Jasper222

超市趣怪經歷 2011

2011-11-30T10:21:00.002+08:00

So last night I’ve 趣怪經歷 and ran into a crazy woman... so i was shopping in Wellcome, and this woman with 2 kids were at the freezer section. (u know those big freezer w/ door size glass door, if you open it it'll have mist all over and can't see a thing)

The mom actually stood there, open the door, (get it all mist) and let one of her kids DRAW on the GLASS!!!!!!!

I stood there (coz can't go through) for like 20 sec until her kid FINISHED his work... can you believe that? (and this is NOT the crazy part yet)

so when they finally closed the door (such that I can walk by) then I said, "小朋友係要教架", the mom, instead of feeling shame, questioned me saying "你又知道我無教? 你見唔到就等於無教架啦？"

"我真係見唔到囉" (我心諗阿師奶，你有教就唔會開埋門俾佢畫畫啦吓嘩。。。好心啦，塊玻璃都唔會乾淨得去邊）

I didn't even stopped by and keep pushing my cart, and that lady is asking her son "XX，話俾呢個 Auntie 聽我有無教你”, and she turned and said to me "係教都唔係係度教，亦唔係你教。。。

（我諗，都係），所以我話 "塊玻璃唔乾淨都唔應該俾小朋友掂啦" (其實，我介意佢整污糟塊玻璃多D)

"你就梗係無仔俾你教。。。"

i was already at the end of the isle, actually, I don't care what the kid's answer... and i don't really care what she's insulting me... how can a kid be a responsible person if his mom is acting like that?

and what is even MORE crazy, when I was lining up at the cashier, that lady got her mobile out and took a pict of me （荒死人唔知佢電話可以影相，亦好似要教訓我話我聽佢有我張相咁，呀師奶，你唔係以為我會怕你攞住我張相上網唱通街嘛？？

I wasn't bothered until she is very 得戚 and said she got my pict, so I said, "你知唔知我可以告你侵犯我私隱?" (其實應該係毀謗）so I took a pict of her (and the kids) and said, "我想話俾你知唔係得你個電話有相機可以影相"

and then she was swearing on the way out (i don't even know what she's saying)... ppl these days... 惡人先告狀！ also 這樣嘅身教，唔奇得D小朋友嘅價值觀有問題啦！

我亦想講，網上人肉搜查唔難，唔好話我 quite fully attached on the cyberspace, 佢亦可以好容易做到，之不過我唔會咁做。我只確得 right at the beginning the act she took her phone out to take a pict of me is VERY WRONG - 點解佢覺得咁做係啱／可以解決問題／保護到佢自己？？（而 the rational behind me taking her pict is really to "protect/defend" myself)... I THINK it's different...

P.S. those kids aren't young, at least primary 3 or 4 ga la! Aiii…..

Happy Thanksgiving 2011

2011-11-24T16:59:00.003+08:00

My dear families (and you who take me as of your own sis/bro) :)

I am very grateful of having you in my life and thanks for taking care of me all these years!! Thx to fb / g+ / MSN or just email / PHONE to bring those who are thousands miles away so close to me as if they're in HK, and thanks for those who are in HK always treat me as a dear sis / bro XDDDDD

Wishing you, your family and your loved one a joyful and peacful Thanksgiving. Miss you!

Love,
Em

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on the side i did a little review for myself and the PCHK when replying to Kirk's email, afterall, it's a different set of experience PCHK has given me...

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... It has been a fruitful year, both for myself as well as the Club! As a Life time alum member (after graduated a decade ago!), and on behalf of the Purdue HK Club, we would like to say thanks, we are thankful for you and your team's hardwork to make the alum network stronger over the yrs! Thank you for making us Proud to be a Boilermaker, even we may have left West Lafayette for years.

Happy Thanksgiving!! Hope to see you soon, in HK or West Lafayette!!!

Wine Fest 2011 @ Kowloon West

2011-10-29T16:45:00.002+08:00

3rd year this year, also my 3rd time. the backbone is the same but many changes. nevertheless, had a blast. Grateful, for all who joined~

Dine and Wine Fest 2011 :)

New Layout...

2011-09-23T03:44:00.002+08:00

Just want a change, want a "happier / autumn" look...

Nightingale - Yanni

2011-09-20T01:31:00.001+08:00

Very peaceful to listen before bed... thx for sharing transformer :D

Old folks gathering @ Peking Restaurant

2011-09-19T00:40:00.003+08:00

難得 Jer 神叫食飯，同劉師傅一行三人到太古北京樓晚餐一聚- 唔經唔覺原來同 Jer san 都有年幾兩年無見！ Lots to catch up - while we dine like we're going to a traditional Chinese meal (i.e. 去飲！）LOL 事原我哋大家都好懶唔想諗食乜，所以就叫咗個 Enjoy card promote 嘅 4 人餐 - OMG，真係好似去飲，食極都有，哈哈哈～～～～

宮保蝦球脆玉瓜, and 冷盤：海蜇+水晶淆肉 at the back

皮脆多肉北京填鴨 XDD really tasty!!! :D

some type of 竹笙 soup :P

We were too busy and didn't take much picts - so this one got all 3: 火腿扒津白 at the very far end, 賽螃蟹 and 小籠包

the most important thing is to catch up.. after all, they're buddies since ASAT times... I'm sure each of us have changed during the years, but we still have a silly and great time together~ :D

FW: 瑚說百道：夢中不見

2011-09-01T15:49:00.000+08:00

畢竟我倆從始至終只是走得很近，事實是大家根本從未真正走在一起。。。:((

as a matter of fact i did dream of him in the last few nights, after all, 日有所思，夜有所夢，雖然 tried my best to focus on HOMEWORK (so many hw this wk! geez, BLaw essay + Extra Credit, also ABE & SIS reading OMG...) 可是事實上好像還是放不開，潛意識還是想着他，於是便在夢中反射了思念。

well, only a few days, I know I'll be better real soon... As Charles said in his fb, "At the Edge of umcomfortable is where you begin to learn"...

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瑚說百道：夢中不見
http://orientaldaily.on.cc/cnt/lifestyle/20110901/00378_001.html

分手後的兩星期，女人幾乎每個晚上都在夢中看見他。都已分手了，為甚麼還要每晚跟他夢中見，她不明白，也不想。為了盡快忘記他，脫離一段感情為她帶來的傷痛，她知道最好的方法便是把他的所有，在她的生命中刪除。

生活中已跟他不再聯絡了，可是她還是跟他在夢中見。

日有所思，夜有所夢，雖然女人的理智控制她要專心工作，可是事實上她還是放不開，潛意識令她還想着他，於是便在夢中反射了她的思念。

在夢中，她和他沒有吵架，她只是看到以往跟他一起生活的點點滴滴。他穿着她為他挑的上衣出門上班去；她每清早例必問他的一句話「晚上回來吃飯嗎？」；他已穿好衣服在左右踱步，等她一同出門的情況；她把火鍋用具弄妥，等他就坐吃晚飯；他和她各自端着自己的酒杯，坐在沙發上看電視劇……解夢專家說，這些夢境，全因為她懷念跟他在一起的生活所致。他們之間因為不愉快的事情分手是一件事，她喜歡跟他一起過的日子又是另一回事。幸好，專家說這情況會隨着時間流逝而慢慢減少。

今天，女人說她昨夜在夢中終於看不見他，而看見他的親人，並跟女人說：「不要再等，他跟另一個她已很好了。」我想，她應開始接受他變心這事實，但願她能盡快跟他夢中不見，重投新生活。

糊塗人

梁佩瑚

FW: 瑚說百道：忘記他

2011-08-30T10:47:00.002+08:00

頗應景的 article, with interesting FB comments:

the formula is: 一句心痛話＋Lots of 眼淚＋ Long long time /時間

always forgetting so as to justify never learning

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瑚說百道：忘記他
在我眼中，分手後，最難過的時刻，是一早一晚睡在床上的時候。即使不是同居，我也喜歡早晚跟情人通電話，要是情人離去後，還可以找誰跟我耳語？當某動作已成為習慣時，真的很難改，要改也很辛苦。

分手後，想多些他的壞處，絕對會令自己好過點。可惜，大部分人的腦袋兒不聽話，想不了一刻他的壞，便已在懷念當天甜蜜的點滴。即使對方已變心，還停不了的在懷念，是因為愛的感覺還沒燃盡？還是真心愛過以後，便難以放下？要是愛還在，便不用走上分手之路，相信是放不下吧！畢竟曾經愛過，即使已分手也不用恨對方，若求把他忘記而想着他的壞處，絕對不是好辦法，那麼該如何忘記他？

也許見多些朋友，把約會排得密密麻麻，分散注意力會是個有用的辦法；可是晚上躺在床上的孤枕時怎辦？酒鬼如我的人，當然是找來酒精作幫手，一杯到肚後便可大覺睡不用受失眠之苦，但也不能晚晚如是，畢竟酒精對身體有害。

又有人說盡快投入另一段新感情是最好的方法，只是急中出錯絕對會令自己再錯一次。

我想還是讓時間把事情沖淡，應該會是最好和最自然忘記他的好方法。

糊塗人

梁佩瑚

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FB Comments:

Nina Xiao: 是的。没有什么是过不去的。 you won't get hurt unless u allow so :)

Emily Tse: :'(

Wong Meme: I hv a formula : 一句心痛話＋眼淚＋時間

Emily Tse: 一句心痛話＋Lots of 眼淚＋ Long long time /時間

Wong Meme: u get it!

Charles Tse: Why forget? If say in the unfortunate event that Soc speaks 一句心痛話 to me and then dies before I do, I'll sure be heartbroken and very much devastated beyond belief, crying my lungs out, but I won't want to forget anything but rather cherish every piece of our moments together.

Emily Tse: but, he is ur son...... part pf ur family, and some who loves(d) u back sometimes, forgetting is good

Charles Tse: I think whether he is part of the family doesn't play that much of a role, nor whether he loves(d) me back. Thinking of the gal whom I had a crush on and who obviously didn't love me, I still feel sweetness (for my naive youthfulness) rather than bitter.

Charles Tse: Forgetting is not necessarily good, although it may make you feel better for the moment b/c you are ignoring the pain. Then you run into the same cycle and need to "forget" again. Now of course it is your choice to play the same game the same way over and over, always forgetting so as to justify never learning. Good luck.

A note to my Prof...

2011-08-22T12:17:00.002+08:00

Dear Prof,

How are you? have a chance for summer holiday and enjoying the sunshine?? (wait, i think they've sunshine all yr round in SG)

:)))

Time sure flies and my class (2010 wkday intake) is half way done! woohoo~ i was just talking to 2 of my friends who'll join this yr's intake and they're "enjoying" their o-camp last weekend @ Goldcoast. haha, time sure flies and can't believe it has been a yr since my beginning here... (btw, i should talk to sachin for promotion commission) LOL.

Enclosed a class picts taken at the end of my 1st elective course - Branding & Communication by Royce. Half of this class were yr 2 classmates (and their last class for the whole MBA program). The senior said once we pass BLaw (D. Bishop) we'll be fine... HA HA...

and we did (wait, another hw to go) LOL

I still remember the time you've mentioned "in your second year, maybe, if you feel you are losing your passion, remember how you begin. " I guess i'm not as strong as from time to time i feel the same (like Marcus' DRA) way before i was done 1st yr - but then every time i just turn back to the email you sent us. haha, thanks for being our mentor, still very glad that i was 2010 > 2011 intake - such that i'd a chance to take classes from great Prof. like you, Konan, and, well, Marcus too~~ :)

End of yr one, half way done and another yr to go. I know it'll be just as great as our 1st yr's journey. Let us know whenever you'll be back in town visiting for a drinks and catch up.

cheers,
Emily

FW: 我恒我訴：出嚟傾

2011-08-02T09:33:00.002+08:00

為何害怕了見面呢？還是，我倆的感情已經淡薄了??

:~((

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我恒我訴：出嚟傾

發現近年的社交活動愈來愈少。不是因為筆者深居簡出，亦不是因通貨膨脹而要減少消費。朋友沒有減少，工作仍是那樣繁重，但大家面對面的約會確實減少了。

從前，無論是談公事，還是訴心聲，一個電話到，下句就是：「出嚟傾啦！」但來到這個年代，大家都彷彿害怕了與人接觸，要討論甚麼，「在電郵上談吧！」要開會的話，「視像或Conference Call啦！」即使要相約一個人，也是靠短訊，連電話也懶得撥一通；無論他的「真身」在何方，原來也是在我們可接觸到的距離——手機和鍵盤內。

所以，當再聽到有人要出國升學或移民的時候，大家只會淡然地說：「不要緊啦，我們可以Skype同FaceTime嘛！記得和我WhatsApp呀！」所謂的依依不捨，都只不過是輕輕帶過，絕對不會去到「生離死別」、「揮淚作別」的地步。這也難怪，既然近在咫尺也只是談電話和傳短訊，他在九龍還是倫敦，又有何分別呢？

為何我們都害怕了見面呢？是不是因為太依賴科技，令我們的交際能力不斷下降？還是，人和人的感情愈來愈淡薄？如果有一天，所有人都只是坐在房中的電腦前交際，那又將會是一個怎麼樣的世界？我們還需要咖啡店嗎？筆者是傳統人，始終覺得「見面」是「親眼見一面」，要觸摸得到、感覺得到，能呼吸得到她的香氣。我們可以親手拭去情人的眼淚；亦可以輕輕一拍兄弟的肩膀，予他最給力的支持，這才是人和人相處的真正方式。親愛的朋友，出嚟傾？隨時奉陪！

導演及電台主持

劉偉恒

No one can guarantee...

2011-07-19T09:47:00.012+08:00

"Marriage is not about unchanging love; it is more about letting love change us. It is not about living idyllically in our similarities, but about living peacefully and pleasurably in our differences." - Being Wrong

Quote posted by wiseman...

Exactly the pt! "Unchanging" is NOT what i was referring to, yes, maybe it's true that no one can guarantee as we are not God, all i am trying to say is being in a relationship is being with someone whom you can 'grow' with, or just as the quote put it "letting love change us"...

I don't know why I'm insisting it's all about commitment, 而得到對方的愛便是 commitment 背後最大嘅原動力。。。

活到這年紀，很多東西應該要學會看得開，let go when it is time, 只是這一點點暫未能放下, because, this is just what i believe in, and still make up part of who I am today...

4D dream...

2011-06-23T16:27:00.001+08:00

this is like the 1st time i really feel that i can SMELL in my dream... although the smell from the deadbody may indicate good things happen in work (which i'm not really looking fwd.. but anyway, the dream still bothering me... aii...

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it was like watching a scary movie (but i'm actually the one in the movie)... that somehow i know there's going to be a dead lady.... i went to the building, quite old type w/ no elevator (but newly ivory color paint), then i met up that girl's boy friend at the entrance, we rush up the stairs (and i kept thinking why 8th / 9th floor so many stairs to go tired die)...

so finally we reached the top floor, the stairs are very wide (probably double size of the old building i stayed in)... so anyway, the guy reached the apartment first, he rang the door bell (and i was half floor waiting b/c i know it's going to be scary...

the door opened, but w/ no one!? the guy went in, and at the same time the neighbor downstairs come out, a young lady in blue clothes (swim suit / shorts or sth), saying "hai lor, don't know why called her for a few catch up but she didn't show up / respond to me"... so i went up w/ that neighbor to the apartment - and before we reached the door (it's opened b/c the guy went in already) we smell very terrible smell and my sense tell me it must be from deadbody (in which i've never and don't wanna know in real life), then i saw the guy and another big guy in the apartment moving the deadbody out (one take the foot and one take the shoulder or sth...

luckily phone rang and help me escaped from such a scary dream.. i can't imagine what would happen next...

FW: 找誰跟你一起過生活

2011-06-21T16:34:00.003+08:00

I never really like Wong as i think he's too high profile... on the other hand, i just think that if you're CRAZILY in love w/ someone, you'll always "覺頭上陽光燦爛；失去了他，你得到世間一切仍然悶悶不樂"??

at least for me... miss him day and nite... ;-P

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路中拾遺：找誰跟你一起過生活

當我們到了某年紀，開始親身戳破愛情的糖衣肥皂泡，給刺穿的泡沫濺傷了眼睛，就開始隻眼開隻眼閉的找伴侶。

這時候，總是有人這樣抱怨：其實我的要求已經很簡單，我不要求有白馬王子，不希望天天浪漫窩心，但求有個志同道合、步伐一致的人跟我一起生活，只要對方不討厭便行了，不相愛有不相愛的好處，然而為甚麼這個一起生活的人，竟然不比靈魂伴侶易找多少？

其實啊，我一直相信，不管你找的是甚麼，找不找到，根本就跟要求高低無關。有些人要求極高極刁鑽都給她剛巧遇上，很多人要求甚低，要的不過是四肢健全智商正常的異性乙名，多年來遇上的仍然甩皮甩骨，因此，一切都是命，跟要求高低不一定就有關係。

也許，我們即使降低要求這麼多年，仍然沒遇上一個能夠一起生活的人，是否該停下來反省一下？我們是不是方向錯了，其實，我們不該在尋找一個能夠一起生活的人，而是，該找一個沒有了他就無法生活的人？

有了他，你但覺頭上陽光燦爛；失去了他，你得到世間一切仍然悶悶不樂……我們真正需要的，其實是這種人吧？偏偏，我們又因為害怕這種人的強大摧毀力量，知道跟他一起我們的生活總是很容易變得一團糟，所以總是潔身自愛，小心遠離，然而也許，能讓我們不枉此生，沒有白活一場的，正是這個獨一無二的人啊。

王貽興

VIIV

2011-06-04T11:28:00.005+08:00

Life goes on for the last 22 years, I still remember our Chinese / 社會科老師陳主任 tried her best to explain to us back then P6 students what'd happened...

I hope this day will never come again, Life goes on...

並沒有忘記，也不敢忘記。。。

咁辛苦，算吧啦。。。

2011-04-28T10:24:00.001+08:00

:~(

Movie Review on 單身男女

2011-04-06T11:37:00.005+08:00

Er... TOTALLY disappointed, even w/ 2 of the "cutest living guys" in HK... sigh, totally wasted... see one of my reviews on why i don't like this movie (when replying to Aquarius about why this movie is a guys' fantasy...

單身男女

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Actually i'm very disappointed 杜琪峯 made such a 'low level love story"... it reflect the writer thinks girls in general want from guys are: 靚仔、有錢、專一... so that's why i think most of the guys would like movie and it's a "fantasy" for them and what they've been working toward to these days...so they may easily have 共鳴 and think that having 高圓圓 to choose between 有錢靚仔嘅 ibanker 古天樂 (但花心) vs. 心地好專一靚仔嘅吳彥祖 (但無古天樂咁有錢) 就好似天下上一件好難嘅事咁。。。

其實一開場就已經可以揀吳彥祖(although i know i'm also bias!) hahahaha... but no need to use TWO hrs for a story that can be done in 20 min. but again.. maybe you GUYS like FANTASY gwa. hahahahahahha most of my girl friends doesn't like the movie either (even though we all like Daniel) hahaahaha..

I guess it's true that rich guys can get girls easier, give the guys more "options", and plenty of girls are for that. HAHA, MAYBE i'm the one living in fantasy and expect 杜琪峯's love story will have depth like 龍鳳鬥 with Sammi & Andy Lau... Anyway... blah blah blah, i should keep this on my blog instead.

WAKAKAKAKAKAKAKAKAKAKAKAKAKKAK

Hmm... A Reminder.... 秘密心事 (梁佩瑚)

2011-03-09T12:02:00.000+08:00

Agree and reminder to myself...

FW: 瑚說百道：秘密心事

記得讀中學的時候，很多時都會跟一些同學（有男有女）談秘密心事，而這些秘密事，當然是「你猜某某喜不喜歡我」。

不知道為甚麼，很多時我都會成為傾訴的對象，也許是跟我名字有個「佩」字有關吧！朋友時常把我看成是「佩夫人信箱」，向我取經。不知他們又可有發覺，其實「佩夫人」只是止咳用的藥，根本跟愛情是沒有關係的。然而，我這個「佩夫人」也做得蠻開心的，聽着別人那麼多秘密，儲着儲着便成了今天還沒用盡的小說情節和橋段，想起來也真的要多謝曾向我訴心事的朋友。

還以為只有年輕的我們才會有閒情和心情跟朋友談秘密心事，沒想過今時今日，到了這個歲數，還有朋友把秘密心事放到枱上，很不秘密地跟同枱吃飯的朋友請教「她喜不喜歡我」這個問題。

很明白當喜歡上一個人的時候，心情是會忐忑得毫無主見，甚至會徬徨得不知所措，所以請教朋友的意見，絕對是正常的。只是，做了那麼多年人，在感情世界裏亦經歷過那麼多了，為甚麼會連對方對自己有沒有感覺也分不出？也許，有些人對這方面的感覺會有點遲鈍，但要是對方是有意思的，再遲鈍的人也應該會感覺到吧！畢竟人是靠觀感生活的，要是從對方身上感覺不到甚麼的話，我想這件「秘密心事」，應該開不了甚麼花了。

糊塗人
梁佩瑚

FW: 浪漫，又是甚麼？

2011-03-03T15:08:00.008+08:00

對於我來說，也許是比較"單純"（自己也忍唔住笑！哈！）我未必知道乜嘢係浪漫。。。不過窩心就都會有嘅。。。好似

- "無呀，打嚟睇吓你點解咁慘咁夜都未返屋企。。。" （即刻乜慘都 sweet 晒）;P
- "聽見你病咪打你睇吓你點囉。。。食咗藥味呀"（唔病都即刻變得十分非常病得好嚴重）XDDDDDD
- 應承我下次一定會唱我點嘅歌 (冧到震。。。)
- 煮飯仔（無論係你煮定我煮都覺得好幸福啵 (唔好食都變得好食啦）即使洗碗都覺得幸福呀（好變態！有被虐狂）XDDDDDDDDDDDDD
- 修理家裡壞掉的東西時 - 好 man 呀! :D
- 收到一張喺你去旅行時寄返嚟嘅 postcard (although, >90% of the time 你個人返咗你張 postcard都未見影）

其實好多時候都無話特別要做 D 乜。。。簡單到可能只係喺 coffee shop 一齊飲咖啡，雖然可能你有你睇你嘅書，我有我做功課。。。just being there, feel 幸福啦（不過大家唔好對號入錯座。。。當然係只有當時那個 "他" 做我先會覺得幸福／窩心。。。其他的你、你、你。。。未免想得太多了！ XDDDDD)

P.S. Feel sad for the divorce lady at the end of the story though, really 對人歡笑背人愁。。。

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浪漫，又是甚麼？
請用10個字形容一下浪漫。

甚麼？哪怕是10個字，3個字也嫌多。浪漫，不就是浪漫嘛！

沒錯，浪漫是一種感覺，一種feel。而你一搬FEEL這四個字母出來，已可說是天下無敵，人人都拿你沒輒。
那麼，怎樣會令你「覺得很浪漫」？要對方做些甚麼、配備甚麼道具，才會讓你忍不住心裡喊一聲：「好浪漫呀！」

以現代最cliché的標準，浪漫的道具不外乎鑽石、玫瑰、燭光晚餐、沙灘+浪花；浪漫的行為例如在地鐵大聲講我愛你、買下時代廣場大電視的兩分鐘時間叫你做老婆豬、當眾自彈自唱那首專誠為你而學的歌、又或者，學織冷衫，給你織件雖鴛鴦袖卻很窩心的溫暖牌。

我們被毒到這個地步，就是說如果朋友甜笑著跟你說她的另一半帶備以上其中一種道具做了以上其中一種行為，你即使心裡不甚了了，也要應酬式地回應一句：「嘩你就好啦男朋友咁浪漫！」

為了尋找浪漫的真締，我向幾個朋友查詢她們對上一次「覺得浪漫」是甚麼時候──

A：「我跟他逛city’super，你也知道他買日用品從來不看價錢，那天他竟然在揀鹽時格價！那一刻我忽然覺得前途很光明！很浪漫！」

B：「那天呀~我的M來得很凶，我痛得腰都伸不直了，家裡的巾巾剛好又用光，他居然自己提出替我去買！雖然很痛，卻痛有所值喔！」

C：「我那位，唉，完事之後他比我晚睡著我已經覺得很浪漫很皇恩浩蕩的啦！」（對上一次是幾時？）「我們第一次做的那晚。」

D：「其實每次我看著他修理家裡壞掉的東西時，都會有浪漫的感覺湧上腦。例如前天電視機沒畫面，他去拍了幾下機身畫面又出來了！」

E：「他每天都會準時來電提醒我吃藥，有時我也會嫌煩啦！有天他真的沒來電話，等呀等呀，心裡在罵他沒良心。三個鐘後他打來問我藥吃了沒，我氣得問他『死咗去邊』，原來他出了車禍斷了腿躺醫院呢！那一刻眼淚自自然然就滾出來了。」

F：「我在一家養了很多流浪貓的書店裡，遇到一位老伯伯坐著看書，一隻黃貓在他懷中睡得很香！天！這畫面真的太浪漫了！」（你會不會離題太遠？你多久沒拍拖了？）

綜合她們的意見，浪漫，首先是對方突然做一些平常不會做、而你心裡卻很想很想他做的事情；第二點更重要，就是對方的言行令你對將來有憧憬有盼望，覺得跟他一起活下去是件很有意思的事。

雖然每個女人都是吃感覺的奶大，但不是每個女人都想做射燈下的drama queen。浪漫的形式有很多種，而且很多時候是存在於細眉細眼的日常生活小節裡，要靠你自己去發掘。

想起一個早前因為被老公家暴而申請離婚的朋友說過，別人都覺得她前夫很浪漫很有情趣，生日和情人節都很給力，送大大束的花到她公司讓她「有得威」。而她說，去年的情人節他又送了一百支玫瑰到公司，當天晚上回到家裡一言不合又被他很給力的打到豬頭一樣。

第二天要告假的她，同事們還以為她跟老公昨晚浪漫大戰得太激烈呢！

On Ekin 鄭伊健...

2011-03-02T10:35:00.002+08:00

朋友仔一路都係伊麵忠實 fans，我就一般囉，係記得喺 Purdue 時都有喺 YesAsia 買咗依隻 CD (當時好奢侈o架！） :D

so i don't think other than this one i've listen to his songs particularly (i don't really recall anyway) - well, i mean, not until last year I just realize (and surprised!) i know pretty much all of his songs when I went to his concert (and thanks for 朋友仔 ticket!)

So this year i initiate to go to his concert - and i think my FIRST time to buy the most $$ ticket - not even Leon!!! LOL! I think the part that engaged me a lot is that most of his songs are those "fairy tale" love stories, songs' name like 感激我遇見, 一生愛你一個, 誰可情深如我,你狠心來傷我嗎, 仍能情深愛上, 有你便有我, 一個為你甘去蹈火海的人, 直至消失天與地, 友情歲月, 同一秒,發現, Together.... (just to name a few)… Just the songs' names alone can write up a love story (more than a love letter!) Not to mention, melody of those old days songs are very "my cup of tea"... :P

咁我算唔算係伊麵粉絲？ XDDDD

On the same token, 如果有個男仔對住你唱／點唱以上事但一首歌俾你都 easily冧死啦！！(I mean, 邊個女仔都會 rite? Unless she REALLY hates Ekin)

LOL

Very much look forward to the concert this Sat… (Row 12!) hahaha…

FW: 我恒我訴：活膩了- 劉偉恒

2011-02-28T11:37:00.003+08:00

我也想走。。。但是捨不下現在"家"的包袱。。。

OH WELL...

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我恒我訴：活膩了

友人毅然放下手上的一切，拿起背包，決心闖蕩世界。她的足迹遍天下，這天在峇里的海灘上，那天身處在馬來西亞的一個海島；這一回突然走入了熱帶雨林，轉眼又聽說正在欣賞五彩繽紛的晚霞，或棲身在浮羅交怡樹屋上。看着她每天在社交網站內更新的遊蹤，有點像看發現頻道的《Lonely Planet》，雖然是單身旅人，但每一天都是過得那麼新奇和刺激，多麼的寫意，亦令我深深羨慕和妒忌。

經常有衝動，想一走了之。不是為了逃避，而是想重開自己的眼界和視野。有人說旅遊，就是「從一個活膩了的地方，走到另一個別人活膩了的地方。」其他地方的人是否活膩了，我不曉得，但我對這個城市的感情愈來愈少，倒是事實。幾天前，和幾位一起回流的朋友飯聚，回想十多年前，大家都壯志滿懷的要重回香港，決心追尋和實踐自己的理想。十多年後，大家都不期然的說：「對這個城市很失望！」無論是政府、人民、媒體、居住環境，以至商人的營商手法、人和人之間的關係、新一代的人生態度，都跟十多年前的香港有天淵之別，準確一點說，是大不如前。社會裏互不信任，只有不斷累積怨氣和負面情緒，即使是何等正面的人，也免不了遭這樣的大氣候打沉。當大家的生活都變得枯燥無味，視線愈來愈狹窄，而且都被壓迫得透不過氣的時候，我們還哪有心力去追尋所謂的理想？

於是，終於明白為何在假期裏，大家都不顧旅費暴漲，不理人頭湧湧，千方百計要馬上「逃離家園」。或許，對於這城市，我們都聽厭了、看倦了、活膩了。

我想走。

導演及電台主持
劉偉恒

Tonite's treat: 2009 France Arthur Metz Gewurztraminer

2011-02-19T23:33:00.003+08:00

Benchmark: Marks & Spencer Gew
- Color: light yellow
- Viscosity: Less Viscous
- Aroma: Smell: good; Taste:荔枝味好出，少少苦（mineral taste?!); After taste: very good! (even consider i've strong smell food (tomato soup) before!)
- Dryness: Not dry at all, I would say "typical" gew!!!!
- Body: typical gew
- price: $89, Park'n'Shop
Comment: Very easy to drink, not too sweet, comparative w/ M&S Gew (just that the bitter taste is a bit turn off), but OK repurchasable :D (is it b/c i just haven't have a gew for so long?!) and NOT TO MENTION.. the WEIRD cork design broke my wine opener lor! UNLIKE!! >.<

Actually...

2011-02-14T03:33:00.006+08:00

sigh....自作孽。。。不可活！ :((

Wine Tasting - Trio for the night

2011-02-06T04:18:00.002+08:00

tonite's trio :) From the left:

1. 2008 Neuweierer Mauerberg Riesling (Spatlese)
2. 2006 Cross Creek Barossa Valley Unwooded Semillon
3. 2009 Nivole Moscato

- Pair w/ parma ham, smoked salmon and chips XDD

1. Benchmark: German Riesling
- Color: darker yellow
- Viscosity: Less Viscous
- Aroma: Smell: weak; Taste: very mild; After taste: very light side.
- Dryness: Not dry at all, very smooth!!!!
- Body: "thin"
- price: (forgot lor, got in Wine Exhibition?)
- Comment: Very easy to drink, not sweet as a Spatlese as I remember, very smooth but taste like fruit punch rather than wine :P

2. er.. this is the "recommendation" from the shop lady... it's bitter (maybe b/c after the Riesling?!? only had one glass - no wonder they don't carry it anymore

3. this is recommended by the guy from Solar Wine. Sweet as it expected (Moscato ma) actually it's quite nice as a dessert wine, but i'm never really a dessert wine person :P haha

Always great to have wine ghost leg, this time is Kim, to share with ;P

任性，是有限期的。。。

2011-01-03T18:00:00.000+08:00

hmmmm..... stand still stand still and stay determinate!!!!!!!

2011 New Year's Resolution

2011-01-03T09:47:00.002+08:00

Never write / blog down my New Year's resolution before so never know how my progress is XD So here I come - a few "2011 new year's resolution" - I would just say i'm being VERY GENEROUS to myself and set these VERY REASONABLE "resolution":

drink less (not QUIT, but less) :P
go to bed before 0130 during wkday (that's reasonable) LOL
Oatmeal breakfast during wkday (get spoil on wkend)...

Let's see how long i can stick w/ the plan LOL For the "more difficult" tasks... hmmm, let me think think la ;P

Tonight's treat - Cloudy Bay Tekoko

2010-12-21T21:38:00.008+08:00

Wine Tasting! LOL looking for

1. Party Wine and

2. Wine as Gift.

This one is definitely # 2! I actually like it a lot too!

Cloudy Bay 2007 Tekoko (higher grade of Sauvvignon Blanc)
Benchmark: General white?!
- Color: Light yellow
- Viscosity: Average (tend to less viscose, maybe not cold enough)
- Aroma: Strong (good actually, both smell and taste)
- Dryness: acceptable
- Body: Very full. Very nice!
- After taste: Fruity, a bit sour, and taste "wood"?? again, maybe not cold enough
- price: $368 (vs $2xx Cloudy Bay Sauvvignon Blanc)
- Comment: i don't really like Sauvvignon Blanc as i always think it tends to be very dry. Turn out this higher grade SB is VERY good, both the smell and after taste aroma is very nice. A bit $$, but definitely a GREAT one to enjoy (when one is awake)! :) Worth repurchase :D

Holiday schedule - fully packed for the rest of 2010!

2010-12-21T10:41:00.006+08:00

Indeed, FULLY packed for the rest of 2010 *LOL* (okay, i do manage to have a couple REST days in between so it isn't THAT BAD!) LOL

20th (last night) - dinner @ Qui with BV colleagues (Carol, Joliot & Angel) - with a budget of $120 per head w/ appetizer and main dishes?! Out preformed!
21st (tonite) - 做冬 dinner with mom (yeh, that's right, i DO make it happen...)
22nd - REST DAY (i seriously need to clean up my place since exam!) LOL
23rd - Classical music concert w/ Wah & Yekini, then drinks together w/ Paul afterward (re-celebration of wah's birthday)
24th - Christmas dinner with Issac + wife, MAYBE drinks with Howard & Jan afterward
25th - cookout dinner @ Kim's with Peggie, Paul, Yekini, Alison, and maybe Edward
26th - REST DAY, but we suppose to go Harry Potter 7 w/ Yekini & ed
27th - Jeff's wedding banquet
28th - REST DAY LOL
29th - Purdue Dinner for Ed (Natasha, big den)
30th - MBA BBQ @ Shek O (so far confirmed 10 ppl to go!) woo hoo~
31st - Dinner w/ Gret + Benny, Chun, Yekini & Ed, then count down at my place
Jan 1st - REST DAY LOL
Jan 2nd - Purdue Tea @ Jockey Club (current Boilers, Ed)

ppl / gathering can't fix in schedule

Ken / Marco
MBA - wkend mode!? (can't join their 25th k la... i would much prefer to crash w/ Kim's crowd!) hahaha

isn't this crazy!? I wonder what I did w/ so many spare times last year :P

A Marvelous weekend, filled w/ love :)

2010-12-20T11:48:00.005+08:00

wow, another crazy Sat... just another lovely wekend :)

went drinks RIGHT AFTER exam - studied the whole day Friday for the exam at the central library in CWB and i think i did okay in the exam. I don't think i can get an A but hey, passing it should be no problem :-P

SO, went to Inn Side Out rite after - max we've 11 of us! woohoo~~ it's super crazy! :P we dashed off at around 1900 (as others have dinner plans). had fun hanging out w/ the gangs, again, i don't remember what we talked about in details (is my memory just getting worse these days and always "can't remember what exactly we talked about"?! Or just that it's nothing really important (aka blow water) so never bother to use any brain cell to remember!?) hahaha

All I remember was that we mentioned NO exam content to be discussed, BBQ gathering 12/30 (another gathering woohoo~~) er... and some 8 gwa yeh between who send who some iPhone as gift and may go trip together lor (but why bother and who cares really)?! Although, both classrep & how said they're happy for her and she's cute (blah blah blah).

hahaha, I had 4 glasses of white, also ordered a hooegarden but ended up spitting 80% of it (er.. what a waste!). i think all had fun. :)

And Thai dinner afterward w/ SkinGo @ Elements - totally ad hoc. Waited for him for an hr (while in total wing stage - and ops, sorry sis i called in a totally totally WRONG HRS!) LOL... anyway, dinner was nice :) We had another bottle of house white - OMG, I've drank so much that nite and by midnite i know it's time to go home (and crash) :PPPP

Oh almost forgot, a bag of coffee from SkinGo!! wakakakka happy! :D

Sunday... actually got up very early at 6 sth (felt too cold so just woke up and took a hot hot shower - although it's a lot warmer than Thurs & Fri)... went back to sleep after feeding elvin (HAHAHA)... Woke up by Ed's SMS at 11ish - wooho~~ :-) he has been back since Friday but didn't call me b/c he knows i was having exam on Sat (hahaha, so considerate bor) LOL..

Anyway, so i just kept talking and talking (as usual) and we fixed up dinner together w/ yekini & big den (er.. big den as usual fly aeroplane la!) hahahahah.. didn't get moving to take another shower (don't ask me why i just feel like one) LOL and head out to MK w/ yekini for Christmas shopping - yehhhhhh :D for some reason it's like super super crowded EVERYWHERE but anyway, got the Christmas presents i wanna get (well, except kim's & peggies <- almost forgot hers)....

Hot Pot dinner w/ yekini & Ed was fun as usual - although the food came in like super late and the water in the pot was running dry w/o any food lor! and the 1st bottle are almost done since no food is around. WAKAKAKAKAKA.. ENJOY free corkage! LOL and we had finished 2 bottles during dinner (HA HA HA)

First wine of the nite - recommended by the wine shop guy - a Tasmania Wine - mix of 40% Riesling + 35% Gew + 25% Pinot Gris

Benchmark: M&S Gew
- Color: Similar
- Viscosity: Similar
- Aroma: Strong (good actually)
- Dryness: Less (Feel very "board" and "round")
- After taste: Similar?
- price: $162 (vs $88 per bottle!)
- Comment: Actually i think this mix one is relatively nice compare w/ the price. the taste is more "complicated" but very easy to drink. Definitely worth repurchase :D

2nd white of the nite - 2009 Laugel Vin D'Alsace Gew - we were spse to start this one but since the food come too late we just drink a lot more than we though.. LOL :P however, this is a bit disappointed though :(

Benchmark: M&S Gew
- Color: Similar
- Viscosity: Similar
- Aroma: Less than M&S
- Dryness: very smooth
- After taste: similar
- price: $158 (vs $88 per bottle!)
- Comment: maybe it's a "mistake" to take this as the "2nd" wine as once we try this after last one we just think that the taste of this one is too plain and just can taste the sweet ONLY (no other taste! Lachee isn't out, nor other one).. hmm.. won't worth to try again

LAST but not LEAST - i bought myself a Titus (so spoiled!) :P

what a wkend!! great times filled with loved ones!! and I just know that for the remaining 10 days of 2010 will be even greater. :)

聖誕卡 - 多年來"堅守"嘅 Tradition

2010-12-14T10:28:00.004+08:00

十分同意 :) 也是我多年來"堅守"Tradition" 嘅意思 :)

Sending my 2nd batch of Christmas cards today (ha, to classmates - my 6 senses, jan, clara & how)

Merry Christmas, to those i care and care about me in the last year, and the yrs before... :)

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我恒我訴：聖誕卡

剛收到今年第一張聖誕卡，是來自教會裏一位十歲的小妹妹。那天，見她捧着一大疊賀卡，逐一派發，親口送上誠意的祝福，場面很是感人，亦提醒我聖誕節快到了。

我也曾經飾演過同一個角色。那個年頭，臨近聖誕，媽媽總會給我一筆額外的零用錢，然後我便跑到街角的文具店，站在那高高的木架前，就着手上的「Budget」，揀選心儀的聖誕卡：普通同學仔，送五毫子一張的便足夠；交情好一點的，送一元的吧；好兄弟和班主任會送三元的，打開時會彈出立體聖誕樹；手上剩餘的十元，會用來買兩張「音樂卡」，送給父母和一位最要好的同學。

小學生的世界既純真又直接（亦可以說很勢利），既然聖誕卡有「等級」之分，一班同學的關係圖，就此表露無遺：會互送聖誕卡的便是朋友，沒有的便不是；又或我當他是「死黨」，但他只送我最普通的一款，便知道「此情不再」。每年，總有人會眼紅，有人會失望，有人會因為收到的卡太少而落淚，一班同學的關係，便可能因一個聖誕節而大大改變了。

回到家中，又會與弟弟比併，看看誰的「聖誕卡龍」最長。可惜，這條龍一年比一年的短，後來更徹底消失了。到了今天，那張卡是五角的還是五元的已不再重要，最值得珍惜的，是有人仍會特地為你挑選一張實實在在的聖誕卡，親手寫上祝福，在信封寫上你的名字，單是這樣，已夠感恩。

親愛的錡錡，多謝你的「守護蛋精靈」聖誕卡，雖然我沒有看過這套卡通片，但仍衷心多謝你的心意，願我們的主一生守護你！

導演及電台主持

劉偉恒

Fw: 瑚說百道：緣分兩面體

2010-12-13T13:31:00.001+08:00

> 要是他也同樣喜歡你，便是有緣了，馬上結婚吧！」凡事也有「兩面體」，有緣跟喜歡掛鈎，至於無緣呢？希望跟我的名字沒有關係吧！

瑚說百道：緣分兩面體
那天前輩竟然鼓勵我不用急於結束單身生涯。有丈夫有兒有女有孫的她認為如果讓她從頭選擇，她情願單身。
其實我感到前輩絕對是個幸福的女人。自己有才華，丈夫有社會地位，子女都是專業人士，生活無憂，其實現在很應該是她享晚年福的時候，但她卻以過來人身份勸告我，她現在的生活也不外如是，亦沒有我想像中的好。在她眼中，身邊有個伴簡直令她失去所有自由。對方餓了便要陪他吃，他累了便要陪他睡。要她二十四小時侍候對方，令她感到累極了。

那麼子女又如何？她認為他們是跟她討債的。她對他們就只有付出，從來沒有任何收穫。因為不論她從前花那麼多的心思和時間教育他們，待他們長大有所成就，都只會以自己的家庭為主。至於孫兒呢？她慨嘆道，要鄰家的小孩叫她一聲奶奶，也比叫自己的孫兒開口容易，實在令她莫名其妙。

所以我的個案在她眼中，絕對是單身比結婚好。因為我住村屋開日本車便能夠滿足了，最重要的生活問題解決後，還為甚麼要找個人在身邊管制自己？

我再問如果我遇上很喜歡的人又如何？她想也不想便回答：「要是他也同樣喜歡你，便是有緣了，馬上結婚吧！」凡事也有「兩面體」，有緣跟喜歡掛鈎，至於無緣呢？希望跟我的名字沒有關係吧！

糊塗人

2010 Birthday - Filled with LOVE!

2010-11-29T01:42:00.031+08:00

yeh, it came a little late for this yr's birthday recap (and it has been 2 wks since my birthday) *LOL* well, since the so-called birthday celebration didn't "officially" end until yesterday - Carol's treat @ Cafe Gray on 49/F Upper House Pacific Place :-)

REALLY CRAZY this yr - REALLY a WHOLE MONTH's celebration!! hahaha.. I'm really very glad, and feel very blessed, for the ones around (physically), or just a fb msg away :-) VERY grateful for the love, from family, old friends and new friends. Here comes this yr's recap:

the month is really fully packed ga! LOL

2010-11-07 – Hot Pot @ Ken's w/ Marco

The birthday "celebration" started on Nov 6 - well, original was just hotpot @ Ken's w/ marco & ken's family - turn out these guys remember and had an early celebration for my birthday!!! woo hoo~~ I can't believe the guys remember my birthday!! hehehe my 1st birthday cake in 2010 - Maxim's Tiramisu cake! love!
2010-11-11 – Singing karaoke with Canossian:

AGAIN, this is not exactly a celebration of my birthday but doesn't hurt to get discount for the birthday gal! hahahaha... had a blast!

2010-11-11 – Family Dinner Nov 11

Since have to align with everyone's schedule had the birthday dinner a littler earlier - and mom got me a Cova Tiramisu birthday cake – yummmmmmmmmmmm!!! :D

2010-11-12 – Hotpot and drinks w/ my MBA classmates

It was meant to be another dinner gathering as both clara and I are "Nov birthday stars" - turns out Jan, Clara & Howard gave me my 3rd birthday cake - Maxim's Devil cake!!!

It's really amazing how close we get in such a short time. It's not only about hw time but we did hang out very often lately (every wkend as a matter of fact). Yes, maybe they're just "wine meat friends" as time goes, but I really feel the love and caring from them.

LOVE!

2010-11-13 – HK MBA Mixer drinks

okay, this is not really for my birthday celebration either LOL, but this is right before my official birthday dinner w/ the gangs. Didn't really get much “networking” w/ other school students (too many there), but instead I did get to catch up with my other wkend mode classmates. nice :)

2010-11-13 – my official birthday dinner w/ Yekini, Alison, Kim and Paul!

I chose an Italian restaurant Vivi - EXCELLENT service, food is good (although paul's still better) - yet just had a blast with marvelous food (pizza, mushroom and ham risotto, and lobster spaghetti!!) with my FOURTH birthday cake from Mrs. Field's Cookie - thanks Kim, and just a wonderful time to spent together :-)

After dinner (~23ish) Alison and I also went k - together w/ Aquarius. My gosh got so drunk that night - 2 dozens of beers (in addition to the wine consumed in the MBA drinks and Vivi's dinner). Oh, not to mention, a birthday kiss (on the cheek of course!) hahaha LOL

2010-11-14 – Birthday trip to Ocean Park

Free entry on birthday!! Visited the panda and whole bunch of other animals. and this is the new ride (the train).. but ha, kinda disappointed. HAD GREAT time w/ yekini and zita

2010-11-15 - Natasha's Japanese food treat!

I really treasure the bond w/ Natasha. Although we may be living in 2 different worlds nowadays, and that, every time i feel kinda sad for seeing her (er.. complicated). but still, very nice to hang out w/ a friend used to be so close from time to time. Love ya!

2010-11-20 - 6 senses reunion @ Lisa's + Birthday celebration for me and Betty
er.. i erased the picts by accident (can't upload from work.... ) well, will post that later. :-)

AGAIN, very amazing how close we got after 5 wks intensive class. i'm very grateful to be in such a GREAT team and can be friends together. LOVE!

2010-11-27 - Carol's birthday treat at Cafe Gray, 49/F Upper House Pacific Place

ha, this is the OFFICIAL last event for my BIRTHDAY celebration (although, in between filled with eating buddy dinner @ Hooray (another marvelous view place) / lunch with jack & elsie / another CRAZY birthday dinner + drinks for Clara). ANYWAY, Carol is so nice to take me to this $$ place with MARVELOUS view! more importantly is that we got a great time just to catching up! ;-)

This year, officially 30 sth (LOL), my birthday MONTH is filled with LOVE, with many who loves me, from different "diameters" circles of friends. A lot of partying, yet, more importantly, my recent life is filled w/ ppl who loves me - not only those "wine+meat" friends, but many who actually cares and loves me (in various degree). I'm truly gratefuly, life is good to me, and indeed this is one of the best birthday ever!! :-)

Birthdays recap:

2009 - i guess it wasn't the best time - no entry!?
2008 - not much blogged either.. bummer!
2007
2006
2005 and before

You got me curious...

2010-11-26T10:16:00.002+08:00

A Natural Way to Stop Coughing...

OMG! 真的很窩心噢。。。 LOL

but then I am a very sweet person too hehehehehehehhe

Happy friday :-)

Happy Thanksgiving...

2010-11-25T15:22:00.003+08:00

“Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for awhile and leave footprints on our hearts. And we are never, ever the same.” ~Flavia Weedn

Finally I recover one of my favorite quotes (probably back in BSU days!) which, this year, don't know why all of a sudden, I'm really glad to have those who around me - both quickly go and leave footprints in my heart :-)

and they're never the same ;-)

Happy Thanksgiving~~~

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A note to my friends (and sister, of course)

My dear sister Cees and friends,

Thanks for always being there for me and accept me as who I am all these years. Although we're thousands miles away you're always in my heart and I'm indeed very grateful to have you in my life :-)

As my classmate (Lisa) said, Life is wonderful whenever there's Love around. Thanks for making my life wonderful :-)

Happy Thanksgiving ;-)

Love,
M

Apartment Hunting - Tsuen Wan Centre

2010-11-18T10:02:00.003+08:00

I figure I need to blog down my comment as record :PPP

Tsuen Wan Centre 荃灣中心

Conclusion:
Location is too far from MTR. Not familar with transportation around. Many old ppl (w/ kids too) Could consider rental (of higher floors) but will not consider as purchase.

Pro:

Dogs allowed
most building w/ a side near mountain, so air is fresh
實用面積 % is high (i think ~80%?), as the 400 sq ft i visited is similar to the size i'm living now (mine is 42xft).

Con:

Too far away from MTR. Although has green minibus ($2.5), if walking probably FURTHER away from my home to yekini's place (okay, maybe similar la, b/c 綠陽新村 (above MTR) -> 愉景新城 ->荃景花園 -> 荃灣中心)
the 屋苑 itself is old (29/30 yrs, total 16 buildings), the main elevator hall @ G/F is redcorated but individiual floor's elevator's hall is VERY OLD (similar to 南豐). All 33 different buildings i went to the individual floor's elevator's hall SMELL! >.<
price is not THAT cheap (compare with HK island, of course it's cheaper), 400ft selling 1.68M (4200/ft); 490 ft @ 2.08M (4250/ft)
it's NOT that CLOSE to work.. i took taxi from work place to there last nite and it cost 4X - i.e. as far as Quarry Bay to Causeway Bay / Wan Chai area... the main pt is i think it has very limited choice of transportation (mini and bus) to TW MTR...

Well....

2010-11-11T14:56:00.003+08:00

點解會有種厭惡嘅感覺？？

真是我變了嗎？？i mean, 只是我??

No idea.. but I sure hope this type of 厭惡嘅 will disappear real soon and don't get worse...

Thank you Paul~~~

2010-11-08T02:19:00.010+08:00

for the wonderful and thoughtful gifts from your Japan trip... although i can't join you this time.. hopefully can join next time la~ :DDD

Wine Fest 2010 @ Kowloon West

2010-11-05T01:16:00.005+08:00

post this a bit late.. only got all the copies from Isaac tonite :)

Went to the annual Wine Fest last Friday (Oct 29). Last year visited w/ Kim, Wah and Paul but since this yr they've to prepare for the JP trip they couldn't join :( But oh well, i had GREAT FUN w/ my "Wine Ghost +Fine Dining" buddies :)))

Thanks for Issac + Meiji, On On + bil mui, Christine, Anson and of course my dear classmate Howard for such a great time! Enjoyed a lot and can't wait for next wine ghost gathering!! :DDDD (and hopefully Carol can join us next time)

Happy happy happy~~ :)

下一站。。。北海道？？？？

2010-11-04T01:26:00.001+08:00

hmm... still have like 9 months to go... let's see.....

Eat, Pray and Love

2010-11-03T01:55:00.006+08:00

Went Eat, Pray and Love w/ Maggie Fan tonite. Went b/c

1. Julia Roberts' fans (yes, since Pretty Woman)
2. i'm its target audience - 所謂嘅中女囉 :P

I think it has its niche. As its major target audience i'm deeply moved and it turns out to be a tear bomb movie (at least for me). I'm not sure if Maggie really enjoy as much (ha, for someone just finished college... i'm not too sure)... i do think that watching the same alone at home is probably more appropriate.

it's about life, it's about oneself, it's about love, it's about forgiveness.... i think Julia did a great job of trying to portray the inner side of the character, audience can easily "associate" oneself w/ different parts of the movie...

but of course, i don't have that courage to be away for a whole year - as julia's best friend said - what if it didn't work? I do wanna go to italy (ha) yet probably not india and bali. it's also interesting the "western" way to see india, reminds me of my own experience while i was there....

although, i think the ending is a bit "行貨", a MUST see for rest of 中女 like me - or just lady :)

FW: 單身中女愛遊記

2010-11-02T14:46:00.004+08:00

hmm... going to watch Julia Roberts' "Eat, Pray, Love" tonite... let's see how that go...

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單身中女愛遊記

你看，要是你身邊有伴的話，是不會被人叫作中女的。

只有廿到尾近三十、和三十開外的單身女人，才會被打上中女的標籤。彷彿沒有戀愛的女人，就會未老先衰。

但事實也令人不得不承認，沒有愛情滋潤一下，倒真會叫人dry得皺紋也多出幾條。
我們可以抵賴說，因為社會實況是男少女多，所以適婚女人要找適婚男人難如登天。但，實際要探究箇中原因時，有多少位單身中女，是因為過於自矜而找不到伴侶？

自矜，白點講，就是眼角過高了。

就拿我幾位朋友來說說，她們經濟基礎好勤於保養皮膚和身材性格也不見得特別麻煩（每個女人都有自己的麻煩之處，總之不是超級煩就是了，男人請容忍點），即使不是石榴裙下臣子萬千，也至少有一兩個追求者吧？為甚麼戀愛史偏偏是空空白白的一頁？

問題在於一個包袱：怕蝕底。她們不是大呼「男人行開」的女權主義者，她們也很希望在自己想小鳥依人時能小鳥一點依人一下，只不過，她們思想太傳統，老以為女人合該生來就被男人苦苦追求，千辛萬苦追到手的才會珍惜。而且，她們也總想能一擊即中，戀一次愛就結婚生仔白頭到老合葬瑤台，愈是這樣想，就愈不敢開始行出第一步。於是就像想學游水又認為自己必定會遇溺的人一樣，永遠站在海邊，羨慕人家在海裡玩各樣水上活動。

也於是，她們所謂的愛情煩惱，永遠停留在跟某某男人曖曖昧昧的階段。

這代表她們沒有認清現實情況，沒有與時並進。現實是，適齡又適合的男人，早已被mark清光，你要不就找個小朋友，要不就埋一個聞到棺材香的富翁身，博他把遺產全留給你，否則，唯有接受一些適齡但條件上有些瑕疵的男人。

「咁好蝕底喎！如果佢第時有第二個唔要我，蝕俾質素咁低嘅男人，好唔化算啫！」看來，她們需要經過深度洗腦，才可以脫下中女的標籤。

所以我特別欣賞E。她也是個徹頭徹尾的單身中女，卻沒有整天幻想忽然有個白馬王子闖進自己的生命，她很樂意隨著緣份走，單身就單身嘛，單身也有很多樂趣和更多自由，旅行也不用就對方的喜好和假期時間。
獨身了幾年的E，最近身邊出現了一個不錯的對象。以上幾位怕蝕底的中女教她要火速行動別錯過尾班車（怕落水者在推人落水，多麼諷刺），不過她認為應該再給點時間大家，認識對方的「核心價值」，兩人都覺得適合才再說吧。

這豈止是戀愛觀，簡直就是中女應有的人生觀。

心跳加速

2010-11-01T10:32:00.009+08:00

都唔記得上一次是什麼時後突然覺得心跳加速 (i mean, for that 10 WHOLE seconds, okay, i don't know, maybe less, but feels long) LOL, but definitely not sth I had "encountered" in the last 6 months (well, at least not that i could remember) LOL

當一個男人好誠懇地用雙手捉住你嚟應承你一D嘢時，無論事請大小（有幾無聊／雞毛蒜皮嘅事都好），真係會冧到暈o架!!!

I know i shouldn't even be excited - after all it's me who's 洩咗呀！ ahahahahahha

ANYWAY, as Gerry said, still a good memory LOL

又係咁!!!!! UNLIKE ah!!!

2010-10-22T11:40:00.002+08:00

好言相向卻換來一肚氣。。。

自作孽,不可活!與人無尤!

UNLIKE UNLIKE UNLIKE AH!!!!!! X_X

曾幾何時。。。

2010-10-22T10:09:00.004+08:00

還記得曾幾何時都有過同樣嘅感受，慶幸的是當時並沒有作出 follow up 嘅慰問；也慶幸現在再見時已沒有了那夥"關懷"的心。。

也算是做得比較好吧。所謂好嚟好去。。。

I give myself a "good job" on this move on... although it really took some years to get myself to swim away from pisces. :P

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瑚說百道：種瓜得瓜

女人已想不起多久沒見他，但再見面的時候，感到他憔悴了很多。這個他，當然是跟她曾有過去的人。

聽到女人的感嘆，我們一班朋友都不以為然，因為男人其實已年過半百，老實點說已是個「阿伯」了，加上煙酒過多、夜睡、不運動和好色，不殘就怪。

從前女人在他身邊，雖也改不了他的壞習慣，但最少會供應定期湯水和強迫他散步，原來是有點功效的。

朋友看見他殘了，都說他選擇不被女人照顧是自招的，但女人卻在怪責他現在的那個她，沒有好好照料他。

真的有那個她嗎？沒有人敢肯定，只不過是女人猜想而已。

跟他見面後，女人一直忐忑不安，甚至有一刻想發短訊給他，叫他要多休息，要好好保重身體，但被我阻止了。

不是要教朋友硬心腸，只不過是不想女人枉作小人而已。是誰不能專一而令女人心傷？是誰不負責任令一段戀情無疾而終？朋友都一清二楚。就連他的媽媽也認為，如果他選擇女人，他可以很幸福，只是他放棄了這權利，現在就算是殘一點，老得快一點，都是活該的。

我相信這個世界好心有好報，但更相信種瓜得瓜這個道理。說現實一點，如今女人的慰問，應留給待她好的人，至於已過去的他，由其他人費心好了。

糊塗人

梁佩瑚

FW: 虛幻還是實在

2010-10-19T13:51:00.004+08:00

虛幻?? 還是實在?? 也許，一切一切都是虛幻 (i.e., including all the "communication media" discussed below, oh, not to mention phone calls, dinings, movies are also 虛幻。。。

唔怪知得 D 科幻片（Harry Potter, Avatar) 咁受歡迎。。。 Afterall we are all living in the virtual world..

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流浪貓之歌：虛幻還是實在

讀完健吾君寫男性朋友同時一腳踏四船，聽得我咋舌。道德上我沒有反對，但實際執行上我卻想不通。

健吾君形容這情況像打麻雀摸牌，不斷摸牌，看哪隻食胡。但我想，這樣繁忙處理四人，更像同時打四副麻雀，而同時摸牌。就算沒有愛情牽涉在內，再不上心，怎說你摸得牌來，都要用用腦吧，分分鐘會打錯牌，食胡就更難。即使志不在食胡贏錢，如此同時打四副麻雀也只會傷身又傷心吧。這玩意，我想Under 25歲的還可以Handle到，過了25歲的，一定是精力異於常人的才行。

這種玩意，現代來講男女都玩得，道德枷鎖少多了。而且有了科技，這玩意不一定要人Physically present，用SMS、MSN等來製造精神上的Presence其實也夠照了。如是者，可能性無限擴大，基本上一腳踏六七八船也是可行的。更有趣是大家看來都開始接受這樣網上Flirt來Flirt去，雖說虛幻，但卻又真實，起碼SMS的內容是真的顯現在手機上了，也有來電顯示，怎能說是虛幻呢？

但有時我又想，其實愛情本質就是虛幻的，愈是實在，就愈不像愛情。那究竟大家在追求的是虛幻的愛情？還是實在的一個名分、身份甚至是房子？這問題的答案，該留給禪師來找了。

音樂人
嘉琳

FW: 分手要狠嗎？

2010-10-19T13:47:00.001+08:00

咪係囉，咁即係點？即係無疾而終果種囉。。。。

好鐘意楊千嬅果句 "離開，不應再打搞愛人，對不對？

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亂打主意：分手要狠嗎？

「男人總是狠心。跟你做不成情人，就跟你斷絕所有的來往。」港女友人感慨的說。
這些時候，最好用他們的語言去搪塞她：「你不是很喜歡在卡拉OK唱的嗎？離開，不應再打搞愛人，對不對？」

「但是，有一個人對你很好很好，每天給你打電話，早上的時候一定會有一個早晨的（手機）Message……忽然就不見了。你不覺得太冷酷了嗎？」她說。

「他在追你啊。你OK的話為甚麼不『轉車』？」我問，直接問核心好了。反正這些話題，有完沒完，沒完沒了。「因為……」她沒有再說下去。

因為，她已經有一個快要結婚的男朋友，卻又深深明白那正印男友不可以提供這個「對她很好」的「朋友」提供的快樂，卻又覺得不想分手：「總之男人總是這樣子，為甚麼一聲不響就走了。」

「你想要的是甚麼？」我點了一杯紅酒，好像是2005年的。特意要提醒她跟現在的那男友已經交往五年：「你要快樂，抑或安定？得到浪漫又要有空間？得到定局卻怕去到終站？大家都知道這個是愛情遊戲，不想跟你交往，為甚麼要對你好？他開善堂的嗎？」

「我知道。」她說：「但朋友相互關心不可以嗎？為甚麼做不成情侶就要連朋友都當不成？」

女的知道有人愛自己，就可以隨心所欲的透支他的情感。在八十年代，很多日本女人會叫這些追求者做「足君」（開車的朋友）和「飯君」（請我吃飯的朋友），那時候的日本人有太多錢，太多時間。她失去的，不是一個朋友，或是一個男朋友，而是一個可以給自己無限量無條件榨取情感的男人，一個活生生有溫度又有血肉的男人。

讀\說書人

健吾

Account Class pict....

2010-10-05T00:53:00.005+08:00

well, i just hope that i pass the exam so no need to retake Orz... anyway.. here comes our first class pict!!! :D

FW: 瑚說百道：滿足感

2010-09-30T14:55:00.002+08:00

"...對感情困惑的朋友不要為喜歡的人找理由，若對方不找她，只因為他對她沒有興趣，沒時間，完全是最敷衍的理由。"

~梁佩瑚

A note from my 1st MBA Prof

2010-09-30T09:46:00.010+08:00

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"if you feel you are losing your passion, remember how you begin." ~Chris Chan

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a couple things about my 1st MBA professor - Dr. Chris Chan (I figure it's probably a better idea to write this BEFORE taking his exam next Monday!) LOL:

he LOVES sending email AFTER MIDNIGHT - seeing his email in the mailbox is actually SCARY - esp. the one that he sent on a SAT / early Sunday morning for a "casual case discussion" due Monday *really Orz!!!!!*
he's a financial guy - although, he has a PhD in Accounting, and this spse to be an Acct class - he spent less than HALF of his lecture time on accounting - turns out we're all doing researches on Repo 105, Delta vs SG airline cases, not to mention, the EXCITING GUCCI case (i'm actually PROUD (?) that i don't have any GUCCI thing - am just NOT into (and can afford!) those luxury brands LOL
one of his many quotes in class about accounting: "we all can hire some book-keeper to do the entries (but doesn't mean u don't need to know about it in the exam)".. Orz @_@''
he's a fashion guy - gucci shoes, burberry jeans, etc etc XDDDD (again, i don't know much about LUXURY brands) :P
one of his favorite answer "it depends" XDDD
he loves starbucks (we got extra pt for that!) hahaahahha
I've never seen any class that so eager to earn extra credits by class participation - and our favorite quote to Chris "is that a pt?" LOL
he's a typical blow water king *LOL* but he actually got the patient to led you (or me at least) to think out of the box - i can't recall any of my undergraduate professors had SUCCESSFULLY "teach" me that - it's not about mechanically how to think and do some calculations according to some rules (trained as an engineer...) - it's more about the "perspective" you take is so different - u never think u're sorely an engineer, or the purchasing manager, but u may just be an external consultant some times...
and last but not least, he sure can write tear bombs email :~)

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Date: Thu, Sep 30, 2010 at 1:31 AM
Subj: A Note

Hi everyone,

Thank you for staying late with me this evening. I want to congratulate all of you for completing your first MBA course (regardless of the exam) and for doing a very good job overall in your presentations. Not only on the cases, I can see and feel how much you put yourself into this course, working hard, wanting to learn, and do better. You may not know, as a teacher, watching you is a reward.

Some may say - good things don't last. Well, in your second year, maybe, if you feel you are losing your passion, remember how you begin.

After leaving the town center tonight I realized I had just finished teaching my last MBA class for HKU. I never thought I would have the privilege to do this for 11 years. Did not make me rich, but I know I am privileged.

Many times I feel I have lost my passion, then I remember my 11 years ago.

Thank you for giving me that opportunity. Good night.

Chris

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I know I have been whinning too much in the last month, and before reaching SECOND year actually feel so discouraged and feel like losing my passion (multiple times!), yet I'll remember how I began, it's not easy, but at least, I do feel encouraged after my very first course in my MBA - thanks and feel blessed to have such a great professor to begin the journey with. I hate the fact that Cornell SG steal him from HKU, yet i fully understand why he's "stolen" and glad he can further advance in his future :)

and now time to go back and study for the exam!!! XD

所有的節日禮品，不在乎味道，是在乎心意。。。

2010-09-24T14:05:00.006+08:00

Agree w/ 陳俊偉 that the mooncake is all about "在乎心意". Although, of course, in some sense it's very 一廂情願 for me to think that it's "sweet"...

今年中秋並沒有什麼特別嘅安排，除了因為要在課室中渡過外（咩學校嚟 ga，中秋都要上堂上到 9 點幾，仲未計放學後要傾 project。。。傾傾傾傾到成十一點幾先返家。。。), So anyway, 今年就連最"行貨"嘅 BBQ / Hot Pot 等活動諗都無諗過安排 - 真的是太忙了~~

只望多了一天不用上班可 catch up 一下功課 Orz...

Well actually it wasn't really THAT bad. Turned out last Friday I got all the ready-to-make Icy Mooncake ingredients and try my FIRST ICY MOONCAKE EVER - it was a blast and just to fool around here and there. And thanks for Yekini to come and help out *LOL*

Although someone said he got stomach ache after eating TWO of them (my friend of course la, how can you eat so much at one time ga!! 諗返都真係覺得幾搞笑！) hahaha... luckily someone's mom who happened to eat at the same time don't have any problems jae...

都係果句，係食果個人嘅問題囉，同我 D 冰皮月餅完全無關！。。。 XDDDD

hehehe j/k... at least he isn't too sick or anything like that... XD

I still haven't eat the traditional one this year, hopefully to have some when i got home tonite - well, i mean AFTER tutorial Orz... Well anyway, happy mid-autumn festival~~ (although it's way past it!) XD LOL... and hopefully next year i got someone to share the mooncakes - together...

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低等生活：錯過中秋節

由於近三星期都在海外工作，不少事情皆要遙控處理，包括電郵、訊息、信件、包裹，還有月餅──是的，月餅是需要「處理」的。

執筆之時，尚未到中秋節，但已經肯定要在歐洲度過月圓之夜。月餅卻打從四星期前開始陸續送來，有些拜託朋友接收，有些索性推掉，以免月餅留在負責收件的商務中心封塵再發霉。部分酒店改作寄出月餅換領券，要領取歡迎之至，沒空提貨便省卻浪費。

月餅，像所有的節日禮品，不在乎味道，是在乎心意。收到一盒月餅，就知道某人仍然記得我，在一個貨如輪轉、人來人去的集體失憶城市，能夠被記得是一件不錯的事。偶爾從數年未有合作的朋友處得到月餅，更帶「有朋自遠方來」的驚喜。所以，對我來說，是雙黃蓮蓉或金華火腿五仁冰皮豆茸或朱古力雪糕餡都無所謂。當然啦，若果是某某老牌酒店中菜廳的迷你曲奇皮奶黃月餅，就更好。

中秋不在港，間中無可避免，畢竟中秋節不是Global節日，而且並非是很壞的事。某年在澳洲阿得萊德度中秋，我和新加坡記者為隆重其事，跑到唐人街購買「單頭」月餅一個，在當地某著名餐廳晚飯後拿出來，像生日蛋糕般切成多份，配上澳洲甜酒當甜品享用。同枱的澳洲導遊是「月餅處女」，品嘗過後十分喜歡，覺得可媲美芝士餅或焦糖布甸。換個角度，原來月餅可打入西方甜品Menu。

旅遊飲食寫作人
陳俊偉

FW: 亂打主意：你說怎麼辦？

2010-09-21T13:50:00.001+08:00

說得也對，究竟是為甚麼，是為甚麼????????

亂打主意：你說怎麼辦？

有人的地方就有故事，香港很多人，所以香港理應有很多故事。可是，香港的故事，總像人生，總是重複又重複。

像電台節目，每次有些人打電話到電台，談到感情問題，說：「我覺得我認識了一個男生，後來發現他已經有女朋友。我覺得心很痛，打電話給他又沒有人聽，我應該如何做？」

打電話到電台，是想尋求答案。電台主持們，也許不想再說甚麼。反正這種人，已經中了一種毒，是長年來Ｋ歌給他們的毒。Ｋ歌的毒性，無色無味無臭，毒性之強，是潛伏期久。你在MP3聽，在Ｋ房唱，慢慢就發現，有一些人認為戀愛需要錐心刺骨，像神經痛，才是真正的戀愛。他們忘記了也許他們唱過「苦戀不一定浪漫，不必欺騙人」，只記得需要時就拿「喜歡你讓我下沉，喜歡你讓我哭」出來，認為所有戀愛，不是痛愛就不是愛。

電台主持露出了他們的晚孃臉和表情，說：「又是『明知他不會為你留下，但是仍然很愛他』那些事？」聽眾答道：「都不是的，但是……」之後就支支吾吾，繼續痛愛下去。

如果這個世界有神，神給人最大的玩笑，就是要你愛人，而且要只愛一個人。在手機加網絡的時代，人人出軌易如反掌，不，不用反掌，只在彈指之間就可以了，我們辛辛苦苦追逐，結果統統不會好過。為的，究竟是甚麼，是甚麼？

讀\說書人

健吾

原來係咁。。。。

2010-09-16T10:25:00.001+08:00

只好說聲 "哦。。。"

Orz...

這麼近，那麼遠。。。

2010-09-15T11:18:00.008+08:00

School started for the 3rd wk - i.e. half way through the first accounting course. Yet life in the last 2 wks felt like years... so much have changed...

went lunch w/ mom and rest of the so-called family last sat - i was upset (or i should say i AM still) as I need at least TWO WEEKS in advance for setting an "appt time" with her - and someone could just jam in and ask "if you don't mind" - er.. actually i really DO mind. I have very limited time slot (that can sync w/ mom!) and mom just suggested others to join.

FINE

Well, turn out it got even worse was that THE WHOLE LUNCH they were just talking about STOCKs and STOCKs and STOCKs!

If i know earlier i won't even bother to join. That is so sad, i don't get anything to talk to them anymore. I don't know what'd happened. but it just happened.

but of course, they talk in a daily basis (about stocks and stuffs)... can't beat that. :(

Was thinking to make it up and trying to ask mom to make moon-cake together - but she's so occupied from Friday to Sunday. She's having Friday dinner w/ some "FRIENDS" whom she's having dinner EVERY SAT (and since she has to go to another wedding dinner she reschedule that dinner to Friday) - but i mean, eat 1 wk less together will die?! Then the excuse queen said sth like "oh, it's so trouble to make it (moon cake), need to mix many different type of flours and need SIX hrs to prepare... I have some coupons for hagadaz ice-cream moon cake, do you want it instead?"

That is NOT the point. You know? I maybe really childish, but she really thinks that I just want to eat and can't buy that myself? I know i was really rude to hung up but i don't understand why she didn't get the point!!!

其實可能只是自己後知後覺，maybe she felt the same from my side a long time back so she just gave up and don't bother anymore. 只可說，一 D 已經再沒有 priority 嘅人／事永遠都會變得麻煩，無必要。。。

I was thinking if i've time to make the mooncake i may give her some, i just want her to understand, it's not that i don't know how to make it by myself...

so distant.... and that's all i have to say about that (don't have much left anyway)...

From the social circle pt of view, seems like most of the "updated" news I got for ppl around me nowadays is from facebook - yeh, i know i probably shouldn't spent as much time there anymore but on the other side other than cooking & doing laundry FB is like THE ONLY thing i do more than twice a wk that is NOT related to school (including dining out w/ friends!). @_@ Say that I'm spoil, say that it's just another excuse, but it definite release some stress out :P

So, while others may not update a few times like i do on FB (LOL), there's 2 updates particular caught my eyes which makes me really feel "這麼近，那麼遠。。。"

Oh well, again, life goes on, as Kara's quote on FB (well, although i really don't know her well at all), but this is very true:

"選擇能增進快樂和正能量的記憶內容，放棄越想越累的不快歷史，不重溫，不重演，回憶可以很美好"

Memory can stay.. but looking ahead is more important... i see clouds ahead, yet I also understand it's the only direction to go from here...

FW: 我恒我訴：手中的照片劉偉恒

2010-09-10T14:10:00.001+08:00

Totally agree - and although i'm using digital for a long time, still like to print out prints (probably TOO MUCH) :)

我恒我訴：手中的照片

聚會時大夥兒拍了幾張大合照，細心的好友特地把照片沖曬出來，分發給每位相中人。拿着照片，仔細欣賞，覺得很感動。自從進入數碼相機時代後，已很少親手收到照片，在場的年輕友人更說：「從來不會有人曬相給我。」

還記得菲林相機的年代嗎？那時相機沒有「液晶體顯示屏」，拍了照，要等到拿菲林去沖曬，才看到拍了甚麼。所以，每一次接過「新鮮出爐」的照片時，總是非常興奮和期待，但有時候又會立即變成悲喜交集：照片中的自己剛剛合上了眼；難得和偶像合照，弟弟竟然手震，令照片「Out of focus」；人人口黑面黑，原來大家都「背光」。雖然瑕疵是少不免，但鏡頭忠實地紀錄了歷史—畢竟，遺憾本來就是現實不可或缺的一部分。拿着相片，我們總是愛不釋手，翻看再翻看，甚至即場揀選最愛的一幅去曬免費的「8R」。那三十六張相片，的確比如今那「4 GB」記憶卡內三千張數碼照片，珍貴得多。

想起最近一個十分感人的MV—日本女歌手Juju主唱的《Hello，again》，故事中的老先生，望着舊照，憶起老伴，重溫某年某日某一刻，當時的心動、喜悅，全部湧上心頭。照片便有這種功能，縱然它已泛黃了，有點模糊不清，隱約見到一兩滴的淚痕，印着兩人的指模，還被蟲侵蝕了一小角，我們都不會介意，因為它們都是歲月留下的痕迹，是框框以外的故事，亦是照片最寶貴之處。而這些，都是不能透過屏幕顯示出來的，更不是單憑在Facebook按一下Tag便可保存的回憶。

導演及電台主持

劉偉恒

FW: 瑚說百道：不應理智

2010-09-09T13:03:00.000+08:00

我比較幸運（or not?），不是"人"的問題，只是 timing i suppose, Glad class diverts attention a lot (still have hard time catching up w/ survive basics like EAT and SLEEP) but qty of 不理智事 is "improving"

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聽到女人回覆了久不久才找她一次的男人的電話，我馬上說一些看不起她的話，再聽到她跟他約好見面，我想只是差一點我便要鄙視我的好朋友了。

為甚麼要這麼偏激？因為以種種迹象看，我、女人和圈子內的朋友都認為男人的目標異性不止女人一個，他甚至沒想過會定下來，長期周旋在不同的女人堆當中，像是他很享受的事，比如說，星期一跟A約會，星期二是B，星期三是C……

如果這樣的猜想是對的，男人應該同一時間在跟五個或更多的異性約會，而女人應該是其中的一個吧！

身為女人的好朋友，我又怎忍心看見她被這樣的一個壞男人愚弄？女人坦言知道男人不是好貨，但她亦坦承她控制不了要跟他見面的欲望，所以有很多事是明知的，她也答應赴約。說到這裏，我還能說甚麼？只好嘆句我比她理智，沒想過她竟反過來教訓我說：「人生其實有很多事，是不應理智的。」就是這樣的一句話，令我反覆思考了整個晚上了。

理智有甚麼不好？理智不就是可以避免很多無聊的傷害嗎？有很多事明明已擺在眼前，難道還要戴上一副面具裝作不知嗎？活在自欺欺人的生活中，即使能間中跟心儀的人見面，又會感到快樂嗎？我不知道。

糊塗人

梁佩瑚

Dinner @ my place 8/14 & Paul's birthday Dinner @ Langham

2010-08-28T13:13:00.002+08:00

ha, too lazy to blog so just sum these 2 dinners together :) have a blast for the dinner @ my place (really had 9 dishes!!) hahaha.. but "too busy" not to take a single pict w/ yekini, clement, debbie & Paul. Orz...

Second part of the slide show was taken during last night's birthday dinner for Paul w/ his Judo friends. We had Spanish @ Langham - hmm... food is okay, service can be better, Italian Tomato cake NOT okay and wines NOT okay! @_@'' oh well, i think they've a blast gae..

anyway, time to move on and no more partying!! :(

HKU MBA O-camp

2010-08-23T22:03:00.005+08:00

Beginning of a new journey... my teammates @ challenges Ballista (giant sling shot that is) - we won w/ 350 pts! :)

Afternoon challenge - Cardboard Rickshaw - this is my team's rickshaw.... ha

RUN RUN RUN!!

it was a blast, although muscles hurt so bad today from the whole day's challenges... i know this must be the funniest thing in the next 2 yrs... getting worry (well, too late!)

Dinner Gathering @ Paul's :)

2010-08-10T00:59:00.002+08:00

Joining after the MBA causal happy hr... dinner @ Paul's place - well, eating from 8ish to 12ish LOL... hang out (CLEAN DISHES!) until 3ish! hahaha.. crazy.. but very yummy food as usual ;) KEKE

Movie review: Toy Story 3 :)

2010-08-09T01:10:00.001+08:00

Super funny, super great, not that much 3D but it's still great :)))

SWEET~~ :D

Movie review: Inception

2010-08-06T00:31:00.002+08:00

Thanks for Kim cher waiting for me since last Friday before Taiwan's trip. One of the best Hollywoods watched lately. Intense for the entire 2.5 hrs (hear my own heartbeat all the time!)! Must go!

Dreams feel real while we're in them. It's only when we wake up that we realize something was actually strange.

Indeed, i wish I could live in the dreams and not wake up some time... Sigh

向台北出發！

2010-07-31T03:12:00.001+08:00

in 3 hrs! :D

一個了結。。。

2010-07-26T10:24:00.006+08:00

So as Cees suggested worked around the last Aug 1st deadline - and ending up sending over the last ultimate answer just blogged 2+ few wks back as the "final answer"...

只想講，有時D嘢又唔係話突唔突然，其實好多時自己一早已知道結果，只不過 difference 係幾時去確認／接受／處理一個現實+ confirmed 嘅結果。。。

一個了結。。。:~~(

CRAZY Wine Tasting Wkend...

2010-07-26T00:48:00.007+08:00

CRAZY Wine Tasting wkend with (myself) and Kim XDDDDDD kekekeke (also repost from Facebook la):

1. 2007 Apatsagi Tramini (Gewürztraminer) from Hungary

Review: Benchmark: M&S Gew
- Darker and not as clear as French
- Similar Viscosity (maybe a bit more viscous)
- Less aroma
- Drier(and a lot stronger alcoholic taste!)
- a lot stronger lychee after taste (which is good)
- price: $125 (vs $88)
- Comment: M&S still my favorite :)

2. 2007 Wiltinger Riesling (Trocken), Germany, Solar Fine Wine (Kowloon City)

- price: $198
- Comment: I never really like Riesling as I kept thinking it's usually very try, but turn out this German Riesling is very smooth, not sweet, but not dry either. A bit bitter and less aroma, this is an okay easy Riesling to me (although, not as easy as normal Gewürztraminer.) While I think this one is a bit overpriced, encourage me to maybe try Riesling after my round of Gewürztraminer study :)

3. 2007 Veldenzer Elisenberg, Riesling Kabinett - Watson's Wine

Benchmark: 2007 Wiltinger Riesling
- Color: Lighter
- Similar Viscosity (maybe Less viscous)
- A lot stronger aroma (both smell and taste, strong Plum aftertaste)
- Not as Dry
- price: $14x (vs $198)
- Comment: I like this one more, less in depth, yet very easy and similar "like" level as M&S gew! :)

(but probably this is not as good as the benchmark as it's less "depth") but i don't care, i like stronger sweeter taste wine for the moment! :DDDD

Book Exhibition 2010 :)

2010-07-24T00:37:00.000+08:00

This yr's harvest from Friday's visit: 15 books, in 3 hrs XDD can't get any further as backpack is totally packed (and sooo heavy), and that didn't buy ANY Taiwanese books as i'll get them from TAIWAN!

kekekekekke :) wanna buy more English books (generally 30% off!) and other smaller HKese books.. too bad won't make it before it closed on Tuesday... OH WELL....

Thanks my book exhibition leg for all these yrs - Yekini, to bring me in (although, u're half an hr late!) wakkakakak :D

真的想爆粗！

2010-07-21T16:41:00.001+08:00

真的想爆粗！黐 X 線!!! 已經忙到死，做乜 X 嘢仲咁 X 得閒去學事非。。。

CRAZY!

CLAM DOWN CLAM DOWN CLAM DOWN CLAM DOWN!!!!! X_X

Love in a Puff 志明與春嬌 DVD

2010-07-20T00:44:00.001+08:00

Repost from Facebook :)

有時 D 嘢是不可強求嘅 - 不過踏破鐵鞋無覓處，皇天不付有心人，終於俾我擁有咗 my best movie 2010 watched so far - 志明與春嬌

XDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD (and delivered July 25th!) XD

下一站。。。關西？

2010-07-19T09:50:00.000+08:00

MBA schedule was out last wk, checked the schedule and for some LUCKY reason only ONE CLASS per wk during Oct end *LOL*

taking off from work should be okay ;)

so, 下一站。。。關西？I mean, for real?!!?!?

The ultimate answer - 普通朋友

2010-07-09T02:09:00.005+08:00

sometimes it's not necessary to know how to answer the question, as i think this song describe exactly what's going on.. except that i'm David Tao in the song... =_=~~

==

但你說　I only wanna be your friend　做個朋友
我在你心中只是 just a friend　不是情人
我感激你對我這樣的坦白　但我給你的愛暫時收不回來
So I 我不能只是 be your friend　I just can't be your friend

懂得愛，才能享受愛 by 蔣慧瑜

2010-07-07T09:26:00.003+08:00

時間有限，感情有限，生命也有限。請學懂珍惜最重要的，放棄不重要的。

Picked this up @ Popular bookstore Monday while waiting for Natasha. Very easy and light reading, although i don't know (and haven't care!)much about 九型人格.

Anyway, recommend to those who's looking for something light and easy. I should have finish reading it at the bookstore instead of buying the same.

Haha

Love-Hate Relationship - Fast Fact

2010-07-03T06:31:00.006+08:00

Fast Fact:

Wise man said, "You can't make someone to like you, but for sure you can do plenty to make someone hate you for the rest of his/her life"...

Or at least i believe in that, and for the record, i'm DAMN good at it.
A "typical" Scorpio:
"...A Scorpio is extremely loyal and will go to the length of laying down his life for his loved ones. He has an exceptionally good memory. He never forgets an act of benevolence and always remembers to repay it. Similarly, a Scorpio also remembers any pain caused to him, though the reaction may differ. ... "
愛人往往還不如朋友。不能寬容，不能傾述，也不能原諒。她要用最決絕的話，最後悔的詞語來表態，她其實是在提醒男人：我要的只是一點溫柔而已..."

心如...刀割... :~((

Recap 端午節...

2010-06-18T15:33:00.004+08:00

So Wed was holiday for 端午節, but fully packed as usual (i don't know WHY in the last few wkends / holiday the schedule is just so fully stuffed and i really feel like 24 hrs a day is NOT enough - NOT to mention, work is actually NO WORk!!)

scary!! XD

ANYWAY, so for this Wed. day "holiday" first dash off meeting w/ Marco and Yum sir for the tutorial thing. Frankly speaking i'm very uncomfortable w/ the messy finance data... but then I think I'll still "go ahead" as I think it's also a good opportunity to learn how to run a business, with the 2 guys i can reli on...

Should be okay gae...

Anyway, so after the meeting in Hung Hom got ticket for 打擂台 w/ Peggie, Kim, and Yekini instead. it's a great and fun movie. Pretty entertaining and one can really laughing out loud! :)

Had sushi for dinner - and the dessert @ Agnes b - Sushi was 'standard' (板前壽司) but the Agnes b dessert is WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY too disappointing!!!!!!! (looks good but taste =666666666666666!!) The Coffee - MY GOSH, my French Press one is even better than theirs!! A total total disappointment!!!!!

Well, another cup of coffee from Pacific Coffee made up my coffee night when Paul joined us later :) Just hang out and chit chat w/ Yekini, Kim until I think 11ish 

Happy Day~~ :)

P.S. didn't have any 粽 this yr *LOL*

FW: 為何...遲到?

2010-06-15T17:44:00.003+08:00

b/c“早上起不了床，晚上下不了線”。

XDDDDDDDDDDD

Happy Birthday to my dearest Edward & Vicky~~

2010-06-07T10:46:00.002+08:00

Glad be able to catch up with both of you - i know i know, every yr my wishes to you are the same（身體健康、心想事成、愈 earn 愈多錢 & 你返嚟先補返份生日禮物給你 (to Ed)、老公錫晒妳 (to Vicky), haha, but all are from the bottom of my heart ga! :) keke

How much I wish I can celebrate this special 6/6 day w/ both of you together :) hahaha, miss you both! :)

A relaxing (and marvelous) wkend!! :D

2010-06-07T09:27:00.006+08:00

So, i couldn't insist on my "瀟灑" and ruled by the heart for the whole wkend since Friday! *LOL*

Anyway didn't do much during Sat. - catch up some sleep as usual!! *LOL* Did go out dinner w/ Marco & Ken to con't the tutoring centre discussion. I think we'll "go" for it, just a matter of putting things down (and pay)...

Next "Board Meeting" is on Sunday, will see how that goes...

and for Sunday I did get up "early" b/c a machine phone call from 3 V_V~ Don't you just hate phone service provider's cold call?!?! grrrrrrrrrr~~ Anyway, so FINALLY i did vaccum my place! WAKAKAKAKAKAKa, and done loads of laundry as usual (don't understand how in the world i've so much laundry to do every wk - although, i don't mind as doing laundry is one of my favorites housework!) kakakakkakaa)... SO ANYWAY, was thinking to meet up w/ yoyi -> Kim but "last minute" arrangement so missed meeting yoyi... *oops* OH well....

While bringing Elvin for a walk around 2ish (before i go out!) found that the weather is just so marvelous that i couldn't resist to bring him for a little walk by the harbor :) Ha, although the walk was cut short XDDDDDD

After tea @ MK went to Kim's for dinner - felt very speical as i'm the only one having dinner w/ her and her parents (LOL) i guess kim cher isn't that mad at me! kekekekeke~~ seeing her w/ her parents reminds me i haven't have dinner w/ mom for a long time lor @_@''''

Oh WELL~~~

Take off early and got home around 11-ish (yes, kim's place is way too far out! *LOL*) Oh, wkend is just way too short!! we should all have a THREE days wkend! *LOL*

關於瀟灑。。。

2010-06-04T21:58:00.004+08:00

其實，我真係唔係咁瀟灑!! 不過，我亦知道拖泥帶水的事不應做。。。

That's All I've to say about us...

2010-06-04T17:34:00.002+08:00

As one of my favorite quote from Forrest, That's All I've to say about us...

OMG Bingo!!!!!!

2010-05-31T17:29:00.001+08:00

:DDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD writing for the official letter!!!

yahoo~~~~

Movie review: I Love You Phillip Morris

2010-05-31T00:46:00.003+08:00

So as previous blog interested to know how Jim Carrey "transform" in this new movie - I Love You Phillip Morris. So chk out this movie w/ 朋友仔 today after a quick dinner at Times Square food court (yeh, you heard me!)

I think the movie become "funnier" as it talks about the "love" between a gay couple - I would say, Jim's acting is really "touching" and i'm well convinced that they're a gay couple *LOL* While it's quite "light" (ridiculous here and there), it does have some moment that is touching and caught breathing - well "use" of silent moments, i would say quite intelligent for the director / writer and even the actors to touch up the movie overall. Amazing it's based on a true story, i think maybe the storyline can go a bit further (vertically) rather than just rushing though the yrs....

i wouldn't say it's as entertaining as some of the recent movies i've watched like 飛砂風中轉 or 志明與春嬌 (probably also b/c of the localization), yet still nice to see Jim Carrey's change (and improved) actings. well, good for a wkend movie i would say :)

Coffee Optimization

2010-05-24T06:57:00.002+08:00

Ops 今早香港早晨賣廣告 - so D咖啡焗多咗一分鐘! the coffee is more acidic and less thinner (not as 厚)....

hmmm...... time to buy a timer? :P

Movie season!?

2010-05-17T14:00:00.003+08:00

OMG so much line up to pick from....

I love you Phillip Morris (interesting to see Jim Carrey trying new role!): May 20
A Nightmare on Elm Street (猛鬼街): May 20
Dear John: On now...
Nodame Cantabile The Movie II (交響情人夢最終樂章電影版後篇): May 27
Greenberg (Ben Stiller!): May 27
Eat, Pray, Love (Julia Roberts!!): Sept 23

not including the below just watched recently / planning to watch XDDD

Iron Man 2: watched... I dont' remember April 30th i think... XD'
Let the Right one in: watched yesterday may 15
飛砂風中轉 (Once A Gangster): May 20 (will watch on May 21)
維多利亞壹號 Dream House: Will watch on May 22

CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! XDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD

a busy day...

2010-05-17T02:41:00.009+08:00

have been planned for the day for like a WHOLE WK - but nope, still not as planned b/c Elvin is sick and NO Dr.'s appt until 15:30

:( was pretty upset about it, but afterall, still has to take Elvin as the priority....

for elvin's, the infection part is kinda "expected", i'm kinda annoyed that the Dr. doesn't know why he lost his appetite (the Dr. himself said the infection shouldn't affect that)... i think it's kinda "irresponsible" that they just change his food from dry to can food (just afraid that he'll no longer eat the dry stuffs!).... grrrr... actually tonite he starts eating those alternative organic food - just won't touch the Hills

it's a new bag just ordered like 2 days ago.. what i'm going to do w/ it @_@

anyway, as long as Mr. Elvin the Boss is eating i guess that's nothing else i should be complaining *LOL*... need to take him back for inspection next Sunday..... OH WELL... finger cross all is fine....

after taking elvin home got changed and head to MK rite away... for the movie Let the Right One In? Ten thousand "not wanted to watch la"!!! OH WELL, yet turn out it wasn't as bad as the trailer (LOL) actually it's kinda boring from time to time - and afterall - cher, just tell me it's a vampire movie lor! wakakakkakakakakaka there's some scenes that freak the heck out of me V)V and i mean, it's kinda disturbing they're talking about "kids" love (@ 12 / 13 yrs old.. i mean, come on.. i'm not interested seeing them like naked or anything)....

i guess once in a while u just have to watch sth difference, haha :P

then head to Yata for the French Press - actually, it didn't take that long - already have the target and just pay pretty much (someone is chking the quality for me anyway!) haha, never feel shopping as "easy" XDDDDDDDDD

Dinner was fine.. i mean, considering w/ that price range it's okay... the only bad thing is that they don't have tiramisu, coffee isn't strong enough @_@, and ha, they DO kinda kick you out @ 23:00 (er.. it's about time! come on!)

haha

it's very comfy to being around w/ Virgo, always feel the carefree as u know he must take care of the stuffs around... very straight fwd and stable I spse? maybe a typical virgo? feel kinda spoiled actually as a scropio usually have to take in charge of this and that... yet... the chemistry is still missing? (or still too weak?)

hmmmm.... let's see.....

A decade....

2010-05-13T02:25:00.003+08:00

Wow if i didn't rmb it wrong today is the 10th 'anniversary' since i officially graduated from Purdue.., wow, i mean, it feels LONG ago but in many sense it doesn't seems THAT LONG (Ha, am i making any sense?) lol

Like BHS how much i wish i could re-visit the same old place in this 'special' milestone.... yet think again i got really spoiled for going back to purdue campus for THREE times in the last decade! So i guess i couldn't complain more :)
i don't think i've achieved enough in the last 10 yrs, i mean, i think i've 'evolved' a lot, but probably not pushing myself hard enough! Hope i can be stricter to myself from today's onward, for the next 10yrs, and many more decades afterwards.....
Proud to be a boiler - Purdue is a place filled with memories (although fading day by day) yet it is THE place which made a very important part of who i am today, from values, identity, friendship...

Proud to be a Boiler, Proud to be an engineer from Purdue (for a short career) Hail Purdue~~~
HK May 13, 2010 02:52, upload via LG mobile

Labor Day wkend Gathering: Movie, Dinner & Drinks :)

2010-05-03T03:23:00.001+08:00

BV moving from KB to KC, turned in the HKU MBA application RIGHT before Friday deadline and started out Sat w/ some major cleaning XDDDDDDDDD having been looking forward to this gathering sooo badly! actually just did the basic cleaning so i wouldn't say it's a "major" one XD Then went to Festival Walk for Iron Man 2 - i wouldn't say the story is GREAT, but many things in it are just "ying" lor XDDDDDD a funny comedy, nice refreshment! :DD

alright so after movie here comes the "best" part of the day - WINE gathering @ my place XDDD... Skin goh INSISTED to cook but i'm really afraid he'll JIP me b/c no cooking tools (wakakkaakka) so ONLY cooking simple stuffs like chicken wings is ALLOWED *LOL* (alrite, i don't know how that fish come in!) XDDDDDDD

For the wine, other than our favorite Gewürztraminer (opened and finished 2.5 bottles!!!), also opened the Gavi from Marks & Spencer (a bit sour, but can compare w/ a average house white in a bar), also Kim cher's sake - this one.. well, i guess i'm just not one really like sake in general, just one glass i go back to my Gewürztraminer XD

while skin goh is busy in and out cooking for us *LOL* we've watched sammi's love mi concert after regular TVB boring tv (it was some drama's last episode, every one of us CLAIMS not chasing but so engaged when it's the LAST episode!) wakakkaka... also played UNOs (don't remember when was the last time played - oh, during New Year's eve when yekini, chun & ed were here?!) hahahaa... but last nite every one was just too wing / drunk that keep getting penalty of 3! hahahahahahaha

happy times (alrite i know the song's lyrics are too sad for this happy times.. but i really like the song wor):

Although i got bruised knees and the last part of the nite wasn't easy (someone got wine poison and deep down i was really kinda freak out).. hahaha.. but glad turn out all is well at the end :) Thanks for demonstrating by example XD now i know whenever someone is having a wine poison, i'll keep his feet up, keeping him warm (including 2 heavy blankets + heater @ a 2Xdeg C temp!!), lots of HOT HOT sugar / honey water (NOT TEA okok!), HOT tower, double up plastic bags XDDDDDDD

what's more amazing, a drunk guy is totally conscious, just he can't control his body bor (and all of the above was told by the drunk guy to 2 "ah 4" trying to "rescue" him)

LOL

Tonight's treat - Vin d'Alsace Gewurztraminer, France 2008

2010-04-06T17:20:00.005+08:00

so although have to work tmr i decide to try the gewurztraminer i got yesterday :)

Turn out I like this as of the last one! (if not more!!) This is the 2nd gewurztraminer I've - I like my white fruity, sweet and NOT dry. This gewurztraminer i tried tonight has a strong lychee smell and after taste (stronger than the 1st i remember!), very fruity, and sweet. I think maybe a bit TOO sweet but it's still okay :) not dry at all (in which, come to a surprise as Alsace is usually dry accordingly to wikipedia)

Its taste is very easy and before i know it i've already finished 1st glass (ha, and now on 3rd glass)... definitely one of my favorites - and it's only $98 a bottle!!! Must on my "buy a case" list :)

Drink Drank Drunk

2010-04-05T20:11:00.004+08:00

After 大食會 @ Kim's 同個 friend 傾起酒經, 撩起我 D 酒癮 *LOL*

So today went to Sai Wan Ho and hoping to get a few drinks from Vino - but man, they're CLOSED AGAIN (i wonder if they're still in biz!!!) oh anyway, so my friend told me Marks & Spencer actually got some nice white so instead went over for a visit - and here's my "harvest":

From the left (the regular bottle)

Gavi, Quadro Sei Single Estate, 2008, Italy ($68)
Never try this before, recommended by skin goh. will give it a try later
Chardonnay, Barossa, 2008, Australia ($98)
This should be pretty safe as chardonnay is always one of my favorites :)
Gewurztraminer, Vin D'Alsace (Affelation Alsace Controlee), 2008, France ($98)
Gewurztraminer is one of my favorites' grapes, already in the fridge now and will try later tonite. ;)

From the left (the smaller bottle)

Chardonnay, Vin de pays D'oc, 2008, France ($25)
Sauvignon Blanc, Alta mira, 2008, Chile ($25)
this one is recommended by the M&S guy, he's the one who "reminds" me that getting 6 bottles will get 12% discount! hahaha... so will try this before my Gewurztraminer
Semillon Chardonnay, South Eastern Australia, 2008 ($25)

The overall experience in M&S was nice - i was looking at Gewurztraminer and this M&S guy already recommend a few selection :) and 6 bottles (even small one!) will have additional 12% off! cool~ the total is only HKD$300.9 after discount! not bad at all (w/ this amount i probably only got 2 @ Vino's!) too bad M&S doesn't have a cheese section to go w/ the wine(and i forgot the name of the cheese we tried @ Sky Lounge the other nite).

oh well, it's okay :) Drink Drank Drunk XDDDDDDDDDDD

Movie Review: Love in a Puff 志明與春嬌

2010-04-05T17:31:00.005+08:00

there's quite a few interesting movies showing during Easter holiday. Chosen Love in a Puff to begin this 5 days wkend with:

The story is a very simple love story, so simple that may happen daily around us. It's very light, not as heavy as 歲月神偷. Although the movie is almost 2 hrs, and the story itself doesn't have much 'climax", it's not bored at all as the best part of the movie are the actors' conversation in between - which did a great job to draw audiences' attention all along. Those Hong Kongese type of jokes really makes the night! :)

For the actors' performance I think Shawn (余文樂)'s acting is the best -very natural and a lot better than I remember, really "眼前一亮"... Miriam is okay but i think some times she's still a bit "too much" and over.

From the ghost story setting at the beginning (i thought i went to a wrong movie! great joke from 彭浩翔!), to smoking inside 7-11 (for real??), "ga-mei" smoke (hahahah), or "in 55!W !" ;) I've enjoyed this movie A LOT, although I'm neither a smoker (nor a "regular" foul language users) *LOL*

really love this 小品, gave you a very warm feeling, just brighten up your day! :) guess b/c of all the 親切 local jokes. A great dating movie (if your other half doesn't mind the foul languages) LOL this is one of the funny clip at the end (warning: content is rated R with sexual and foul languages) XDDD

《志明與春嬌》電影精彩片段 - 愛情入屋之乜x都冇

I am not sure about the earning for this movie, however if HK movies keep up a standard like this I'm sure more ppl will go to watch them in cinema more often, rather than just those big hollywood one.

Chung Nui Sei & Great news from Vicky!

2010-03-02T03:16:00.005+08:00

I had so much fun tonite from dinner + k with some of my secondary schoolmates: paul son, flying cloud, mong kwan & swing.

I can't even remember when was our last gathering - maybe last time when allie was back visit HK? was a long time ago. i mean i meet up with paul son and flying cloud every once in a while (plus msn / facebook) but really haven't got any face-to-face gathering with mong kwan & swing probably since graduation *LOL* I was a bit hesitate in the beginning and don't know if it'd be kinda awkward :P

Turned out that it was a blast - not only at the k part, but for the jokes we had when we were young, the way we talk to each other (aka 'inch'), the common "next destination" we share (Spain, although, my plan will be delayed until probably next yr), to "sip tai shui" (WAKAKAKKAA) i can't believe after all these yrs we still share so much similar, and more importantly, in the "present" tense - although we've different jobs and daily circles these days it's just amazing to catch up and still find so much we share the same :)

maybe afterall that's why we can be the core member of our newly set up "Chung Nui Sei"- not 中旅社，but 中女社! hahaha One of our next events will be 還神團 at the end of year! hahahahahahahaha

Actually I don't think the term "中女" is a "bad terms", as in some sense it does point out what is our "social status" LOL (and i'm looking forward to TVB's Tuesday's report on "中女告白," which will be air tomorrow (March 2, 2010 19:00 HK Time), stay tune for tvb.com rerun if you may missed it.

got home at around 1sth, checked facebook and found this great news from Vicky - she and daniel are expecting their first baby due Sept!!! OMG it's like as exciting as i knew the news of bryson! :) i'm so very happy and excited to hear about the news!

For me and Vick there's a lot happened between us when we were in school, (haha, typical college stories) haha... although all these years after graduation we have been staying in hk & chicago respectively, i feel like she's always so close in hearts and she's really like a little sis to me. I was so touched and glad i can be part of her wedding, and now she's having her first baby!! I can't really believe she'll be a mom soon!!!! hahaha.. Oh i'm so very happy for her and daniel! :) really excited and can't wait to know more about the baby :))))

Some ppl in life is for some strange reason can be so very close to you - although you're not spending too much time together - and Vicky is one of them, among many I know from Purdue :) Probably there's another reason why these days I'm still proud to be a Boilermaker. :)

Elvin's vet visit

2010-02-24T04:05:00.006+08:00

Well actually i brought him in today b/c he has this little lump on the side for a while. - it was "fine" except in the last wk or so it started to bleed - and it just wouldn't heal / stop! so today I bring him to the vet and see if there's anything can be done.

The other reason I take him in is b/c he has been quite aggressively lately - I'm not sure if it's still b/c of moving to the new place (but it has been almost 3 months!?) or whatever the reason.. i just feel that he's not "normal" / happy lately?!

OR, just that i never have a chance to spend more time w/ him until recently V_V~~~

anyway, so the vet said Elvin may suffer from anxiety - it's NOT going to be cure by itself - only get worse if neglect the illness!?!? The vet suggest to start the medication right away and gave him 2-month supply of Clomicalm. He emphasized it's for temp only and not a permanent solution.

er.... i just know now there's actually medication for dog's emotion problem *LOL*

anyway so I started Elvin's medication once got home and he seems "calmer" - wait, i don't want to "calm him down" b/c he's hyper or anything?! V_V anyway the vet said the first few days Elvin may feel more drowsy. I also read some of the info from the web and feel better (er, at least it's FDA approved!?)

The vet also said that the little "lump" is a common skin problem, one shouldn't worry about it UNLESS it starts bleeding (Oh great V_V).. what we have to do is to have "a small surgery" to take it off, maybe a few stitches @o@

Since we've to put him to sleep in order to do the "surgery", the vet also suggested to wash his teeth as well, Oh, and along w/ a regular blood test (b/c he's over 8 years old)...

sure sure.. just get to the point that don't wanna miss out "anything" - just do everything in ONE SHOT and make sure he's all OK - before it's too late...

I think I start getting the anxiety from him already X_X haha..

Well, for sure it'll be a 4 digit bills waiting for me! (OH NO!!) well, just hope it's not MORE than 4 digits @_@'

Afterall, it's my son, he's snoring now so I guess he'll be just fine real soon :)

spam...

2010-02-22T04:13:00.003+08:00

how annoying that suddenly some stupid spam appears again on my blog - and on some of the very old post (like back in 2005!) er.. i think i "let go" a few in the past but NOPE, not tonite! *LOL*

so i went through the email notification and deleted the stupid AV ad (4 in a row!) yet, make me read back some of the old blogs (Tonite's treat... Marques Casa Concha, London Terrorist Attack, Scorpio or not and APM)

Quite interesting to "refresh" my memories... those were the good old days....

maybe it's time for me to write more again, at least i've something to read 10 yrs from now *LOL*

Farewell 大結局 X 5。。。

2010-02-13T02:15:00.010+08:00

Do you ever feel lost when the TV shows you've been following come to the end - sometimes the ending is so terrible you'll give a "boo", or sometimes u don't know what'll be next, and if u will like it or not... just have to adjust that the"familiar" theme songs won't be playing at certain time slot anymore... just fill with "uncertainty" and you've to adjust all over again????

I've a habit whenever I'm home I'll turn on the TV - instead of watching what exactly is the program most of the time I'm just kind listening to whatever is on. And so yes, i've been attached to the TV quite a bit these days (since i'm always home! *LOL*)

SO ANYWAY, today is the last weekday before Chinese Tiger New Year on Sunday (Feb 14), and for some reason tvb air the last episode of ALL of its drama "on purpose" (no matter it's day time or after midnite)! So in ONE day i've gone through FIVE farewells for some of the dramas which have been my "company" for the last 2 wks or so (whenever i'm home)... :

天下第一 (10:30-11:30)
鳳凰四重奏 (12:00 - 13:00)
畢打自己人 (20:00 - 20:30 - tonite's: an hr)
五味人生 (22:00 - 23:00)
人間蒸發 (00:30 - 01:15 - tonite: until 02:00)

Let's talk about 畢打自己人 first - although the show has been on for 1.5 yrs, as some of you may know not until lately i've been following this daily half hr episode (since i'm home). I think the ending is a bit funny/ridiculous (er.. a bit "ng hai fa" feel)... but it feels like u really know the characters as someone you know, and it's always sad to farewell and say goodbye - but at least it's a happy ending that 殷賞 (毛舜筠) finally marry with 余家昇(黎耀祥) I especially LOVE 余家昇's character :) Other supporting characters like 閆器 (陳鴻烈, past away not too long before the sitcom ends), 包公包國仁 (徐榮), Marco (趙永洪) are some of my favorites as well

天下第一, 鳳凰四重奏 and 人間蒸發 are re-runs. I don't even remember when was the first time they air 天下第一 (chked record it was 2007) - NOPE, don't remember ANYTHING about it. It's not that great anyway so didn't miss much *LOL*. The only good thing i would say about this is that 劉松仁 acts very good all along (nope, absolutely i'm NOT a 郭晉安 fans). I remember when 鳳凰四重奏 & 人間蒸發 were first air but never a big fans: i think 鳳凰四重奏's backbone is interesting (talks about the women's role in the society though 4 generations), but each story is kinda weak and not linking / adhere well.

人間蒸發 - well, the only reason i was following is b/c i've my TV on *LOL* i used to think 吳美珩 is very pretty but after watching this i think she is just NOT TOO GOOD in acting *LOL*

For 五味人生, one word - BORING!!!! it's so boring that actually every nite during this time i surf around different channels - ha, maybe b/c i just don't like 郭晉安 :P

next Monday - Wed will be having special programs for the CNY celebration - so by Thursday it'll be another "start" for other sitcoms.... hmmm.. maybe i should watch less TV and read more books :DDDDD

P.S. Other than watching TV, i also got a hair cut, went for facial :) and walked around the Flower Market - and get myself a pine tree! a lot achieved in a day!! :D

Slide.com - music off!

2010-02-13T01:24:00.002+08:00

grr.. how can one ask slide.com slide show DON'T PLAY THE MUSIC automatically?? u see there are like 3 slides show i've posted previously but man, it turns out to be a DISASTER when all the songs are playing together!!!

I think i've chosen quite a nice background songs but it just wouldn't do it if i've to post it here.. oh well, i'll just take off the songs :((((

水瓶座。。。

2010-02-13T00:34:00.000+08:00

水瓶座。。。 interesting OT....

Watching Pretty Woman, again

2010-02-11T23:50:00.003+08:00

Definitely one of my all times favorite - ok ok i know i know it's a VERY OLD movie, and i don't even know how many times i've watched this *LOL* yet every time it's so tempting to watch it all over again - no matter it's the silly fun here and there, the great songs in the movie, or the "just right" conversation / reaction from Barney (Hector Elizondo).... just feel so touched every single time when Vivian (Julia Roberts) left Edward (Richard Gere), or just edward going up the stairs rescues his princess...

yes it's a fairy tale, but who doesn't want a fairy tale in their life?

OMG facebook is down!!!!

2010-01-08T17:01:00.004+08:00

OMG i'm so addicted to Facebook, even more than MSN!!!

not a good sign... hey, when are they going to fix it!??!?!? grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Love Mi - Jan 2010

2010-01-03T03:10:00.002+08:00

OH my gosh such a great show (and i'm still HIGH HIGH HIGH) *LOL* can't wait until tmr nite for the LAST SHOW (and yes, i'll be seeing the SECOND time!) :DDDDDD

Farewell 2009 - and welcome Two Thousand and Ten

2010-01-02T01:50:00.002+08:00

It has been a rough yr for the rest of the world for 2009, for me, a new chapter begins at the end of yr...

Thanks for those who have stand by me in the past year - no matter u only live 2 MTR stations away, or thousands miles between us, thanks for always being there when i just need a shout, and u know u're always in my heart :)

Begining of a new chapter - Christmas 2009

2009-12-27T02:55:00.003+08:00

haven't blog for ages :P

lots of changes in the last month, house, job... Just begin a new chapter in life. Glad though, spent quite some great time with my dear friends in the last week or so.

I'm grateful for all those around me, truly. I'm thankful for those who loved me, and still loves me these days - including those who are thousands miles away. Although we may not be seeing each other as much as we want, i know deep down we're close in heart.

A new beginning, a new chapter in life... May life be good to you all, and a great year 2010 ahead~

FINE!

2009-11-12T17:32:00.007+08:00

Task: ask one supplier to see if stock is available

Feedback: supplier said he has huge shortage and need think about it and reply tmr

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Reporting to mgmt:

Me: He said he has to think about it and ask me to call back tmr, 不過我覺得"聞""聞" 哋...

Boss: (又開始罵) 你唔好話俾我聽 "聞""聞" 哋，人哋都未答實你你就話人哋"聞""聞" 哋，唔怪得一定無啦，有都變無啦...（下刪 XX 字）

Me: （無奈） FINE

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請問我可以點樣處理得好 D??？

It's not that I won't follow up tmr, I just think that this is also my part to tell her what the supplier's tone.

Forget to mention - Boss is always right... Damn....

China National Holiday - 60th Anniversary - 國慶 60 年

2009-10-01T23:16:00.002+08:00

We all got a day off today in HK for the 60th birthday for The People’s Republic of China. with someone KINDNESS to give me a *scary* wake up call early this morning @_@ I actually got a chance to watch the live military and civilian parade from Beijing.

Shame to say even after a decade I've return to HK I still haven't been a big fan / loyal to my "country" so far - esp. for the "facts" i learn from all the coverages for the recent 50 yrs Chinese history from the recent special programs. I don't really feel the "excitement" when I see the military parade, just an "observation" if u know what i mean (actually i've to confess i did fall asleep in between!) :P

I would say I really think China has improved A LOT in the last decade (and i really mean it). I do feel thankful that the recent leaders like current President Hu Jintao, or former President Jiang Zemin, are actually very "open" and I think they do contribute to today's strong China. yet it's still trouble me when I see they way they "respect" Mao Zedong thoughts and socialism...

I really have no insight for any political view, but afterall they're still a communist and ran by 1 party. It's just "creppy" on how they make the kids to perform and the way ppl don't think if u know what i mean...

It'll be interesting how the communist party carry forward for the next decade...

Movie review: The Time Traveler's Wife

2009-09-27T02:28:00.008+08:00

Watched The Time Traveler's Wife today. I think the story is so-so (at least not a high school type of romantic story!) LOL :P The title is about the "wife" but actually the movie focus more on the "Time Traveler" - which i don't mind as Eric Bana as Henry is probably the reason keep me awake in the movie :P (he's absolutely cute and hot!! and i think he looks kinda like Fong Chung Sir! haha).

And would be a much better movie if the ending isn't a SAD one @_@...

Didn't do much after i got home from the movie. ONE BIG achievement is that Mickey Mouse is officially GONE! Thanks to the super sticky mouse glue!!! :DDD

Oh also the Renting deal in Quarry Bay "Bun Hoi" building has not concluded - i just can't give up my 4X6 bed! Oh well, just need to keep hunting i spse

and i better go to bed like RIGHT now... need to go to the Purdue vs. ND game tmr at 8 AM! (no, i'm not going to be there on time.. maybe 9!) HAHA

8 號颱風的日子。。。

2009-09-15T05:52:00.001+08:00

so 1st day "back to work" and spse to go to DG today - but ha ha, still typhoon #8 and will likely to remain until 10 so i don't think i've to go! HAHAHAHAHAHAH

well, wait, i hope i don't have to go at 10.... hmmmmm