Talk about Manipulations...

"... it's all about finding [the] feeling that the other person doesn't wanna feel - and threaten him/her that you'll make him/her feel it if he/she doesn't agree with what [you] say..."

a MIT EE graduate in the 1960s, and
a Stanford MSE graduate in the 2000s

isn't it kinda "double" thinking?! wow.. i need to blog it down and try to experiment the same...

多謝智者指點迷津!

Sis

what i do w/o you?

I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!

P.S. pls don't misunderstand / 對號入座 - of course my sis is not the "she" i've mentioned earlier~~ hahaha.. i love Andy too no doubt!

maybe...

it has been 6 yrs since i came back.... maybe it's time to move on...

just maybe....

How come????? WHY NOT!!!!!

HOW COME??

1. blogger is down forever!! X|
2. guy+gal+guy = upset (in chinese word)?
3. there's no "pure FRIENDSHIP" between guy & gal??
   
4. one just can't treat each other like a family?!?
   
5. can't treat a "family member" as a "family member"???
   
6. even though it's a TRAP & A TOTAL MESS someone still FALL INTO IT
7. give up on MBA?
8. no forgiveness?
   
9. make me feel guilty??
10. don't let me to go for my way?!?!!!!
    

man i'm sorry i'm not the one who's blind in the current circumstances..... i just can't bless you from the bottom of my heart BECAUSE i know there won't be any "good being / fortune" with this MAN. I love you, but i really can't accept the one you loved (don't even talk about LOVE).. sorry, can't do. PERIOD

I might have explained it in a very harsh way - but it's really my feeling. I hate to put it in a harsh way... i don't mean to hurt you, but i don't want to see you get hurt, once again.

LIFE sometimes can really sucks. i think it's one of those days today. :(

Korean Dinner... at home!

well, the guys finally took off today :~( and mom is spending the wkend in Guangzhou so i'm home alone this wkend - all by myself! :~~(

well, actually it's not THAT BAD... i stayed at work until like 5ish... then went for a haircut - and didn't come home until like 8 (really dinner time!) - oh yeah, i dyed my hair back to BLACK - nope, just BLACK, no highlight no nothing.. a bit sick of that highlight for a long time :P

anyway, back to the topic, so since i'm home alone i was thinking to try out that instant "fun see" i got from Seoul last time - it's those instant one (and they gave you sample inside the store)... so here it's.. (just take it in case SOMEONE thought that i don't COOK AT ALL!) *LOL*

As a matter fact it turns out very easy... u just cook the noodles w/ water & the soy sauce provided (1st pict), then after the water dried out a bit you add & stir in the "vegetable flakes" (the green pack)... then cook for another 3 min or so add the last yellow "sesame oil" pack...

da da! here's the finished product:

okay being honest it looks better than it taste *LOL* but okay la... my first time (if not the last time!) to cook Korean food ma hahahahahhahahahaha

Movie Review - Nana 2

so last minute call went to watch Nana 2 w/ pisces tonite... frankly speaking i never watch the animation, nor Nana1.... well, but SOMEONE wanted to go so fine... *LOL*

anyway, i kinda read the story plot before hand and thought it's just a funny / nonsense movie... but turn out - okay, story is "simply" - mainly talked about 8 ppl - but really to my surprises it talks a lot about different relationships, and indeed it's really a warm / girly / touching movie (i was like - why in the world he chose that movie!? any hidden meaning? (okay, maybe i really thought too much)... ANYWAY, as i said it turns out to be a really touching one... and from time to time really can apply to the ppl around you - i think the director has done an excellent job - of course not everyone has "artist" friends around, but like good friends going their own way, too busy to meet up but deep down care about each other... etc etc...

it's just very touching... esp. the 2nd half of the movie, eyes watery all the time! *okay of course i didn't need a tissue or sth like that, come on*

something i don't mind to watch it again - i think it's very similar to Forrest Gump - every time you watch it you'll find something different... but of coures i'm not going to the theatre to watch it again (it's a bit TOO long... movie started at 19:30 and didn't finish until 21:45) but then I think i'll get the DVD and watch it some time later.

It's good to watch something differeny... glad that i "give up" "the Holidays" and the nice French dinner for this (ha, as i don't think i would go by myself) anyway, it's a good one i would say.. not too commerical as the last few one i've watched....

OT: after the movie went to 13/F of Langham Plaza for a drink together w/ gemini... ha, drinks AGAIN! 3 of us! i really had a blast with the guys around... gosh, i've used up all my alcohol "quota" within this holiday! wahahahaha... can't believe i've know them for 10 yrs already... i don't know when we will all get together again (and get drunk again)... hahaha... deep down i know each one of us change day to day - but more important is - we'd (ha, at least me) had just a great time whenever we get together...

gosh i already know i'll be missing them once they're gone - but it's okay, i know we'll see each other soon (ha, being too much together is also a bit too much! kekekeke)

feeling blessed....

30 childish events...

i think i've posted this before?! anyway appledaily posted this again today.. hahaha... had too much stress from work - just want something relaxing :D

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2007 年 繼 續 集 體 回 憶 ， 有 人 在 網 上 列 出 30 項 兒 時 做 過 的 無 聊 事 ， 這 些 無 聊 事 ， 你 做 過 多 少 項 ？

1. 玩 米 缸 ， 將 手 插 入 米 中
2. 篤 扶 手 電 梯 旁 的 吊 牌
3. 行 階 磚 時 隔 一 格 一 格 行 ， 不 踩 界
4. 用 錶 面 反 射 陽 光
5. 跳 樓 梯 (never, 我怕死!)
6. 行 路 上 高 起 地 方 ， 例 如 石 壆
7. 鋪 張 紙 在 硬 幣 上 ， 素 描 公 仔 頭
8. 在 超 級 市 場 踩 住 架 購 物 車 滑 行
9. 吹 口 水 波
10. 搣 牆 紙 或 乳 膠 漆
11. 在 平 滑 地 面 上 「 跣 住 行 」
12. 把 濕 紙 巾 掟 上 廁 所 天 花 板 (don't play with 濕 紙 巾 lei! so expensive! luxury when i was young!)
13. 食 完 香 口 膠 ， 把 包 裝 紙 摺 回 原 狀 放 回 紙 套
14. 把 粉 刷 放 在 風 扇 上 面 ， 開 風 扇 看 誰 人 被 擊 中 (me too short!)
15. 以 膠 袋 取 代 風 箏 「 放 紙 鳶 」 (i've played REAL one ga woh)
16. 去 後 樓 梯 執 鹹 書 (why need to hide in back stairs?! wahhaha)
17. 踩 人 個 影
18. 踩 同 學 對 新 白 飯 魚
19. 用 橡 筋 射 同 學 (seldom.. b/c i usually ended up the rubber band back to my side haha)
20. 丟 鄰 居 拖 鞋 落 街 (neighbor's dont' put their slippers in the hallway ga boh)
21. 玩 消 防 喉 射 水 落 街 (no such thing! keke)
22. 丟 水 彈
23. 跳 鞦 韆 (never, 我怕死!)
24. 在 樓 梯 扶 手 滑 下(never, 我怕死!)
25. 在 扶 手 電 梯 行 相 反 方 向
26. 把 誤 投 信 件 或 傳 單 胡 亂 放 入 鄰 居 信 箱
27. 搭 地 鐵 時 抓 緊 中 間 扶 手 柱 搏 命 自 轉
28. 在 地 鐵 月 台 賽 跑
29. 帶 玩 具 返 學
30. 用 圖 釘 弄 穿 壁 報 板

New Year - new look

alright so this is not the "first post" in 2007 but i guess a "first" post to talk about the new year :P *LOL* ANYWAY, this is not a new layout (maybe i've used it before!?) but just tired of that brownish thingy kekekekeke....

just backed up my blog for Nov. & Dec - i can't believe i only blogged once during Nov?! well, as half of the month i wasn't in HK - 1st half of the month in India and 2nd half of the month in Korea. Just quite some travels in Nov.

Anyway, start the new yr w/ new layout :D (AND this time i didn't loss any bookmarks! haha)

P.S. and yes, i did this change in the office *LOL*

2006 x'mas & new yr wk

so, the x'mas + new year holiday break has officially finished - today - Jan 1, 2007.

well, actually i only worked 10 working days this dec - earlier this month went to visit ceci for a wk (tried to get burnt but never succeed!) hahaha... then took a wk and "visited" HK like a crazy tourist (ocean park, ngong ping 360, numerous shopping tours!) hahaha; ate so much (hot pot (multiple times!) keke, korean BBQ, Shanghaiese, thai + vietnam, white wine, red wine, henekin, diamond black, BBQ @ home... many many; and watched 2 movies....

i had so much fun - hope the guys too.

and then finally ended the year with the Nokia countdown party - thanks for Japanese Ka so to get me the ticket. it was super crazy - just a bit too exhausted for an old cake like me (stood for more than 7 hrs!!!) hahaha.. but it was fun. :)

Today is the first day of the yr - i gave elvin a bath to start with (it's about time!) hahaha... mom is finally back from her tripS! (But i think her cold still haven't gone) and finally watched Confession of Pain tonite! Tony & Takeshi are just soooooooooo awesome!!!!!!!!) oh, thanks for the guys also, tolerate and watch this w/ me (no cute girls) :P

Not to mention, it's great to START the new year with some very 新鮮的老婆餅 - super 好好食! *LOL* thanks pisces :)

Now after a crazy "month" it's time to get myself together and start the new year - i know some times things just don't quite fit in the way one would like to - but then other than "let it flow" one can't do much in many instances - i know what i should do, just that i need to be stronger in order to do what shall be done - and be a stronger Scorpio in 2007!

BBQ @ home tonite....

so even though can't get on MSN tonite - ive better plan tonite! ha, asked gemini, pisces big den & gf, as well as janet & katie (and their other halves) to come along and BBQ @ my place.... i think it was fun :D i think i drank too much (almost the whole bottle) but of course i ain't as drunk as the other day....

too bad we all need to work tomorrow.. oh well, hehehe :P at least i'm done w/ operation review w/ Sunil today and had fun during the BBQ! :D

glad that most of my close friends - from colleges & from work, are here to spend the last "working days" of the yr together :)