都拿你沒輒。
那麼，怎樣會令你「覺得很浪漫」？要對方做些甚麼、配備甚麼道具，才會讓你忍不住心裡喊一聲：「好浪漫呀！」
以現代最cliché的標準，浪漫的道具不外乎鑽石、玫瑰、燭光晚餐、沙灘+浪花；浪漫的行為例如在地鐵大聲講我愛你、買下時代廣場大電視的兩分鐘時間叫你做老婆豬、當眾自彈自唱那首專誠為你而學的歌、又或者，學織冷衫，給你織件雖鴛鴦袖卻很窩心的溫暖牌。
我們被毒到這個地步，就是說如果朋友甜笑著跟你說她的另一半帶備以上其中一種道具做了以上其中一種行為，你即使心裡不甚了了，也要應酬式地回應一句：「嘩你就好啦男朋友咁浪漫！」
為了尋找浪漫的真締，我向幾個朋友查詢她們對上一次「覺得浪漫」是甚麼時候──
A：「我跟他逛city’super，你也知道他買日用品從來不看價錢，那天他竟然在揀鹽時格價！那一刻我忽然覺得前途很光明！很浪漫！」
B：「那天呀~我的M來得很凶，我痛得腰都伸不直了，家裡的巾巾剛好又用光，他居然自己提出替我去買！雖然很痛，卻痛有所值喔！」
C：「我那位，唉，完事之後他比我晚睡著我已經覺得很浪漫很皇恩浩蕩的啦！」（對上一次是幾時？）「我們第一次做的那晚。」
D：「其實每次我看著他修理家裡壞掉的東西時，都會有浪漫的感覺湧上腦。例如前天電視機沒畫面，他去拍了幾下機身畫面又出來了！」
E：「他每天都會準時來電提醒我吃藥，有時我也會嫌煩啦！有天他真的沒來電話，等呀等呀，心裡在罵他沒良心。三個鐘後他打來問我藥吃了沒，我氣得問他『死咗去邊』，原來他出了車禍斷了腿躺醫院呢！那一刻眼淚自自然然就滾出來了。」
F：「我在一家養了很多流浪貓的書店裡，遇到一位老伯伯坐著看書，一隻黃貓在他懷中睡得很香！天！這畫面真的太浪漫了！」（你會不會離題太遠？你多久沒拍拖了？）
綜合她們的意見，浪漫，首先是對方突然做一些平常不會做、而你心裡卻很想很想他做的事情；第二點更重要，就是對方的言行令你對將來有憧憬有盼望，覺得跟他一起活下去是件很有意思的事。
雖然每個女人都是吃感覺的奶大，但不是每個女人都想做射燈下的drama queen。浪漫的形式有很多種，而且很多時候是存在於細眉細眼的日常生活小節裡，要靠你自己去發掘。
想起一個早前因為被老公家暴而申請離婚的朋友說過，別人都覺得她前夫很浪漫很有情趣，生日和情人節都很給力，送大大束的花到她公司讓她「有得威」。而她說，去年的情人節他又送了一百支玫瑰到公司，當天晚上回到家裡一言不合又被他很給力的打到豬頭一樣。
第二天要告假的她，同事們還以為她跟老公昨晚浪漫大戰得太激烈呢！
Wednesday, March 02, 2011
On Ekin 鄭伊健...
朋友仔一路都係伊麵忠實 fans，我就一般囉，係記得喺 Purdue 時都有喺 YesAsia 買咗依隻 CD (當時好奢侈o架！） :D
so i don't think other than this one i've listen to his songs particularly (i don't really recall anyway) - well, i mean, not until last year I just realize (and surprised!) i know pretty much all of his songs when I went to his concert (and thanks for 朋友仔 ticket!)
So this year i initiate to go to his concert - and i think my FIRST time to buy the most $$ ticket - not even Leon!!! LOL! I think the part that engaged me a lot is that most of his songs are those "fairy tale" love stories, songs' name like 感激我遇見, 一生愛你一個, 誰可情深如我,你狠心來傷我嗎, 仍能情深愛上, 有你便有我, 一個為你甘去蹈火海的人, 直至消失天與地, 友情歲月, 同一秒,發現, Together.... (just to name a few)… Just the songs' names alone can write up a love story (more than a love letter!) Not to mention, melody of those old days songs are very "my cup of tea"... :P
咁我算唔算係伊麵粉絲？ XDDDD
On the same token, 如果有個男仔對住你唱／點唱以上事但一首歌俾你都 easily冧死啦！！(I mean, 邊個女仔都會 rite? Unless she REALLY hates Ekin)
LOL
Very much look forward to the concert this Sat… (Row 12!) hahaha…
so i don't think other than this one i've listen to his songs particularly (i don't really recall anyway) - well, i mean, not until last year I just realize (and surprised!) i know pretty much all of his songs when I went to his concert (and thanks for 朋友仔 ticket!)
So this year i initiate to go to his concert - and i think my FIRST time to buy the most $$ ticket - not even Leon!!! LOL! I think the part that engaged me a lot is that most of his songs are those "fairy tale" love stories, songs' name like 感激我遇見, 一生愛你一個, 誰可情深如我,你狠心來傷我嗎, 仍能情深愛上, 有你便有我, 一個為你甘去蹈火海的人, 直至消失天與地, 友情歲月, 同一秒,發現, Together.... (just to name a few)… Just the songs' names alone can write up a love story (more than a love letter!) Not to mention, melody of those old days songs are very "my cup of tea"... :P
咁我算唔算係伊麵粉絲？ XDDDD
On the same token, 如果有個男仔對住你唱／點唱以上事但一首歌俾你都 easily冧死啦！！(I mean, 邊個女仔都會 rite? Unless she REALLY hates Ekin)
LOL
Very much look forward to the concert this Sat… (Row 12!) hahaha…
Monday, February 28, 2011
FW: 我恒我訴：活膩了- 劉偉恒
我也想走。。。但是捨不下現在"家"的包袱。。。
OH WELL...
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我恒我訴：活膩了
友人毅然放下手上的一切，拿起背包，決心闖蕩世界。她的足迹遍天下，這天在峇里的海灘上，那天身處在馬來西亞的一個海島；這一回突然走入了熱帶雨林，轉眼又聽說正在欣賞五彩繽紛的晚霞，或棲身在浮羅交怡樹屋上。看着她每天在社交網站內更新的遊蹤，有點像看發現頻道的《Lonely Planet》，雖然是單身旅人，但每一天都是過得那麼新奇和刺激，多麼的寫意，亦令我深深羨慕和妒忌。
經常有衝動，想一走了之。不是為了逃避，而是想重開自己的眼界和視野。有人說旅遊，就是「從一個活膩了的地方，走到另一個別人活膩了的地方。」其他地方的人是否活膩了，我不曉得，但我對這個城市的感情愈來愈少，倒是事實。幾天前，和幾位一起回流的朋友飯聚，回想十多年前，大家都壯志滿懷的要重回香港，決心追尋和實踐自己的理想。十多年後，大家都不期然的說：「對這個城市很失望！」無論是政府、人民、媒體、居住環境，以至商人的營商手法、人和人之間的關係、新一代的人生態度，都跟十多年前的香港有天淵之別，準確一點說，是大不如前。社會裏互不信任，只有不斷累積怨氣和負面情緒，即使是何等正面的人，也免不了遭這樣的大氣候打沉。當大家的生活都變得枯燥無味，視線愈來愈狹窄，而且都被壓迫得透不過氣的時候，我們還哪有心力去追尋所謂的理想？
於是，終於明白為何在假期裏，大家都不顧旅費暴漲，不理人頭湧湧，千方百計要馬上「逃離家園」。或許，對於這城市，我們都聽厭了、看倦了、活膩了。
我想走。
導演及電台主持
劉偉恒
OH WELL...
===
我恒我訴：活膩了
友人毅然放下手上的一切，拿起背包，決心闖蕩世界。她的足迹遍天下，這天在峇里的海灘上，那天身處在馬來西亞的一個海島；這一回突然走入了熱帶雨林，轉眼又聽說正在欣賞五彩繽紛的晚霞，或棲身在浮羅交怡樹屋上。看着她每天在社交網站內更新的遊蹤，有點像看發現頻道的《Lonely Planet》，雖然是單身旅人，但每一天都是過得那麼新奇和刺激，多麼的寫意，亦令我深深羨慕和妒忌。
經常有衝動，想一走了之。不是為了逃避，而是想重開自己的眼界和視野。有人說旅遊，就是「從一個活膩了的地方，走到另一個別人活膩了的地方。」其他地方的人是否活膩了，我不曉得，但我對這個城市的感情愈來愈少，倒是事實。幾天前，和幾位一起回流的朋友飯聚，回想十多年前，大家都壯志滿懷的要重回香港，決心追尋和實踐自己的理想。十多年後，大家都不期然的說：「對這個城市很失望！」無論是政府、人民、媒體、居住環境，以至商人的營商手法、人和人之間的關係、新一代的人生態度，都跟十多年前的香港有天淵之別，準確一點說，是大不如前。社會裏互不信任，只有不斷累積怨氣和負面情緒，即使是何等正面的人，也免不了遭這樣的大氣候打沉。當大家的生活都變得枯燥無味，視線愈來愈狹窄，而且都被壓迫得透不過氣的時候，我們還哪有心力去追尋所謂的理想？
於是，終於明白為何在假期裏，大家都不顧旅費暴漲，不理人頭湧湧，千方百計要馬上「逃離家園」。或許，對於這城市，我們都聽厭了、看倦了、活膩了。
我想走。
導演及電台主持
劉偉恒
Saturday, February 19, 2011
Tonite's treat: 2009 France Arthur Metz Gewurztraminer
Benchmark: Marks & Spencer Gew
- Color: light yellow
- Viscosity: Less Viscous
- Aroma: Smell: good; Taste:荔枝味好出，少少苦（mineral taste?!); After taste: very good! (even consider i've strong smell food (tomato soup) before!)
- Dryness: Not dry at all, I would say "typical" gew!!!!
- Body: typical gew
- price: $89, Park'n'Shop
Comment: Very easy to drink, not too sweet, comparative w/ M&S Gew (just that the bitter taste is a bit turn off), but OK repurchasable :D (is it b/c i just haven't have a gew for so long?!) and NOT TO MENTION.. the WEIRD cork design broke my wine opener lor! UNLIKE!! >.<
Monday, February 14, 2011
Sunday, February 06, 2011
Wine Tasting - Trio for the night
tonite's trio :) From the left:
1. 2008 Neuweierer Mauerberg Riesling (Spatlese)
2. 2006 Cross Creek Barossa Valley Unwooded Semillon
3. 2009 Nivole Moscato
- Pair w/ parma ham, smoked salmon and chips XDD
1. Benchmark: German Riesling
- Color: darker yellow
- Viscosity: Less Viscous
- Aroma: Smell: weak; Taste: very mild; After taste: very light side.
- Dryness: Not dry at all, very smooth!!!!
- Body: "thin"
- price: (forgot lor, got in Wine Exhibition?)
- Comment: Very easy to drink, not sweet as a Spatlese as I remember, very smooth but taste like fruit punch rather than wine :P
2. er.. this is the "recommendation" from the shop lady... it's bitter (maybe b/c after the Riesling?!? only had one glass - no wonder they don't carry it anymore
3. this is recommended by the guy from Solar Wine. Sweet as it expected (Moscato ma) actually it's quite nice as a dessert wine, but i'm never really a dessert wine person :P haha
Always great to have wine ghost leg, this time is Kim, to share with ;P
1. 2008 Neuweierer Mauerberg Riesling (Spatlese)
2. 2006 Cross Creek Barossa Valley Unwooded Semillon
3. 2009 Nivole Moscato
- Pair w/ parma ham, smoked salmon and chips XDD
1. Benchmark: German Riesling
- Color: darker yellow
- Viscosity: Less Viscous
- Aroma: Smell: weak; Taste: very mild; After taste: very light side.
- Dryness: Not dry at all, very smooth!!!!
- Body: "thin"
- price: (forgot lor, got in Wine Exhibition?)
- Comment: Very easy to drink, not sweet as a Spatlese as I remember, very smooth but taste like fruit punch rather than wine :P
2. er.. this is the "recommendation" from the shop lady... it's bitter (maybe b/c after the Riesling?!? only had one glass - no wonder they don't carry it anymore
3. this is recommended by the guy from Solar Wine. Sweet as it expected (Moscato ma) actually it's quite nice as a dessert wine, but i'm never really a dessert wine person :P haha
Always great to have wine ghost leg, this time is Kim, to share with ;P
Monday, January 03, 2011
2011 New Year's Resolution
Never write / blog down my New Year's resolution before so never know how my progress is XD So here I come - a few "2011 new year's resolution" - I would just say i'm being VERY GENEROUS to myself and set these VERY REASONABLE "resolution":
- drink less (not QUIT, but less) :P
- go to bed before 0130 during wkday (that's reasonable) LOL
- Oatmeal breakfast during wkday (get spoil on wkend)...
Let's see how long i can stick w/ the plan LOL For the "more difficult" tasks... hmmm, let me think think la ;P
Tuesday, December 21, 2010
Tonight's treat - Cloudy Bay Tekoko
Wine Tasting! LOL looking for
1. Party Wine and
2. Wine as Gift.
This one is definitely # 2! I actually like it a lot too!
Cloudy Bay 2007 Tekoko (higher grade of Sauvvignon Blanc)
Benchmark: General white?!
- Color: Light yellow
- Viscosity: Average (tend to less viscose, maybe not cold enough)
- Aroma: Strong (good actually, both smell and taste)
- Dryness: acceptable
- Body: Very full. Very nice!
- After taste: Fruity, a bit sour, and taste "wood"?? again, maybe not cold enough
- price: $368 (vs $2xx Cloudy Bay Sauvvignon Blanc)
- Comment: i don't really like Sauvvignon Blanc as i always think it tends to be very dry. Turn out this higher grade SB is VERY good, both the smell and after taste aroma is very nice. A bit $$, but definitely a GREAT one to enjoy (when one is awake)! :) Worth repurchase :D
Benchmark: General white?!
- Color: Light yellow
- Viscosity: Average (tend to less viscose, maybe not cold enough)
- Aroma: Strong (good actually, both smell and taste)
- Dryness: acceptable
- Body: Very full. Very nice!
- After taste: Fruity, a bit sour, and taste "wood"?? again, maybe not cold enough
- price: $368 (vs $2xx Cloudy Bay Sauvvignon Blanc)
- Comment: i don't really like Sauvvignon Blanc as i always think it tends to be very dry. Turn out this higher grade SB is VERY good, both the smell and after taste aroma is very nice. A bit $$, but definitely a GREAT one to enjoy (when one is awake)! :) Worth repurchase :D
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